I actually get Lucies point.
I had an awful time at school and college with girls.
I am from a very close catholic family. All my cousins are boys. I grew up playing football, rugby, cricket, kick boxing etc. I was constantly told I didnt really like those sports. I was just doing it so boys would see me as 'cool'. Or asked if I really wanted to be a boy or was I a lesibian. All by girls. The boys didnt seem to care at all.
My mum always made me grow my hair, it was lovely but i didnt really like it at the time. I remember being teased one day when I was 15 because I wore it down. First time I had ever worn it down and the popular girls descended on me like a pack of wolves all day. In lessons, walking to lunch. They would ask me who I was trying to impress and did I think it really looked good, because I was wrong. I cut off a few weeks later, because I felt embarrassed and ashamed.
So I grew up thinking I just didnt get on with girls. As I got older. I realised that I was just unfortunate to know a lot of girls who didnt like that I was different and assumed there was a ulterior motive to me doing what I wanted to do. The boys at my school and college just happened to not care.
Now i am older and mixed with lots more women, i realise that some women are drama llamas and bitchy. So are some men. Some men are great, some men think they are superior or threatened by a woman who does what she wants. So are some women. It's about people, not their sex.
Unfortunately, I see my niece who is massively into a Male dominated sport going through a similar thing at her school in year 6. Her friends telling her she shouldnt be doing the sport, that she is only doing it so boys like her etc. But at least the school is actually doing something about it now.