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Idk anything about gel nails but...

44 replies

tobee · 06/06/2025 20:06

... why do people get them done if they destroy your nails? Or is that a myth? Does it just that it does for some? Or is the longevity worth it?

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bluejelly · 06/06/2025 20:51

They didn’t destroy mine at all but I became allergic to them. A shame because I loved that they lasted three weeks and were pretty unchippable…

GrinchoftheNorth · 06/06/2025 20:55

Probably depends on how they are put on and removed. I've been having gels for years, a health condition means my natural nails were brittle and constantly snapping. Gels have given me decent looking nails that don't chip, last 3/4 weeks and on the odd occasion I have them taken off, my natural nails remain long and seem stronger

GrinchoftheNorth · 06/06/2025 20:56

I never have the extension tips mind you, but I don't need to anyway now my natural nails r
grow long

Staffymumma · 06/06/2025 20:58

I'm a nail technician and educator. Gel nails, or any enhancement for that matter don't ruin your nails, it is down to bad application or harsh techniques that cause damaged nails.

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 06/06/2025 20:58

I had them and loved how they looked and lasted. But - the gel held a couple of my oddly shaped index finger nails so rigid they both detached from the nailbed on one side. They have since recovered. When the gel was removed my own nails were wrecked. I'm having to grow out the damage. They're just not for me. I find stick on nails used occasionally a much better option.

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 06/06/2025 20:59

Theyre great if you can keep up with getting them done every 3 weeks. Sadly I couldn’t afford that so had to let them either grow out our try and remove them, which was a nightmare. I’ll never get them done again.

ChonkyRabbit · 06/06/2025 21:00

Staffymumma · 06/06/2025 20:58

I'm a nail technician and educator. Gel nails, or any enhancement for that matter don't ruin your nails, it is down to bad application or harsh techniques that cause damaged nails.

How do you "rough up" the nail to get the polish to stick without damaging them? When I've tried doing gels at home without filing over the nail, they start peeling within a day. When the salons do it - either with the little drill bit machine or with a file - they last weeks but my nails are destroyed.

nautys · 06/06/2025 21:01

Gel doesn’t destroy your nails. Incorrect application, removal, and cheap, unregulated products can cause damage and allergic reactions.

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 06/06/2025 21:05

nautys · 06/06/2025 21:01

Gel doesn’t destroy your nails. Incorrect application, removal, and cheap, unregulated products can cause damage and allergic reactions.

What’s the best way to remove them?

Staffymumma · 06/06/2025 21:07

@ChonkyRabbit by using a 180 or higher grit file. Unless overfilling, they don't cause damage but successfully etch the nail plate enough to get adhesion between the nail and product. Using anything lower than 180 will cause damage as it's too course for the natural nail.

doodleschnoodle · 06/06/2025 21:08

They’ve only ever ruined mine when I’ve picked them off or not gone to have the gel removed properly. That’s a definite no no as you end up pulling off the top layer of your nail and they go all weak and bendy.

I get builder gel every 3 weeks and my nails are fine, but my nail lady is excellent and everything is done properly.

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 06/06/2025 21:09

I think as I expected they’re fine if you have the money and time to get them done every 3 weeks, which sadly I don’t.

doodleschnoodle · 06/06/2025 21:09

Also having my nails done stops me biting them or the skin around my nails, it’s an expensive way to stop it but it works, so my fingers are in better condition now!

Pinkflower100 · 06/06/2025 21:11

Mine get ruined from removal I think. They look so scratched up and go thin and keep breaking for weeks after. I pretty much have to grow them completely out before they are back to normal!

ChonkyRabbit · 06/06/2025 21:12

Staffymumma · 06/06/2025 21:07

@ChonkyRabbit by using a 180 or higher grit file. Unless overfilling, they don't cause damage but successfully etch the nail plate enough to get adhesion between the nail and product. Using anything lower than 180 will cause damage as it's too course for the natural nail.

How does etching not cause damage though?

Staffymumma · 06/06/2025 21:16

@ChonkyRabbit because if it's done carefully you won't get damage such as overfilling. With any enhancement you need to etch the nail to create a successful adhesion (hence yours peeling after a day without etching the nail) This doesn't mean it's damaged, and upon removal once buffed (smoothing nail plate) there is no damage present. The high grit files are designed to be gentle enough to work on natural nails without causing damage.

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 06/06/2025 21:20

Staffymumma · 06/06/2025 21:16

@ChonkyRabbit because if it's done carefully you won't get damage such as overfilling. With any enhancement you need to etch the nail to create a successful adhesion (hence yours peeling after a day without etching the nail) This doesn't mean it's damaged, and upon removal once buffed (smoothing nail plate) there is no damage present. The high grit files are designed to be gentle enough to work on natural nails without causing damage.

Won’t etching and buffing thin your nail?

ChonkyRabbit · 06/06/2025 21:21

Staffymumma · 06/06/2025 21:16

@ChonkyRabbit because if it's done carefully you won't get damage such as overfilling. With any enhancement you need to etch the nail to create a successful adhesion (hence yours peeling after a day without etching the nail) This doesn't mean it's damaged, and upon removal once buffed (smoothing nail plate) there is no damage present. The high grit files are designed to be gentle enough to work on natural nails without causing damage.

I think all you can say is it causes LESS damage, not no damage.

Staffymumma · 06/06/2025 21:23

@WhereHasMyPlanetGone not if it's done carefully no. A lot of people believe you're 'removing the top layer of nail' by etching the plate which isn't true. You're just removing the shine and creating a rough surface for it to adhere too. Personally I pride myself on the health of the natural nail so am always extra careful and take my time.

tobee · 06/06/2025 21:35

Ah this interesting to read! I really didn't have any idea!!

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Blinkingbother · 06/06/2025 21:41

Definitely does no good to my nails - I no longer have them done as a result.

Pinkrosesyellowroses · 06/06/2025 21:48

I had them done once and they made my nails go thin and bendy. Admittedly I did pick them off, but I am not the sort of person who would ever be able to leave gel nails be.

Disturbia81 · 06/06/2025 21:52

I’ve had acrylics for years and my nails are fine underneath. I just love the length, thickness, never chip, never lose colour etc

Sunshineandgrapefruit · 06/06/2025 22:25

Not sure how anyone can say they don't wreck your nails. They literally file the whole nail surface area before painting on the first coat. It may be 'just' roughing it up but if you don't want to keep the gel up and want to have it done once and then paint your own nails next it looks shit because your nail is rough and the nail varnish doesn't go on on properly and it looks rubbish and not smooth without nail varnish so it's basically trapping you into paying for gels again or having rubbish nails until the roughness grows out which takes a good month or two.

nautys · 07/06/2025 08:33

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 06/06/2025 21:05

What’s the best way to remove them?

Professionally. Gel needs to be wrapped and soaked in acetone to break it down. If you have to ask, you shouldn’t be doing your own gels/removing your own.