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Graphista · 09/11/2018 20:11

Anyone watching? I've a 17 yo dd and I think it'll be fascinating.

On a practical level dd would absolutely cope, she can cook, clean, do laundry etc.

Emotionally? I think she'd find it difficult.

She's almost 18 (in a few months) and sometimes talks about "when I move out" threatens to leave so she can do what she likes

But when it comes to crunch I think she still prefers not having the responsibility.

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Sparklingbrook · 09/11/2018 20:13

I am watching.

I think DS2 (16) would be fine. Did I hear them say they had £140 for 3 days?

Sparklingbrook · 09/11/2018 20:19

Uh oh, make up line. Grin

makingchxnges · 09/11/2018 20:28

How old is the youngest Girl? I missed her age at the beginning

Sparklingbrook · 09/11/2018 20:29

14 I think.

Sparklingbrook · 09/11/2018 20:34

This is all most odd. Flour and eggs? Bit childish.

ReverseTheFerret · 09/11/2018 20:41

My 5 and 6 year olds know more about how to work things like the dishwasher and washer (with adult supervision) than these kids!

Adventuritis · 09/11/2018 20:43

A bit sad that clearly the expectation is that they’ll crash and burn! Not a good reflection on the parents at all! Surely at these ages they should be more than capable of functioning completely normally for a few days!! If not society has a massive problem coming soon. Even though it’s clearly scripted I think the way they’re demonising teens is tragic!

Piggywaspushed · 09/11/2018 20:44

Did we hear what jobs thes parents do? They have a noce house. It is normally very clean and swish!

I think these children are a bit indulged.

If I left mine, I'd just come home to Armageddon. And I inlcude DH in this.

Why does she have to get a taxi to school??

Piggywaspushed · 09/11/2018 20:45

excuse typos!! nice house...

Piggywaspushed · 09/11/2018 20:46

I really don't think they are demonising teens. Loads of teens could not do most of what these kids are actually doing...

Piggywaspushed · 09/11/2018 20:46

but she really does need make up tuition!

DerelictWreck · 09/11/2018 20:50

I can't got past this orange face Grin shame cus she is beautiful!

The younger girl needs a reality check though. She's horrible to her older sister Sad and a real drama queen!

MrsTommyBanks · 09/11/2018 21:17

I'm watching this on +1.
I'm fucking appalled. Wtf let's their children grow up so entitled and clueless?

Graphista · 09/11/2018 22:42

I think this weeks children have been quite mollycoddled. At their ages they should really know the basics of housework!

And what was with all the taxis?! Are they in a village in the middle of nowhere or (I think more likely) they're not used to using public transport? As for the panic of almost not getting a taxi on the last morning - my dd at that age would have known that for something so important and for a weekday morning you need to book well in advance.

"Loads of teens could not do most of what these kids are actually doing..." Sadly I think you're right - doesn't make it at all acceptable! Far too many teens now are not being raised to be independent adults - particularly boys! Too many parents are wrapping them in cotton wool and not teaching them basics of adult life.

MrsTommyBanks - how old are your DC? Unfortunately through dd I know of far too many teens who have been completely spoiled and wrapped in cotton wool! It does the children NO favours in the long run.

I've twice been a mature student at uni. The first time I noticed a few students like this - but they were very much in the minority and honestly got the rip taken out of them by others the same age.

When I was again a student it was very much the majority of them were utterly clueless about

Cooking - inc food safety to the point I'm sure many hangovers actually WERE food poisoning
Budgeting
Laundry
Hell - personal hygiene!!

It's like the parents expected them to just miraculously learn the various skills without actually performing them!

Next weeks with younger but seemingly from the clip more capable children looks really interesting.

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BigSandyBalls2015 · 11/11/2018 19:15

I liked them. The younger girl was fab and completely got out of her comfort zone. The eldest was a typical teen but very likeable.

Thought it was fab how much they loved their step brother and how they got along together.

BigSandyBalls2015 · 11/11/2018 19:16

Bit shocked about the London bit though, mine were doing that from Surrey before 14, it's really not that scary/difficult

Blondeshavemorefun · 14/11/2018 16:54

Thought I would find you on this @graphista :)

We have similar tv viewing

Haven’t seen this yet. On planner but sounds like the children aren’t used to ever fending for self

I was at 14/17

Rich families ?

Wonder if they went to a less wealthy family would the childrn be more capable

Graphista · 14/11/2018 18:59

Hi blondes yea we seem to like the same shows (on that note any Netflix recommendations - my favourites that I re-watch are all disappearing Sad)

I find programmes like this interesting if they're done well.

I followed child of our time though u think that's done now as the "kids" are mostly adults now.

From real life observation I don't think household income is an indicator BUT I have noticed that larger families the children tend to be more independent (out of necessity?)

It's just me and dd at home but I am (compared to my friends and especially where we're living now) an "older mum" plus my parents both were the eldest of big families so they were expected to help out and expected the same of my siblings and I. ("Only" 3 of us) and we tend to do what we know don't we? Usually? Or at least try and pick the best of our parents parenting.

I also was "blessed" with a fiercely bloody minded and stubborn independent child!

From about 2 she was shoving me away and "me do it" - murder! The one thing I insisted on was buckling her into car but she did a lot herself even at a young age.

She asked to be shown how to "proper cook" when she was 8/9 - we'd don't the usual baking bits until then but then she wanted to know how to cook dinners.

Then when she started high school she became a fussy bugger over uniform - Eg 2 jumpers that looked and felt the exact same to me weren't to her and there were loud arguments heated debates when I washed the "wrong one" culminating in one weekend where I taught her how to do her own laundry. She was quite chuffed she picked it up quickly and has been doing her own ever since. We have to negotiate a washing machine "rota" though Grin

General tidying and cleaning has been harder to teach as stuff can look "ok" until it really doesn't. And I'm guilty of that too.

But conversations with her friends revealed:

16+ year olds allowed to drink but not make hot drinks because the kettle was "dangerous" Confused

14+ year olds who couldn't figure out public transport timetables.

The one I had to bite my tongue was 17 yr old who'd never had sex ed (withdrawn from school classes too) but unbeknown to parents sexually active. I don't understand parents doing that. Hmm

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nowifi · 14/11/2018 20:39

I was shocked about the cabs to school and how much it cost them!

Blondeshavemorefun · 15/11/2018 21:31

Omg. THe orange tidemark. I thought it was shaza from

They do seem a bit moddy coddled and spoilt

Lovely they adore their step brother

Windycindy · 16/11/2018 21:21

All three seemed lovely, typical teenagers. I was quite surprised at how little they were used to doing, how little experience they had of normal every day things.

TheEfficientBaxter · 16/11/2018 22:01

What an immensely likeable family tonight.

Those children are so lovely - and they actually like and care for one another.

Great parents (and Dad is pretty hot too Wink)

BigSandyBalls2015 · 17/11/2018 10:42

Loved the family last night, all lovely. The way the daughter looked out for her brothers was amazing at her age.

chickensaresafehere · 17/11/2018 14:31

What a lovely family this weeks were.
Lola was so grown up & protective of her brothers,especially the way she took care of Charlie.

AllGoodDogs · 18/11/2018 18:45

I'm really liking this show. Agree Lola was so lovely, my heart broke for her at the train station, all she wanted was to get her brothers home safely. I was laughing at the amount of Fanta the oldest brother was drinking 😂 trying to fit one last can in before mum and dad got home.

The whole experience seemed to bring the 3 of them much closer too. I hope the mum has gone back to work and is feeling happier now.

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