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What to wear for a garden glam and disco birthday celebration?

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WildflowerMeadow · 04/06/2026 10:21

I need help please...

I have been invited to an amazing birthday celebration that is entitled 'An Evening of Garden Glamour and Disco'. There are cocktails and afternoon tea followed by a live big band and then a 'Disco with a Difference'. Venue is rural, think farm with events barn.

The Dress Code is 'Garden Disco Glam - English elegance meets Ibiza after dark.'

I am 5' 8" and a size 10/12, age 57 but with a mum tum so won't get away with anything bodycon or tight fitting. Budget would be around £100 but could stretch to £150 for something fabulous. Don't have big boobs but really need to wear a bra to deal with sagginess.

Can you lovely ladies suggest anything that would fit this theme as I am a bit stumped?

Thanks in advance 🙂

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Woodfiresareamazing2 · 05/06/2026 16:54

EleanorMc67 · 05/06/2026 03:32

I think this is perfect.

I'd wear with cropped black leggings if weather isn't kind, or bare legs with fake tan if it's warm.

CopeNorth · 05/06/2026 17:05

Ok. It’s an amazing but wide dress code! Given the disco theme I’d go with some sequins or a jumpsuit 70s disco style. Not sure if the venue means proper toilets - if not that might put paid to a jumpsuit. But you could do sequin trousers and matching top.

I do love wearing a jumpsuit because it feels glam and fun, but comfortable.

I would not go for random summer dress unless it’s something you want to buy anyway.

shoes - depends how rural but some wedge or block heel that have a platform so they’re comfortable and you can dance all night. Or just high your trainers under a long jumpsuit leg!

CopeNorth · 05/06/2026 17:57

WildflowerMeadow · 04/06/2026 11:48

Ha ha, glad it's not just me that is stumped by the dress code.

@TemporarilyCantDoMyself I love both of the Love and Roses dresses you posted - the first is definitely on my shortlist - thank you.

@Turnitoffnonagain I really fancy something sequinned so a top and slinky trousers would be a good shout - maybe a 70s disco vibe?

@SchoolNightWine I love the style of that and the base colour but not sure about the pattern.

What do we think of jumpsuits? I found this one on Nobody's child:

https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/shelby-jumpsuit-2614647001?variant=55201904624001&utm_source=criteo&utm_medium=display&utm_campaign=WebConversion&utm_id=293798&cto_pld=KHOEvKXGAABUBxzGXpA-Kg

and this one on ASOS:
https://www.asos.com/rare/rare-london-tailored-bandeau-peplum-detail-split-side-wide-leg-jumpsuit-in-cream/prd/210060810#colourWayId-210060812

The jumpsuit is perfect!

PhotoFirePoet · 05/06/2026 18:44

How about a tutu dress, with sparkly sequins on the bodice? Strappy or strapless with built in support. You could go short, midi or ankle length with the mesh net skirt, have lots of layers or just a couple. I have seen a lot of gorgeous dresses like that on Vinted.

blutoo · 05/06/2026 19:29

SchoolNightWine · 04/06/2026 11:10

Agree with Temporarily - it’s a bit of a weird dress code!
I’d wear this as I love it and am looking for an excuse to buy it! https://www.joebrowns.co.uk/lulu-floral-halter-neck-dress-wf518?colour=187

Thankyou for reminding me about Joe Browns.

Judecb · 05/06/2026 19:57

Jump suit? Floaty trousers with a funky top? Reiss has nice stuff in at the moment and I've noticed sales in Fenwick etc.

Malinia · 05/06/2026 23:04

I would wear sequin trousers and a nice top. This is my go to outfit for most pictures these days as it's so comfy.

LittleEsme · 06/06/2026 07:30

TemporarilyCantDoMyself · 04/06/2026 11:28

And I've been eyeing this up for weeks but I have no events to wear it to and no justification for buying it at all. 😂

https://www.next.co.uk/style/su894595/g09891

That’s beautiful!

LittleEsme · 06/06/2026 07:31

Malinia · 05/06/2026 23:04

I would wear sequin trousers and a nice top. This is my go to outfit for most pictures these days as it's so comfy.

Any suggestions on where to buy the sequined trousers?

waltzingparrot · 06/06/2026 08:00

I mean, English elegance and disco are diametrically opposed. I'd pick whichever beautiful, elegant dress/jumpsuit you love and wear this with it .

The dress would need a hint of pink in it 😁. Also, when it turns cooler in the evening, you'll be really glad of it.

https://www.roman.co.uk/dusk-belted-sequin-blazer-15033051?srsltid=AfmBOoq5zP3ebAd12JwtuudUwFFIG4_JKffOhALeo0hBs0cKS9Djuc2NBeo

Magenta Dusk Belted Sequin Blazer | Roman UK

Shop for Magenta Dusk Belted Sequin Blazer at Roman.co.uk. Part of our Dusk Jackets collection.

https://www.roman.co.uk/dusk-belted-sequin-blazer-15033051?srsltid=AfmBOoq5zP3ebAd12JwtuudUwFFIG4_JKffOhALeo0hBs0cKS9Djuc2NBeo

Malinia · 06/06/2026 08:53

LittleEsme · 06/06/2026 07:31

Any suggestions on where to buy the sequined trousers?

ASOS have a lovely selection. Mine are a khaki colour which is easy to wear, and goes with a lot, but they have brown, silver, black and blue as well.

Potentialscroogeincognito · 06/06/2026 09:13

@WildflowerMeadow I have found this very useful thanks! Jumpsuit I am thinking now with maybe a sequin cape for the evening!

JuliaBraverman · 06/06/2026 09:18

WildflowerMeadow · 04/06/2026 11:50

Or this dress - but wondering if it's a bit plain and safe:
https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/burgundy-bandeau-felicty-midi-dress-d254780red

Love this

Doggymummar · 06/06/2026 21:18

I assume if it's disco, then it's someone's 60th or even 70th would that be about right? I would definitely be going full on Twiggy style from the 60s early 70s. Would probably have two outfits to be honest it sounds like two different themes entirely

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