Whilst I agree with you that behaviour deteriorates without firm boundaries, I really cant agree with the comments about not needing a pastoral team.
I’ve been teaching for 15 years and kids need that team more than ever. It would be lovely if all parents were kind, supportive and understanding, but it’s simply not the case. Sometimes parents are out of their depth (having never experienced the issues that they might be faced with) and they ask us for that support. Besides, we see students a lot and have a huge duty of care for them. I don’t want to pack them off home and have them think no one cares.
Where would you send a child that was having a panic attack in an exam? What would you do with a student refusing to go into a room because of bullying? How about the student that has received abusive texts overnight? We are teaching- we need the pastoral team to handle this stuff. All three of those happened at my school today. I don’t mean to be arsey, please don’t think that, I’m just so frustrated with our lack of resources to help students that are breaking under the pressures of modern life.
What we need is more money in education all round. Sadly, I don’t see that happening.