Help end medical misogyny. Sign our petition.

Help end medical misogyny.
Sign our petition.

Sign the petition

Please or to access all these features

Style and beauty

Looking for style advice? Chat all about it here. For the latest discounts on fashion and beauty, sign up for Mumsnet Moneysaver emails.

M&S gladiator sandals

93 replies

Userengage · 11/06/2026 22:25

Are these awful? I really like them however my DC physically recoiled when I tried them on, they are slouchy teens so I kind of get it. I thought they were kind of cool and would be nice dressed up (flippy short skirt) or down (denim shorts). Gladiators

OP posts:
Thread gallery
8
EleanorMc67 · 12/06/2026 20:42

Slothlydoesit · 12/06/2026 20:23

Not the disabled people I know! Use of black humour yes, not other people laughing in ignorance.

But you seem to be making a rather big assumption that anyone who found the comparison amusing is not disabled themselves?

Every poster has found the sandals ugly. Full stop. Without any comparison to anything else needed. They don't find them ugly "because [the sandals] remind [them] of a disabled person/disabled equipment"?

I smiled at the accuracy of the visual comparison. The sandals are indeed fashioned a little like callipers. If the OP had posted a picture of short brown trousers with zig-zag hems, & someone said they had a hint of "ragged-trousered orphan in a Victorian poorhouse" about them, I would have been amused by the accuracy of that visual comparison too. But I wouldn't have been laughing about orphans, just as I'm not laughing about someone having to wear splints?

GrinchPink · 12/06/2026 20:44

It’s giving early 2000s’ 🫣 they use to make them all the way up the knees lol

PhaedraTwo · 12/06/2026 20:48

I think the simile was crass and unnecessary. The sandals are ugly enough without comparing them to anything else.

Seriously if anyone genuinely "spluttered their drink over their phone" you might want to explore other lines of comedy-there can't be much in your life if that provokes such hilarity.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 12/06/2026 21:02

GrinchPink · 12/06/2026 20:44

It’s giving early 2000s’ 🫣 they use to make them all the way up the knees lol

They did but I never bought them. At least I think I didn’t.

MassiveOvaryaction · 12/06/2026 21:48

Mama always said..

🤐

M&S gladiator sandals
MassiveOvaryaction · 12/06/2026 21:50

Mama always said..

🤐

M&S gladiator sandals
MassiveOvaryaction · 12/06/2026 22:02

Blimey. Sorry for posting twice, it said it didn't post Blush

WallyHilloughby · 12/06/2026 22:09

Why the hell would you get gladiator sandals from M&S for goodness sakes 😂

placemats · 12/06/2026 22:45

Userengage · 11/06/2026 22:25

Are these awful? I really like them however my DC physically recoiled when I tried them on, they are slouchy teens so I kind of get it. I thought they were kind of cool and would be nice dressed up (flippy short skirt) or down (denim shorts). Gladiators

They look fantastic. I'd buy them if I was 30 years younger. I'm 65

Campingkit · Yesterday 07:40

SkippitySkoppity · 11/06/2026 22:31

They do give hints of poor Victorian invalid wearing callipers to correct their rickety legs.

When I imagine Gladiator sandals I think more of a criss cross style.

This has given me a fit of giggles on the bus!

Slothlydoesit · Yesterday 08:44

Would it also give you a fit of giggles on the bus if she was talking about sunglasses and said ‘it gives me hints of a Victorian retardard cripple wearing eye protectors?’

Honestly!

A cripple is a disabled person.
Calipers are leg braces and many disabled children still use them today.

You are saying they are awful sandals because they give you a hint of a disabled person with leg braces. No one chooses to be have to wear things like that.

It isn’t funny! Go and find a website for a disabled children’s charity or a children’s hospice website and update your knowledge of disability, people, if you don’t understand why this is rude and inappropriate. And hope you never discover in real life why it is.

Slothlydoesit · Yesterday 08:52

For those that seem unable to understand this.

Have a look at the website for example Demelza Children’s hospice and all the pictures of the children and their families.

Imagine saying this or laughing about it and whether the families would think you were funny, and appreciate your ‘black humour.’ I think you’d understand very quickly how people felt if you tried it.

I can only assume you have been fortunate enough never to go to any of these places or to spend time in a school for disabled children, or indeed to have one yourself.

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 09:06

I agree Slothlydoesit. It's the "creative writing" for laughs part which I find offensive.

They do give hints of poor Victorian invalid wearing callipers to correct their rickety legs

If it were necessary to say anything more, then "they look like calipers" covers it.

I think the deleted post was fair comment.

ForWiseRoseCat · Yesterday 14:25

I love gladiator sandals (I bought a new pair recently) but there's something about black sandals in general that I don't like.

Imagine the tan lines on tall gladiator sandals as well!

UltimateSloth · Yesterday 14:34

I think they would look nice if you have thin ankles and calves.

I love the look of those types of sandals but unfortunately I have cankles and they would cut into my podgy legs and look dreadful.

ForDeftBeaker · Yesterday 15:45

Depends which ones. The flat lace-ups? Fine. The chunky platform ones? Also fine. The ones that go up to your knee? That's 2010 and not in a cute way.

TreesAtSea · Yesterday 19:14

@Slothlydoesit Totally agree will your posts. I don't have close personal experience of physical disability, but I winced when I read that comparison. Can't believe that so many PP found it hilarious. To me it was just plain cruel.

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 20:00

Slothlydoesit · Yesterday 08:52

For those that seem unable to understand this.

Have a look at the website for example Demelza Children’s hospice and all the pictures of the children and their families.

Imagine saying this or laughing about it and whether the families would think you were funny, and appreciate your ‘black humour.’ I think you’d understand very quickly how people felt if you tried it.

I can only assume you have been fortunate enough never to go to any of these places or to spend time in a school for disabled children, or indeed to have one yourself.

Yes I don't understand why posters think rickets and polio are "Victorian" Rickets is rare but not wholly unknown in the UK and Western Europe and if diagnosed is likely to be treated with Vitamin D. However it remains a significant health problem worldwide and calipers and braces are widely used. I'm not going to post links to charities working in this field.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page