DD 15 has been seeing a lad for only a couple of months but because we live about 40 mins away only met up with him possibly 8 times. They are at different schools.
She is besotted and talks about him non stop which baffles me as in my view she barely knows him. Most of their meetings have been her watching him play football.
Anyway, he came to our house today; very polite, very nice. They were told not to go into her bedroom but were welcome to use our sitting room which is relatively private.
I popped out for half an hour and when I got back they were nowhere to be seen. Found them in her room kissing; DD down to her bra (thankfully still in jeans).
Absolutely fuming and feeling such a mug for trusting them while I popped out. Not only do they hardly know each other; he is still only 14 and also we have always spoken openly about peer pressure, birth control and STIs.
She knows I am appalled and is tiptoeing around me but I really don't know how to handle this situation. It has so many angles to it and I feel totally out of my depth. She insists that nothing more was going to happen 
, but she must think I was born yesterday!
Everything in me wants to ban her from seeing him but that could just make the situation a whole lot worse 