Watching this has made realise how bad my brother must have felt when compared to me. I was the one with higher than average intelligence according to my mum. They did an IQ test but I did not know until I was 14 I think.
My brother has always been more artistic. He learned to play musical instruments on his own, is good at drawing, dancing and I can't do any of this. But that was obviously not good enough for my dad.
I was the one who loved books and that's why my father and I were very close.
I was also told by my mother (only after I grew up) that I was (?)hyperactive... so now I also feel bad for my parents, it must have been hard for them.
I have lots of problems with social skills read rudeness. I saw myself as a child when I saw Hugo. What he said to the interviewer: I thought you learned English at school, reminded me of something I said to a Dr when he misspelled a word: I thought you had to study for a long time to become a Dr (where I was born it takes seven years to do medicine, just the undergraduate).