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Why am I shaped like a rectangle and how should I dress? Pics included

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LilyFeather · 29/12/2025 10:36

It’s dawned on me that I don’t have a curvy figure and am actually like a square box. Is it possible to have a big ribcage or something? I can never find a bra to fit me

Im 5 foot 2 and a half, weigh 9 stone 8 and am a size 10. But I always look so dumpy in photos - see proof - and wondered if anyone had any styling tips for my specific body type ? Thanks!

Why am I shaped like a rectangle and how should I dress? Pics included
Why am I shaped like a rectangle and how should I dress? Pics included
Why am I shaped like a rectangle and how should I dress? Pics included
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Splendidlydidy · 29/12/2025 10:37

No proof.

LilyFeather · 29/12/2025 10:38

Hmm. Mumsnet are clearly taking a while to approve my photos!

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LostittoBostik · 29/12/2025 10:38

Following. Similar situation.

One thing to look at is sizing. I’m a similar height and only 9st. I fit a 10 but it makes me look awful. A 12 petite is a much more flattering fit. Try sizing up first of all.

LilyFeather · 29/12/2025 10:39

Trying again

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LilyFeather · 29/12/2025 10:41

@LostittoBostik now that’s not a bad idea! I’d never thought of sizing up because a 10 is usually my perfect fit so I’d be unable to do that in jeans but could do it with tops as I do wear them close fitting as a rule

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catpigeon · 29/12/2025 10:41

I don't think your jeans have much of a purpose

LilyFeather · 29/12/2025 10:42

One pic has approved. You can hopefully see exactly what I mean. I have no waist!

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LilyFeather · 29/12/2025 10:43

@catpigeon how do you mean? Jeans are something I struggle with too! I wear white company or Hush jeans and they fall down after a days wear - they seem to go all baggy

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TheTortiePuffinNeedsHerBreakfast · 29/12/2025 10:43

I would really recommend a proper bra fitting, it makes a real difference. Often people need to go down on the back measurement and up on the cup size.

From your photo, I would say you are quite a rectangle shape, and if you're on the shorter side, try ankle grazer trousers as opposed to full length.

Rainbeaux · 29/12/2025 10:43

OP I am exactly the same as you, and I never know what to wear! 1950's style prom dresses look good because the skirt flares out and creates a waist but they're somewhat impractical on the school run. I'm following with interest...

Motherhood12345 · 29/12/2025 10:44

Have you been for a bra fitting recently e.g. at Bravissimo? I was shocked at how different I looked after finding a well-fitting bra.

Also don't be scared of skirts - try one that is waist-height. You can easily dress a skirt down with trainers and a loose jumper.

LilyFeather · 29/12/2025 10:45

And here. Again, I’m boxy

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cockandbullstories · 29/12/2025 10:47

The other pics have just come up.

Comedycook · 29/12/2025 10:47

Your figure is fine...you are broad shouldered with slim hips...the horizontal striped jumper will only accentuate that. A plainer top and wider bottoms would balance you out

LilyFeather · 29/12/2025 10:47

@Motherhood12345 yes I went to bravissimo last year. They didn’t have a bra to fit me! And when I do boob or bust type measuring I’m told to contact the admins as I must be measuring wrong

Im not. I just have small
Boobs but some weird gigantic rib cage

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Splendidlydidy · 29/12/2025 10:50

You look completely fine. Stop worrying. 💐

LilyFeather · 29/12/2025 10:50

@Comedycook I’d never considered that I have broad shoulders! But it makes sense as I often think of myself as being a bit like a parsnip in shape! When I’m not thinking I’m a box

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LilyFeather · 29/12/2025 10:51

@cockandbullstories also makes sense as I jokingly call myself a parsnip

@Splendidlydidy so kind x

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GreywackeJ · 29/12/2025 10:55

I think you look good! Especially in the skirt.

LadyBlakeneysHanky · 29/12/2025 10:56

I really like the skirt outfit! Where were the various bits of it from? It looks great, comfortable and relaxed & I think suits you! (Aware of course you did not post it to give fashion advice!)

DisplayPurposesOnly · 29/12/2025 10:56

You look great in the skirt and jumper, less good in the jeans and jumper.

Yes, broad shoulders and narrower hips, so try to balance that.

Try shortening your bra straps, I want to give your boobs a Trinny & Susannah style hoick😆

Cocktailsandcheese · 29/12/2025 10:56

The skirt and jumper outfit looks really lovely on you! Where are they from please?

justasmallbiz · 29/12/2025 10:58

Maybe there’s something wrong with my eyes but in what world are you dumpy? And are you aware you look amazing in those pics?

AndeanFlamingo · 29/12/2025 10:58

Yes, you're an inverted triangle but you look great in that skirt and green jumper. I think that's really flattering and balances you out nicely.