I will try to keep short and summarise. About mid July my dd1 age 16 found a hand written note in dd 2 bedroom 13.5years. Dd2 proceeded to rip it up and put it in her bin, I stuck it back together when she was at school and I literally felt sick. It was a paragraph of filth, explicit descriptions of what she would do with a boy. We asked her about it and took her phone to check it. Her BBM's were full of filthy conversations with boys, none of who she actually knows face to face. She denied everything, said she had been forced into doing it etc., yet would not give any details, would not talk or look at us etc., etc., we found photos and videos on her phone of teenage boys. We found that she had been doing stuff throu Skype. She was chasing them as well as them contacting her. We removed pone, laptop, etc etc., talked till we were blue in the face. Said she could talk to us openly, we never shouted, ranted or raved. She had a 'boyfriend' that she used to meet locally, but he went to school miles away. There was never anything bad from him. I checked all communication. I was broken hearted and explained this. She promised never again. We took the softly, softly, caring, we love you and want to keep ou safe route. She said we could trust her, so we did. She had done it again and I discovered it on wednesday morning. We haven't gone softly this time, and said that we will not tolerate this disgusting behaviour. I feel so, betrayed, tricked and stupid.
I have been reading up. I know her horomones are raging. Could she have a bad horomones balance, maybe too much testosterone? She is tall, and skinny, but very strong. She does have quite a lot of body hair, it thought this may be hereditary as my dh is quite hairy. Any advice?
I need to go to get dd1 now, but will be back to check here in an hour or so. I hope some one can advise me. Please.
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