I'm in an absolute whirlwind right now!
Should probably start out with a bit of background:
DD is 15 (16 in a couple of months) and has been going out with her boyfriend (who is 16) for around 6 months now. Her bf seems a lovely boy who seems to care greatly about dd. They are very close and go out every weekend into town just the two of them and then meet up with friends later, go to each others houses during the week, parties etc. Today DD and bf went into town so she could get her dad a birthday present and then went back to his house to watch a film (I should have known that this sounded too good to be true), about 10 minutes ago I just received a phone call from bf's mother saying about how when she got in from work that she had walked in on them having sex, she was angry and told them to get downstairs immediately for a chat. She also said to dd that she would be ringing me to tell me about what had happened (which I am grateful for). She is driving her home now.
I am in shock right now and feeling a mixture of emotions, DD will be home soon but I have no idea how to approach this. I was expecting their relationship to turn physical soon but not right at this minute.
Any advice will be greatly appreciated on how I can approach the subject.
Oh btw I should probably also point out that dd is a sensible girl, gets good grades at school, sporty and I have drummed safe sex and boundaries into her since she was 12/13. We also have a very good relationship where she can come and talk to me about anything.
Thanks 