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Wedding attire - is this ok?

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Williteverrainagain · 06/08/2026 19:12

Hi, I have never been great at clothes. I often seem to get things slightly wrong. I am 56, 5' 6 and a size 18 currently (bloody menopause). We are going to a wedding in a two weeks time (family member) and the invite says "Dress to Impress". I am not that confident in myself at this weight but I do care what I look like.

I have ordered this dress:

https://katyawildman.com/products/the-always-zip-pocket-dress-in-charlottes-roses

And these shoes:

https://airandgracelondon.com/collections/flat-shoes/products/anais-olive-suede-and-gold-leather-pointed-t-bar-flats

I intend to wear a double-layered gold necklace (Mint Velvet) and have ordered a suede olive green clutch bag. I can no longer wear heels so shoes need to be flats.

Can anyone with advise me if they think this is a good combination.

Thanks!

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OP posts:
Williteverrainagain · 10/08/2026 14:37

JaneJeffer · 10/08/2026 14:29

It’s lovely on you but I think you need to open the neckline up a bit like they showed on your first picture.

I agree, otherwise I fear it looks a bit matronly.

OP posts:
ImpossibleGermany · 10/08/2026 17:06

ValcoServesYOuRight · 08/08/2026 22:21

Love Katya Wildman dresses but personally I’d not wear a white based dress, pick one of the other colours.
I work in weddings and I hear the bitchy comments when someone wears a white based dress.

But this isn't even predominantly white. I'm one of those who says you should avoid white at weddings but if it's just a white background with lots of colour and pattern I really don't see the issue. It doesn't look remotely bridal.

EleanorMc67 · 10/08/2026 21:23

Williteverrainagain · 10/08/2026 14:37

I agree, otherwise I fear it looks a bit matronly.

The dress is pretty & a classic shape. I wouldn't bother with a necklace & just wear long earrings - keep the neckline clear & a bit more unbuttoned?

I have those shoes in navy & gold & they're lovely, as are the olive ones you've ordered. Though I thought they weren't quite the right shade of green for the dress - but these things are hard to tell from photos, so I hope they go well with your dress & bag!

Sulgari · 10/08/2026 22:12

For once! An actual lovely outfit on the wedding questions! Love it

Cremeul · 11/08/2026 11:31

I love your dress, and the handbag matches perfectly! Hope you have a wonderful day

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