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Do comfy bras exist?

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loopyloo30 · 29/05/2026 16:45

I’m on the lookout for a comfy bra. I’m fed up with the underwire cutting into me especially in this warm weather. Has anyone tried gel bras? Are they any good? Or does anyone else have any recommendations? Ideally I’d want something that has a clasp at the back. Thank you.

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Thissideof40 · 29/05/2026 20:47

EverytimeItPours · 29/05/2026 18:33

I’d love to find a wireless bra that lifts, but crucially, separates. I have decided I’m done with wires but I can see why they were invented. Every wireless bra I’ve tried has no means of separation and I end up with uniboob which I hate

Have you been measured lately? Uniboob is usually due to poorly fitted bras. The boob or bust website has a measuring calculator with instructions of how to measure and you’ll likely find that you’re a different size to what you think. It also tells you what style of bra is best for your body shape.

EverytimeItPours · 29/05/2026 20:57

Thissideof40 · 29/05/2026 20:47

Have you been measured lately? Uniboob is usually due to poorly fitted bras. The boob or bust website has a measuring calculator with instructions of how to measure and you’ll likely find that you’re a different size to what you think. It also tells you what style of bra is best for your body shape.

I don’t think it’s a size issue, it’s more I think to do with the fact that it’s the wire which keeps the central part between the boobs, flat to the chest and also therefore keeps the boobs apart. I don’t think there’s an answer apart from probably one of those old style “cross your heart” bras which come up so high that they don’t really work under clothes with a decent v neck or an open shirt

CantMakerHerThink · 29/05/2026 21:04

I bought some on shein of all places and I’m absurdly delighted with them. Fantastic value, super sportive with nice thick straps and they are actually comfortable! I’m a 38e but I also bought a38d by accident and gave it to my 17yo dd…. She said she wants just those bras in the future and so I ordered her another 4. Got some on order for my sister too. I’ll attach pictures of them as i got a mix of wired and non wired but they really are great. They wash well too and for the price I’m absolutely thrilled.

Do comfy bras exist?
Do comfy bras exist?
Do comfy bras exist?
TheOGCCL · 29/05/2026 21:29

I wear a wired bra all day long and all the time at home too. Never felt uncomfortable. I currently wear Fantasie Fusion at a 30FF (Bravissimo measured and checked recently again).

Wonderwhyibother · 29/05/2026 21:30

Thoroughly recommend Snag bras. Non wired, larger straps so no digging in, super comfy. Dont wear anything else now.

MummyWillow1 · 29/05/2026 21:48

I exclusively wear Molke original these days, breathable, no wires and still give a shape with 2 boobs. I find all other non-wired bras aim for the mono boob look. Even the Molke flexi bra is mono boob.

And most other don’t go up big enough if you are actually wearing the right size.

GalaDinner · 29/05/2026 21:48

VerityUnreasonble · 29/05/2026 18:56

Asda also sell some really nice, and comfortable, non wired bras.

This.

Wingedharpy · 29/05/2026 22:20

MummyWillow1 · 29/05/2026 21:48

I exclusively wear Molke original these days, breathable, no wires and still give a shape with 2 boobs. I find all other non-wired bras aim for the mono boob look. Even the Molke flexi bra is mono boob.

And most other don’t go up big enough if you are actually wearing the right size.

I'm a Molke fan too and only wear their original bras as well.
They are the comfiest bras I've ever worn and are a genius design.
You don't get mono boob with them as, though the back is one piece, like a traditional soft bra, the front is cut in 2 pieces - one for each boob - and they cross each other in the middle, one under and one over to attach to the chest band.
I'm not explaining it well but it means, for example, that you can reach for something from a high shelf and one bosom doesn't end up escaping underneath the chest band - everything returns to where it's meant to be.
Not cheap, not particularly pretty but so, so comfortable.

TicTac80 · 29/05/2026 22:21

Bravissimo do a lovely non wired wrap bra - great for separating the boobs. I need to get another one as I've changed sizes (due to weight loss). I also used to love the Doreen bra I had (again lost weight, so too big for me now!) :)

FlapperFlamingo · 29/05/2026 22:41

I live Miss Mary of Sweden cotton bra. Also the M and S no underwire Flex. I am 42F so I think they must be pretty good.

MatronPomfrey · 29/05/2026 22:55

If the wire is cutting in it’s the wrong size. Bravissimo have a range of wire free bras. Lots of the Instagram/tiktok bras have sizes that are supportive fit across multiple band sizes so they’ll be a terrible fit in reality.

TenTenTenAgain · 29/05/2026 22:59

John lewis kaley t shirt Bras (the wired ones) are incredibly comfortable. I'm very fussy and they're the only ones I can wear all day.

DorotheaDiamond · 29/05/2026 23:12

CantMakerHerThink · 29/05/2026 21:04

I bought some on shein of all places and I’m absurdly delighted with them. Fantastic value, super sportive with nice thick straps and they are actually comfortable! I’m a 38e but I also bought a38d by accident and gave it to my 17yo dd…. She said she wants just those bras in the future and so I ordered her another 4. Got some on order for my sister too. I’ll attach pictures of them as i got a mix of wired and non wired but they really are great. They wash well too and for the price I’m absolutely thrilled.

@CantMakerHerThink do you know what your actual measurements are? Just looking at this and their 38 has an under bust of 32 inches…trying to work out what I would need as 34G in proper sizing?

Italiangreyhound · 30/05/2026 00:15

Jelly bras.

CantMakerHerThink · 30/05/2026 08:38

DorotheaDiamond · 29/05/2026 23:12

@CantMakerHerThink do you know what your actual measurements are? Just looking at this and their 38 has an under bust of 32 inches…trying to work out what I would need as 34G in proper sizing?

I am a 38e in uk sizes now, not on shein the equates to an 85f on their sizing charts. I’ve always been between 38-40 -Dd to FF but recently lost 6 some so was looking for ultra cheap short term stop gaps until my weight had stabilised. I never expected them to be any good at all but honestly I’m so impressed I’ll never buy another bra from a uk supermarket again. I’ve never had such a comfortable well priced bra in my entire life, I’ve paid £30+ in the past and still been uncomfortable so this is brilliant for me.

I’m add some photos of them in real life in a bit and one of them on. They seem to be very well made and I’ve stocked up and ordered in multiple colours.

CantMakerHerThink · 30/05/2026 08:40

Plus Size Women Wireless Bra, Breathable Non-Slip Lace Patchwork Lift Up Adjustable Strap Seamless Everyday Wear
I discovered amazing products on SHEIN.com, come check them out!
https://api-shein.shein.com/h5/sharejump/appjump?link=RVHuBgnAj9E_8&localcountry=GB&shc=2_RVHuBgnAj9E&url_from=GM74461516634

this link had the uk sizes and their equivalent next to them. Just make sure you deep dive any reviews and go for those with 4.5 stars upwards.

keely79 · 30/05/2026 08:41

Evelyn & Bobbie. They sell in Iohn Lewis but also directly online. They are pricey but often have sales or end of line reductions. Game changing. I no longer think about my bra once on and I wear a 36 G….

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Squirrelsnut · 30/05/2026 14:13

cleowasmycat · 29/05/2026 19:53

Do you have a link please?

They're the Comfyin ones.

Itsallsostressful · 30/05/2026 15:12

Italiangreyhound · 30/05/2026 00:15

Jelly bras.

Don't want to derail but can you recommend a good brand ? Fancy trying jelly but wouldn't know which to try ? 😊

SlightFerret · 30/05/2026 15:28

VerityUnreasonble · 29/05/2026 18:56

Asda also sell some really nice, and comfortable, non wired bras.

What are these called please?

luckylavender · 30/05/2026 15:34

I’m a great advocate of the Doreen Triumph. I’m quite well endowed and they are so comfortable.

KurtCobainLover · 30/05/2026 15:34

As others mentioned I wear Molke originals and they are the comfiest bra I’ve ever owned. I step into them rather than pull them over my head and with a quick scoop everything is in place. I even wear them for the gym:)

JustGiveMeReason · 30/05/2026 15:38

Of course they exist.
I've never worn a bra that isn't comfortable.
Why would you ?

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