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Duke of Edinburgh scheme

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Welshmum2010 · 05/06/2025 09:28

Is anyone else’s child doing this ? I had always thought this was a sort of charity thing and was to encourage kids who wouldn’t have much oppertunity to be outside or do sports and activities. Turns out the cost makes it the opposite. It’s cost £100s for camping fees, registration and equipment. Also the sports element needs to be something that can be measured so there’s a cost for sports clubs. In my daughters school all the kids (as far as I can tell) are the ones who are already sporty or do other activities out of school. It’s a real shame as I thought it would be helping those who can’t afford these experiences usually.

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EBearhug · 06/06/2025 00:35

I did it through my swimming club about a million years ago, which meant the sport was easy, and I did lifesaving and then teaching swimming as my services, which had the added bonus I could earn money with the qualifications I gained, and I was teaching some lower classes at swimming club. I still swim. And because of lifesaving, I still volunteer as a first aider at work, decades on - I just requalified last week.

My silver skill was driving, so I did something I would have done anyway, but it was definitely out of my comfort zone. Obviously that's not an option if they're still under 17, but I don't think using something you are already doing or will do is bad - you have to show improvement. There are lots of options, not just things from school.

My gold residential was related to the career i thought I was going to go into, as was the expedition project (but ultimately i haven't done that career, because of needing to pay bills...) I did my gold sport at uni (trampolining) and my gold skill when I was working - I learnt a language at evening classes. I had done all the things relying on being in a group, particularly the expedition. It was the last bit left to do, and it seemed silly to let it all go just for that last bit before I hit the upper age limit.

It can be very bonding - I'm still friends with two girls from my expedition group, and we're in our 50s now. I think the expedition can show all sorts - planning, resilience, quick thinking, dealing with adversity, team work, physical stamina and so on. I went on to do camps and hikes elsewhere in the world, which I might not have had the confidence to do had I not done DofE. None of that was strictly necessary, but it definitely contributed to who I am today. Things like scouts, guides and cadets offer similar things - the chance to try a whole range of different activities, organising yourself and your time, gaining confidence and resilience. Organisations like scouts and guides are dependent on volunteers to run it, and they also struggle because it's a lot of time for no financial reward. I am lucky I had people prepared to spend their time on me, and in turn, I do things like volunteer at a local school - partly because people did it for me.

alsohappenedoverhere · 06/06/2025 07:27

My kids don’t pay anything. Teachers lead. You need a rucksack and sleeping bag but the school has school tents. My sons is up in our kitchen and we are re waterproofing it as it leaked on his practice run.

Jcee · 06/06/2025 07:42

We've been fortunate that school organize it and have built it into their timetable. The expedition planning etc has been done during school time and school have camping equipment so we've borrowed that.

The cost has been reasonable to cover coaches to/from the base for expedition and we've had to buy boots/clothing, some of which we've been able to borrow from family.

DD is now coming to end of her silver and it's been great for her confidence. She used her existing dance class as exercise and started volunteering with the younger class in bronze and continued it through silver. Many friends did the same through their sport, dance or scouts/guides and our local parkrun has a lot of DoE volunteers each week.

Westfacing · 06/06/2025 07:53

Ted27 · 05/06/2025 12:30

A few weeks ago we went to Buckingham Palace for my son's Gold Award reception. We met some really amazing young people there for whom it had really changed their lives.
My son went straight to Gold because of Covid. He has ASD and like many other young people lockdown had a huge impact on his mental health. Doing DoE brought him back to some level of normality.
He did his through a church group who had loads of kit you could borrow so we didnt have to buy much. They also had a hardship fund and we could pay any larger costs by installments.
He did do a cycling trip to the Netherlands for his expedition which cost about £500 but he did have the option of a hike in Wales which cost less than £100.
He volunteered in a charity shop and loved it so much he stayed on after the time he had to and still visits the shop.
He did driving lessons for his skill which he was doing anyway. He didnt do anything organised for his sport - he did a lot of stuff at home with weights and went out running. We set some targets and a friend who is a PT monitored and signed it off. He did have to do another residential thing which cost £350 but there were some cheaper options.
For him the big gains were about confidence and one self belief, shaking off Covid restrictions, getting out in the world again and he picked up some skills.

Even if it's no direct benefit in terms of his CV, it's been a huge benefit in his personal development which can only help him in the future.

I was at that event with my DGS(19) it was a lovely experience and wasn't the weather very good to us also! 🌞

Ted27 · 06/06/2025 08:54

@Westfacing

Yes it was a lovely day.

Charles has a nice back garden!!

BinBadger · 06/06/2025 15:04

Wincher · 05/06/2025 23:53

My son is doing Bronze through Scouts at the moment. All we have paid so far is the DofE £28 fee plus I think £10 for food etc for the expedition. Plus we had to buy him some gear but a decent rucksack, hiking boots and sleeping bag will be useful (and he’s already used them again for scouts stuff). It’s not been very well organised compared to how it is for his friends doing it through school, but then again, a lot cheaper and actually it’s making him take responsibility for organising himself a bit. He’s doing a sport which has free local training for teens at the moment for his physical, and an after school club for his skill. Volunteering is the only problem right now as he’ll need to do that for six months as he can’t do either of the others for six months, and he’s not started it yet. He’d like to volunteer at parkrun but he runs it every week and so can’t get his hour of volunteering in as well. He’d like to help with cubs but that clashes with the sports club. That finishes next month though so he may just have to start with cubs in September.

He could still volunteer for parkrun by being a timing pacer, or do set up and first timers' briefing, barcode scanning and packdown after running, write the weekly report, sort the tokens or wash bibs or do their social media etc. Loads of opportunities to volunteer and still run! Or could he volunteer for a junior event and run the adult one?

MyUmberOrca · 06/06/2025 15:51

It's totally free at my daughter's school. Half of year 9 are doing it. The school paid the registration fee, run the expedition and own all the equipment (tents, rucksacks etc). She did the fitness element via clubs at school and got a pe teacher to sign it off so there was no cost involved there either. I think the only cost is the food for the expedition.

It does seem to be very school/teacher dependent. They've gone in for it in a major way and don't want anyone to be excluded on the basis of cost.

It's good and they've got a real mix of kids participating

CurlewKate · 06/06/2025 16:12

MyUmberOrca · 06/06/2025 15:51

It's totally free at my daughter's school. Half of year 9 are doing it. The school paid the registration fee, run the expedition and own all the equipment (tents, rucksacks etc). She did the fitness element via clubs at school and got a pe teacher to sign it off so there was no cost involved there either. I think the only cost is the food for the expedition.

It does seem to be very school/teacher dependent. They've gone in for it in a major way and don't want anyone to be excluded on the basis of cost.

It's good and they've got a real mix of kids participating

So who’s paying for it then?

anyolddinosaur · 06/06/2025 16:25

If there is a parents association then it's not unusual to make donations for DofE equipment. Paying registration fees would be a bit more unusual but a clued up school could possibly get sponsorship from local businesses.

MyUmberOrca · 06/06/2025 16:26

CurlewKate · 06/06/2025 16:12

So who’s paying for it then?

The expedition is being run by the school in school time. It was one of the activities week options. The school own all the equipment so I'm guessing after the initial outlay they've always got it to use. I think they've gone down just route to prevent kids being excluded.

It seems to be the expedition which costs a lot if they get external companies in.

There's a couple of teachers who have a lot of experience with D of E so they are organising it all

Wincher · 06/06/2025 17:27

BinBadger · 06/06/2025 15:04

He could still volunteer for parkrun by being a timing pacer, or do set up and first timers' briefing, barcode scanning and packdown after running, write the weekly report, sort the tokens or wash bibs or do their social media etc. Loads of opportunities to volunteer and still run! Or could he volunteer for a junior event and run the adult one?

Edited

He could (he does some of these sometimes anyway) but thought it had to be an hour a week? Might ask them. He’s thinking of volunteering at junior parkrun but it’s further away and would mean he never gets a lie in!

Talipesmum · 06/06/2025 17:58

Y2ker · 05/06/2025 21:12

Dd is now on silver (final expedition in July) and it has been a commitment but has learned some useful things from it so it has been worth the £400 or so cost.
Most importantly committing to six months of volunteering on a Saturday morning which she really enjoyed. It's taught her to be more organised too.

She's enjoyed the expeditions as likes camping anyway.

They should definitely offer hardship funds for those who can't afford it.

I’m pretty sure they do. There’s a lot on the website about this sort of thing. Our school said to contact them if cost was an issue.

TheaBrandt1 · 06/06/2025 18:28

Can’t believe it’s free. Those teachers are saints.

reluctantbrit · 07/06/2025 16:08

DD started it but for a variety of reasons it didn't work out.

She is a Scout Explorer and her leader ensures they do the same activities as they are exactly the same requirements as for the Platinum Scout Award. They also have the volunteering and skills portion but her leader was a lot more relaxed than the school organiser.
She has some in her group who went all the way and went to the same reception at the Palace as the DoE Gold holders.

I personally found that the volunteering brought DD the most and she does it now for 4 years.

If you DD is a cadet, can't they help with loaning camping equipment? Or search on a FB group, lots can be found cheaply.

BlackBean2023 · 07/06/2025 16:50

DD is currently doing Gold.

expedition cost (plus a practice) - £825
Residential cost - £325
Skill - driving lessons, would be doing anyway but ££!
Sport - she’s running so this is pretty much free

Silver and Bronze probably cost about £750 in total.

CarpetKnees · 07/06/2025 17:10

BlackBean2023 · 07/06/2025 16:50

DD is currently doing Gold.

expedition cost (plus a practice) - £825
Residential cost - £325
Skill - driving lessons, would be doing anyway but ££!
Sport - she’s running so this is pretty much free

Silver and Bronze probably cost about £750 in total.

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CarpetKnees · 07/06/2025 17:14

She is a Scout Explorer and her leader ensures they do the same activities as they are exactly the same requirements as for the Platinum Scout Award. They also have the volunteering and skills portion but her leader was a lot more relaxed than the school organiser.

She has some in her group who went all the way and went to the same reception at the Palace as the DoE Gold holders.

Queen's / King's Scout Award Holders are invited to a parade at Windsor Castle, not Buckingham Palace.
If they were invited to Buckingham Palace, then they achieved their DofE Gold.

Obviously there is a strong crossover as, if you achieve the DofE Gold, there are only a few extra things you have to do for your King's Scout Award, so many who are in Scouting, and do one, will complete the requirements for doing both.

Pessimist · 07/06/2025 17:54

TheNightingalesStarling · 05/06/2025 10:07

Its usually pretty much free through Scouts or Cadets

This ^

I think I paid £50 towards my Gold DofE - I think it was for camping fees. I don't know why anyone does it through a school.

TheaBrandt1 · 07/06/2025 18:24

Again you are taking advantage of volunteers. The adults who facilitate the scouts doing it are unpaid. If “everyone” did it that way no way would there be enough volunteers. In dds year the majority did d of e (though not Dd who refused). Other Dd tried to do it but covid hit and was too hard to sort.

EBearhug · 07/06/2025 18:30

Queen's / King's Scout Award Holders are invited to a parade at Windsor Castle, not Buckingham Palace.If they were invited to Buckingham Palace, then they achieved their DofE Gold.

I think it depends. My gold DofE was at St James' Palace.

DorothyStorm · 07/06/2025 18:35

Im pretty sure DofE was always for the more privileged. I do not know anyone who also wasn't taken to the theatre regularly for example who has gold. It was to develop skills needed to succeed as an adult and to give back through volunteering. It is also for the motivated.

I was gutted NCS disbanded. I was fully intending on signing up my children next year.

EBearhug · 07/06/2025 18:36

expedition cost (plus a practice) - £825

Why is it this much?

There are obviously costs - individually walking boots, rucksack, sleeping bag, rain coat etc, and between them, tent, first aid kit, cooking equipment, food. There may be other costs such as transport to the expedition location, especially as gold is meant to be in wild country, which may not be on their doorstep - but then if they're doing their expedition in wild country, why aren't they camping wild, which should be free? There's probably some insurance costs and expenses for assessors, but I'm amazed it costs as much as £825 - someone must be making a nice profit.

Pessimist · 07/06/2025 19:19

EBearhug · 07/06/2025 18:30

Queen's / King's Scout Award Holders are invited to a parade at Windsor Castle, not Buckingham Palace.If they were invited to Buckingham Palace, then they achieved their DofE Gold.

I think it depends. My gold DofE was at St James' Palace.

Gold DofE does autumn and winter ceremonies at St James's, and spring and summer ceremonies at Buckingham Palace. (Because nobody wants to be out on a lawn in November!)

HonoriaBulstrode · 07/06/2025 19:50

There's probably some insurance costs and expenses for assessors, but I'm amazed it costs as much as £825 - someone must be making a nice profit.

Expenses? Do you think the assessors are working for free?

HonoriaBulstrode · 07/06/2025 20:33

Plus there wll be admin costs. Someone has to book the coach, take out the insurance, organise the assessors, keep a record of the participants....

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