Now I was not after a delivery of an enormous bunch of flowers but something, anything! No cards, nothing. Not even an acknowledgement that it is my birthday. After some promoting my dd spat out yea happy birthday whatever. Not even sure what that meant My other two were exactly the same. So I sat down (in private) and burst into tears. I guess I am here just to moan and feel sorry for myself really. It was all made worst when my youngest ds (aged 5) said I don't know why they are so mean to you mummy when you are so nice to them. I cried again. I remember making a real fuss of my mum when I was a child. Where did it all go wrong? Any chance of a virtual hug? It's not just me is it?