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What could my dd have been up to? Slurring her words

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PinkBump2022 · 26/07/2022 15:05

My dd is almost 13, she came home last night around 7pm she’s been hanging out with some girls the same age, when she came home she told me what she had been up to a few days earlier (which I already knew) immediately I thought she’s been drinking, then she began slurring her words and we could hardly understand anything she said. I asked her if she’s been drinking she said no, I couldn’t smell any drink on her. I then worried it was some sort of drug however Iv never personally tried drugs so I wouldn’t know the effects or what seams to be popular on the street atm, so I’m worried what she could have been up to, she told me nothing at all, no drink or anything at all. This morning she was fine and not slurring her words so what ever she did wore off by morning.
any ideas anyone??

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gingergato · 26/07/2022 15:19

Edibles?

Donotgogentle · 26/07/2022 15:21

Smoking weed? Cannabis gummies?

HappyGoDucky · 26/07/2022 15:22

Hippy Crack?

Donotgogentle · 26/07/2022 15:22

In a way it doesn’t matter. She’s come home under the influence of something and she needs to be honest with you about that.

I’d ground her until you’ve been able to have an honest discussion.

PinkBump2022 · 26/07/2022 15:24

Iv tried hard to talk to her about it and asked if it was drugs she’s denied drinking or drugs and said I can do any drug test on her I want and they will all be negative

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Lightuptheroom · 26/07/2022 15:25

Cannabis cookies?

countrypunk · 26/07/2022 15:27

Being stoned doesn't make you slur your words. It gives you red eyes, the munchies and makes you giggle, usually. OP, was it in a drunk way? Could it be solvents?

JePréfèreLesChiens · 26/07/2022 15:28

No idea. But she’s 12 so I wouldn’t be letting her out again any time soon.

KindleBlanketsandmugoftea · 26/07/2022 15:30

Prescription drugs would be my guess

Tollystar · 26/07/2022 15:31

In that case you tell her that since slurring words is indicative of some type of neurological impairment (e.g. seizure/stroke) it won't be safe for her to be out of your supervision for the foreseeable, so she will effectively be grounded (and will be attending the GP for investigations). Unless she has something to tell you?

Unforgettablefire · 26/07/2022 15:33

Could it be some sort of a medical event? Any history of seizures?

MadMadMadamMim · 26/07/2022 15:34

Vodka doesn't smell. Very popular with underage drinkers.

MumTrain · 26/07/2022 15:35

MadMadMadamMim · 26/07/2022 15:34

Vodka doesn't smell. Very popular with underage drinkers.

Any alcohol smells on the breath, there isn’t an exception if she’s drinking vodka.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 26/07/2022 15:36

MadMadMadamMim · 26/07/2022 15:34

Vodka doesn't smell. Very popular with underage drinkers.

Would be my guess too.

Whichjobnow · 26/07/2022 15:36

Prescription sleeping/pain etc drugs seem to be quite popular these days, e.g. Xanax, Pregabalin, Diazepam, Temazepam. Any of these or similar could cause slurring and drowsiness and would have worn off by the next morning.

Ketamine is another possibility that's increasingly popular - this could also lead to slurring but would usually be accompanied by lack of physical coordination, disorientation etc.

YomAsalYomBasal · 26/07/2022 15:37

She's 12 and you knew she was up to something a few days ago? Why is she being allowed to continue?

erinaceus · 26/07/2022 15:37

Is there a possibility that someone laced something she was eating or drinking?

speakout · 26/07/2022 15:41

If your DD won't come clean or is telling the truth then this needs investigated further- let her know you are taking her to see the GP.

MarthaMayWhovier · 26/07/2022 15:42

Probably diazepam

LemonJuiceFromConcentrate · 26/07/2022 15:42

I think you’ve maybe misread the op @YomAsalYomBasal , at least it sounded to me like the dd came home yesterday with a cover story based on (presumably bland and innocent) things she was doing a few days earlier

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Unforgettablefire · 26/07/2022 15:33

Could it be some sort of a medical event? Any history of seizures?

If mine came home in that state I would have taken them to OOH or A&E

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Balloons only last a few mins so unless she came home holding a bunch of them I doubt it's that!

Anon682 · 26/07/2022 15:44

I agree with saying something like "I'm concerned about your speech the other night, if you've not taken or drank anything that could of effected you then we need to call a doctor and figure out what happened."

That should make her open up or maybe there is something a doctor needs to look into.

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