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The beauty industry’s biggest con

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Mumoftwo52 · 13/04/2025 20:34

I truly believe that one of the beauty industry’s biggest cons is making women believe they need to wear foundation. Whenever I say this to friends they reply ‘oh but I definitely need foundation for discolouration / spots’ but SO many women wear foundation when they have perfectly lovely skin. I just don’t get it?

Watch celeb / model / influencer skincare/makeup routines and they always use foundation. Even if you have the odd spot or red patch, doesn’t it look better to use concealer? I think foundation often looks cakey and really obvious on the skin.

Obviously people can and should use what they like on their face, but it saddens me to think people feel like they need to wear foundation when their skin is perfectly fine!

OP posts:
Housewife2010 · 14/04/2025 07:28

Woollygreymittens · 14/04/2025 07:07

I think foundation with a sun protection factor incorporated are worthwhile using

Not really. They would have to be ladled on to get anywhere near the SPF they claim to have.

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 14/04/2025 07:32

Wexone · 13/04/2025 21:00

so did I but the difference was then we didn't know what else was out there only max factor pan stick or the elizabeth Armen pan robbed from your mammy. it was trend. trends are around for ever. like the thin eyebrows etc. its not something that has been around only recently. it's been around for 100.tears from wearing red lip every day of the 5os to the harsh Eyeshadow of the eighties. I would actually say now it more normal to wear less. where past generations wouldn't have stepped outside the door with out a full face of make up at 9am in morning.
when I was younger I had severe acne and wore lots of make up to try and cover it up. to make me feel better note because i was forced too. my own mother wore barely any make up. nowadays people are more educated and treatments more available people cam treat it better and better cover up avaliable if they want

This is nonsense - pan stick was very old-fashioned then and there were many more products available in the 90s. MAC had a major impact for younger/trendier customers.

BCBird · 14/04/2025 07:34

Try working in a school where it is a constant battle to stop pupils as young as y8 coming in in a face full of make-up. It's sad

Everystripesays · 14/04/2025 07:37

It depends on the foundation, so many people use the same one they've been using for years 'just because' they're used to it, but there are so many different levels of coverage, effects etc that a decent one suited to your skin imo makes a difference (although of course no make is essential).

Cakeandcheeseforever · 14/04/2025 07:39

I’m in my 40s and never worn foundation, only concealer for spots. I don’t like the tide line foundation can leave where the colour doesn’t match neck/chin. Or the feeling of it sitting on my skin.

StMarie4me · 14/04/2025 07:43

Mumoftwo52 · 13/04/2025 20:52

I grew up in the 90s when we were heavily encouraged to wear foundation from a young age, and many of us would get the wrong shade so we were rocking the orange look.

Of course no one’s being forced - but it has become the norm to wear it and I’d bet the vast majority don’t need to.

I grew up in the 60s and my Mother always wore foundation. So it’s a flipping long ‘con’!

For me, I have days when I do and days when I don’t. It friends how made up I want to look. It’s not a con though. A con is when you are being tricked. The only con is a conscious decision.

Woollygreymittens · 14/04/2025 07:47

@Housewife2010 a friend of mine is a dermatologist and he advises to use foundation with SP throughout the year but coupled with sunscreen during the summer months

ErrolTheDragon · 14/04/2025 07:53

Woollygreymittens · 14/04/2025 07:47

@Housewife2010 a friend of mine is a dermatologist and he advises to use foundation with SP throughout the year but coupled with sunscreen during the summer months

Why not just good facial sunscreen though?

anyway….almost anything the ‘beauty industry’ flogs to women but not to men is likely a con.
On concealers/foundation for acne and rosacea (I’ve had the former and still get the latter) men are conned into thinking it’s unmanly of them to use these products…the flip side of sexism.

EveryFlavourJellyBeans · 14/04/2025 07:58

Why just foundation? Why not all make up? I've never worn any. Don't see the need. Why pretend my face is anything different? Men don't feel the need to wear a mask, why should women?

I'm not a looker by any means. I just think it's better to accept who we are, physically, and focus on being healthy instead of being pretty.

Init4thecatz · 14/04/2025 07:59

Creams in general. Do you really think there are different types of skin? Face cream, hand cream, body cream...

Dashel · 14/04/2025 08:03

That you are worth it but the animals products are tested on aren’t. Also how many companies pretend they don’t test on animals but they actually do. Ie they might not test the finished product on animals but they pay others to test the components for them.

1apenny2apenny · 14/04/2025 08:05

Does he recommend that to men as well @Woollygreymittens?

If we all stop and think about it men dont wear make up so why do women? Men have just as many dark spots, uneven skin tones etc. the beauty industry is a con because it tells women they have to do things themselves because they are not beautiful enough!

I think i look better with a bit of tinted moisturiser, mascara and lip gloss - but do I? I’ve been convinced I need it. Men don’t need to make their eyes ‘pop’ so why do I?

Nutmuncher · 14/04/2025 08:09

That glowing dewy complexion looks much better when it’s because of eating a great diet, not smoking or vaping, drinking very little alcohol, wearing spf, having a great skincare routine and good quality sleep instead of coming from a bottle or tube.

TheOGCCL · 14/04/2025 08:11

My skin has been a work in progress all my life and I’m also very wan looking and I’ve been very grateful for skincare and make up products. Recently I have tested not wearing my tinted moisturiser for a couple of weeks and my skin is responding really well - I think maybe even though I like wearing wearing it, it’s not the best for me.

Even though I wear light, expensive formulas, sheered out, it still settles, highlights my lines, highlights any dry patches (having potentially created said dry patches). makes me shiny, and blocks my pores. I am interested in getting used to what my natural face looks like (still wearing blusher, mascara and eyeliner though!). I guess it’s just about making sure your slap isn’t automatic, particularly if you’ve been doing the same thing for years. Even day to day people have different needs.

Housewife2010 · 14/04/2025 08:11

I've always adored make up. As a child in the late 70's I loved playing with my older sister's discarded make up. I've been lucky to have always had good skin and have never worn or been interested in a full coverage foundation. Tinted moisturisers and lighter foundations have been around for years. In the 80's I wore No 7. In the 90's I had Clinique Almost Make up tinted moisturiser and their Balanced Make up. A previous poster was talking about the "harsh" eyeshadow of the 80's. I don't remember the Miss Selfridge, No 7, Boots 17 or Biba eyeshadows I wore as being harsh. I've worn make up regularly for 40 years now & never felt I had to wear a heavy base. I always want a tinted moisturiser or light foundation to look like my natural skin on its best day - never to look like my skin wiith foundation on.
I'm also happy to be barefaced too.

BeardofHagrid · 14/04/2025 08:13

Housewife2010 · 14/04/2025 07:28

Not really. They would have to be ladled on to get anywhere near the SPF they claim to have.

Because of the pigment in foundations they do have excellent spf function. Anything with pigment performs better than a clear spf.

Woollygreymittens · 14/04/2025 08:13

@1apenny2apenny yes, he wears sun protection every day with a facial tint BB type foundation

theressomanytinafeysicouldbe · 14/04/2025 08:27

I wear make up once a year. I can't apply it properly. I've watched videos and everything and I just can't get it. I dermaplane monthly, use a serum and I use a cheap moisturiser most days

Wexone · 14/04/2025 08:30

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 14/04/2025 07:32

This is nonsense - pan stick was very old-fashioned then and there were many more products available in the 90s. MAC had a major impact for younger/trendier customers.

It wasnt were i lived - wasnt even available in the country to buy at the time, Pan stick was hugely popular as was Rimmel heather shimmer lipstick, we were limited at the time of the shops available to us and what they stocked. Some lucky girls bought Mac in our last year of school, but they only got it cause they went to the USA with the opera for a few days

CatamaranViper · 14/04/2025 08:35

Mumoftwo52 · 14/04/2025 06:30

People can do what they like with their faces. I’m not saying women shouldn’t wear foundation. I’m simply saying I believe we have been conditioned to think we need to wear it when many of us don’t. And that’s a shame.

There's the shame. Thought you weren't trying to shame people OP?

CatamaranViper · 14/04/2025 08:36

Mumoftwo52 · 14/04/2025 06:21

As I have said previously, I understand why people with acne wear foundation. I DONT understand why millions of people with perfectly lovely skin feel the need to wear foundation. We have been made to believe we need it, as much as using moisturiser or mascara. Tell me: does this woman need foundation? No, but she incorporates it into her daily makeup routine anyway. And that baffles me. m.youtube.com/watch?v=seCR_uYH8OI&pp=0gcJCdgAo7VqN5tD

Edited

And there's targeting individuals. This is hardly women building up women.

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 14/04/2025 08:39

Lots of foundations contain SPF. Only a low amount - often factor 15. But that's got to be one good thing surely?

Arianasande · 14/04/2025 08:43

No one needs makeup.

I can go many days without wearing make up at all.

However, sometimes I do like wearing foundation and eyeliner.

AnnaMagnani · 14/04/2025 08:44

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 13/04/2025 21:24

People think they need to wear it because so many other people wear it and so the look of foundation is normalised and that’s what they think they “should” look like. I stand next to friends for photos and look like a ghost in the photos (or a beetroot face!) but strangely, in real life, I get lots of compliments on my lovely healthy natural looking skin. Go figure!

edited = not people.. women, of course. It’s always just women.

Edited

Same here. I rarely (like once a year) wear makeup.

I continually get compliments on my lovely skin - which is just average v pale skin with some sun damage spots.

Bizarrely I get these compliments from women who have exactly the same looking skin but believe theirs is awful and must be covered up.

I have absolutely no issue with wearing makeup as a fun or creative thing, it just makes me sad that so many women think they are too vile to appear in public without it.

Dollshousedolly · 14/04/2025 08:46

Are we to have no fun or lightness in life ??? There was a post yesterday about consumerism and many seemed to think we should live in homes with only the bare basics, dress in sack-cloths and buy nothing beyond the very bare necessities. Now today it’s foundation - women have been wearing foundation in some form for many hundreds of years.

Wear it or don’t wear it. I wear a light foundation in winter, purely because I think I look better wearing it, actually I know it makes me look better. I know I’d still look fine without it also. Some people enjoy the whole process of getting up, getting dressed in clothes that look well on them, putting on make-up, spraying perfume, etc. Some people don’t.

Having said that, I do think a lot of people have become obsessed with having the ‘perfect flawless face’ purely because of social media and camera filters and influencers. They show perfectly flawless faces on screen but take away the filters and you’ll see the pores, lines, dark circles, etc. You won’t see flawless skin but you’ll see a face where it’s quite obvious that several products were used to present a flawless complexion on screen.

But overall, if you want to wear foundation, wear it. It’s not the biggest con on the beauty business at all.

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