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11 year old DD just got her period for the first time and we are going on holiday in 4 weeks

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Newbeginingssameoldshite · 03/05/2024 11:59

So it looks like she may get her period whilst we are abroad. :(

She has handled her first cycle like a little super star but I'm really worried she will get her period whilst on holiday. (As it's her first we have non idea of cycle.length etc.) At 11 she's obviously using pads and I we haven't even discussed tampons yet as she is so young. Is there anything that would allow her to swim and enjoy all the usual fun of a holiday?

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MattCauthon · 07/05/2025 11:20

Newbeginingssameoldshite · 07/05/2024 12:48

Just wanted to check in and let you know i have read all your replies and suggestions. I really do not want to discuss medication at this point, but I have spoken with my DD at length about her options- ( minus the medication) and she isn't keen on the period pants/swimwear, a couple of her friends have tried them and claim they are useless! (her words)
We have spoke about tampons and she was more inclined to try these than any other option if and when her next cycle starts. I've given her a selection and a brief explanation on how they work, told her she must not try them until her period arrives and to check online for advice on how to use in more detail. ( i found them easier to use laying down for example) and also told her not to worry if she finds it difficult, there is no pressure to use them if she doesn't find them comfortable.

The holiday is a resort holiday and centers around the beach/pool and not much else to do in the day other than watersports, swim, waterpark etc.

Just an added note, how expensive is the swimwear!!! £70 for a costume... £35 for bikini bottoms.....diabolical!

Just to say - the swimwear (and pants) ARE expensive, but having tried both expensive and cheap period pants (and I assume it's the same for swimwear) there is a HUGE difference between the two. It's very possible her friends were using less good brands. You need to go modibodi or Wuka and basically that's it. The cheap ones are largely pointless unless your period is very light - I have some of the cheaper ones for using in the last few days but I've stopped even attempting to use them otherwise except occassionally to catch any unexpected overflow if I am using a tampon.

TheFunSponge · 07/05/2025 11:33

I agree that you need to pay for the decent brands especially for heavier periods.

teawithmrstillerman · 20/05/2025 10:12

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