I'm at the end of my thether - my 16yr old dd came home the other day saying she'd had a horrid day. A 'friend' (male) upset her in an incident at school. When she met another friend afterward DD burst into tears as she was so upset. During discussion with her friend a teacher expressed concern, took her to an office and pressed her to explain what had happened. The teacher immediately went to confront the 'friend' and he was suspended (as he was already on a warning)
Since then DD has been seeing messages he has been sending to other friends on BBM saying what he's going to do to her ie the death threats. My husband and I wants to go to the school and the police but DD thinks this will make things worse for her. I'm so worried about her being at school and what could happen. DD thinks it just 'talk' - but the nature of the threats is not something I feel should be tolerated no matter what the situation.
Am I over reacting? Is there anything I should be doing?