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Where can I get a good quality gemstone choker necklace for DD?

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froggyfroggyfrogfrog · 03/09/2026 14:04

My DD has asked for a choker necklace like this pic. I've found a couple of very cheap ones but does anyone know where I can get one that's made of proper gold?

Where can I get a good quality gemstone choker necklace for DD?
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EleanorMc67 · 04/09/2026 13:05

Thisposthasbeendeleted · 04/09/2026 09:59

This is very good! Probably most similar to the original one

Yes, I thought so. And she might like that it's a French label ...?!

Yupstillhere · 04/09/2026 21:00

Motnight · 03/09/2026 15:31

Be careful re Monica Vinader. Their stuff looks lovely but doesn't last well. I've returned a ring where the stone fell out and 2 different sets of earrings that just broke. A friend of mine has also had a similar experience. A real shame.

I was thinking the same. I wouldn't buy from them again.

Londonmummy66 · 04/09/2026 21:03

I have to say that the anni Lui quality is not that great either

Flutterkitten · 04/09/2026 22:15

Yupstillhere · 04/09/2026 21:00

I was thinking the same. I wouldn't buy from them again.

unfortunately this has been my experience too. They look beautiful in the pics but ime the quality isn’t that much different from the much cheaper stuff that appears around this time of year in tkmaxx.
Swarovski on the other hand I have always found to be great , the gems sparkle brilliantly.

froggyfroggyfrogfrog · 04/09/2026 22:23

Thanks for all the excellent suggestions!

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Einstone · 05/09/2026 02:56

I agree that Monica Vinader is really poor quality. The Amelia Rose one is very pretty!

My daughter has something very similar, I love that style.

Susanfromfinance · 05/09/2026 08:42

I sell vintage and antique jewellery as a side hustle so just wanted to give my 2 cents worth. 9ct gold is currently £40 a gram. So you will really struggle to find solid gold and brand new for £200 as a necklace because they naturally tend to weigh more.

I would be careful of Monica vinader, missoma and other “luxury” brands that sell ridiculously overpriced gold plated jewellery. Vermeil is just gold plate even if it sounds fancier. It will tarnish and won’t last and frankly they are ripping you off.

Were I you, I’d buy her the costume jewellery one she has asked for and then get her a separate piece of solid gold jewellery as a keepsake. You might be able to get her a sweet vintage ring if you shop second hand on eBay. Just make sure that whatever you buy is fully hallmarked and there are pictures of the marks in the listing.

Seelybee · 05/09/2026 08:46

@froggyfroggyfrogfrog BrandAlley had this yesterday for £54 I think?

Catsamores · 05/09/2026 10:37

rbe78 · 03/09/2026 15:31

I'm assuming you don't mean quite as good quality as this one though...
Multi Gemstone and 18ct yellow gold necklace - Connard & Son Ltd.

I love this one..

Nighttimeistherightime · 05/09/2026 13:02

I’m not a fan of gold but this is beautiful! You’re a top friend xx

GarlicSomething · 05/09/2026 13:48

Susanfromfinance · 05/09/2026 08:42

I sell vintage and antique jewellery as a side hustle so just wanted to give my 2 cents worth. 9ct gold is currently £40 a gram. So you will really struggle to find solid gold and brand new for £200 as a necklace because they naturally tend to weigh more.

I would be careful of Monica vinader, missoma and other “luxury” brands that sell ridiculously overpriced gold plated jewellery. Vermeil is just gold plate even if it sounds fancier. It will tarnish and won’t last and frankly they are ripping you off.

Were I you, I’d buy her the costume jewellery one she has asked for and then get her a separate piece of solid gold jewellery as a keepsake. You might be able to get her a sweet vintage ring if you shop second hand on eBay. Just make sure that whatever you buy is fully hallmarked and there are pictures of the marks in the listing.

I second this - but will add that you can get a solid gold trace (very fine) chain here https://www.thecuriousgem.co.uk/necklace-chains.html

for about £70. Maybe add one of the round, gold plated gemstone charms:

https://www.thecuriousgem.co.uk/search/for/Gold+plated+gemstone+charm/

Necklace Chains | Sterling Silver Chains | Gold Chains

Shop UK jewellery-making supplies for professional jewellers, designers and hobbyists, including gemstone beads, pearls, findings, tools and jewellery components.

https://www.thecuriousgem.co.uk/necklace-chains.html

TheWytch · 05/09/2026 21:47

GarlicSomething · 05/09/2026 13:48

I second this - but will add that you can get a solid gold trace (very fine) chain here https://www.thecuriousgem.co.uk/necklace-chains.html

for about £70. Maybe add one of the round, gold plated gemstone charms:

https://www.thecuriousgem.co.uk/search/for/Gold+plated+gemstone+charm/

I am frequently amazed (not in a good way) at the prices Monica Vinader charges! The power of viral marketing is immense.

If you do decide to DIY, take a look at Cooksongold for the base chain. They are very popular suppliers for artisan makers but also sell to the general public.

Viviennemary · 05/09/2026 23:16

Motnight · 03/09/2026 15:31

Be careful re Monica Vinader. Their stuff looks lovely but doesn't last well. I've returned a ring where the stone fell out and 2 different sets of earrings that just broke. A friend of mine has also had a similar experience. A real shame.

I ordered something once, it was on offer but really it was simply tat. I sent it back and haven't ordered anything again.

ConsideringBaby2 · 05/09/2026 23:27

This is my type of thread
I love Etsy for stuff like this and always try to buy from uk based sellers

DorisTheOceanid · 05/09/2026 23:38

Would you consider vintage? This is currently on Vinted for £30 and looks similar to the brief www.vinted.co.uk/items/9368119187-vintage-gold-plated-gemstone-choker-necklace

Girlwithavibe · 06/09/2026 09:27

I wanna be your friend 🤩

lucycud · 06/09/2026 18:45

hmm not sure..

IlovePond · 07/09/2026 16:34

It might be worth bearing in mind that AgathaParis is a French brand and items bought from there may be subject to additional customs charges. Apparently you can choose to prepay these at checkout, though.

Also - although very pretty - the necklace pictured is gold-plated brass.

I’ve got a pair of earrings from the brand. They are pretty but were expensive considering they are not silver.

JoBrandsCleaner · 07/09/2026 20:37

I’ve got a similar one from
astley Clarke

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