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This older lady on the train..

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KibbeMe · 21/09/2024 16:29

I loved what she wore, and she looked so comfortable!
I wouldn't call it a style, or remotely fashion conscious, but she was obviously interested in clothes, if that makes sense?

She was 65+ or thereabouts, medium height, slim, with bushy hair in a lovely twist. She was wearing a long tweed, flecked coat, with a sort of jersey tunic under it with a modest pattern. She wore dark wool tights with socks and clumpy brown boots, with a cotton tote and gorgeous mustard coloured wool scarf.

I remember thinking that I rarely saw older women in shorter skirts/tunics, and she looked fantastic. What struck me most was how at ease this all looked, so kind of interesting but comfy. It did not scream money, but wasn't cheap at all, it is hard to describe it, as it wasn't on trend for any age group, but reminded me a little of a dance tutor I had in my 20's who was vaguely bohemian in a neater, relaxed sort of way (not trendy or frilly).

If any of this makes sense, I would love some recommendations. It all looked great quality but not in popular styles. The tunic looked like basic jersey with a scoop neck, wasn't baggy or tight. Colours were mixed but not obvious.
This was in March this year and I still haven't forgotten her!

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littlestrawberryhat · 21/09/2024 17:51

Mistral do lovely tunics in lovely prints…otherwise was going to say toast but try in-store as they sell old preowned stuff in the style you like

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 21/09/2024 17:52

This sounds like the sort of thing you could get on Boden about 15 years ago.

purser25 · 21/09/2024 17:52

Could have been seasalt

Drinkdrinkduuurink · 21/09/2024 17:58

BustingBaoBun · 21/09/2024 16:55

You should've told her

I recently told an older lady from Germany she looked wonderful
She was on the beach and put on this very sheer black jumpsuit thing and just looked fab. I told her so. She was so delighted she was a bit tearful.

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Aww that's lovely.

I agree, it's a nice thing to say to people.

Rather than just admire, we should be telling them more often!

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 21/09/2024 18:04

Kind of Claudia Winkelman traitors style?

This older lady on the train..
Peaceandquietandacuppa · 21/09/2024 18:04

Drinkdrinkduuurink · 21/09/2024 17:58

Aww that's lovely.

I agree, it's a nice thing to say to people.

Rather than just admire, we should be telling them more often!

Yes and also maybe they will share some shopping tips 😉

blackrabbitwhiterabbit · 21/09/2024 18:06

My mum dresses like this. Aged 80 and so much more refined than me.

KibbeMe · 21/09/2024 18:10

Thanks for some of the tips! I am trying to venture a little more into pattern, but never get the nerve.

To a pp who mentioned it being neither innovative or mysterious - i never said it was either, I said it was very different to what I usually see around me nowadays. It wasn't dated or old fashioned, just sort of self contained and weirdly simple.
I rarely see women of any age in shorter skirts and dresses recently as the midi trend has been pretty huge.

This was on a train leaving Windermere station in March. I travel through quite often between the south lakes and shrewsbury.

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angstypant · 21/09/2024 18:11

Panicatthegarden · 21/09/2024 17:13

You might like some of Universal Works clothing

Ditto womenswear?

KibbeMe · 21/09/2024 18:12

@Garlictest Thanks for that link, I have finally located a scoop neck tee!

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angstypant · 21/09/2024 18:12

Should read 'do they do' not ditto

MakeMineAJaffa · 21/09/2024 18:16

Teacher/ social worker/ arty type.

KibbeMe · 21/09/2024 18:18

I really love some of the cotton tops at 'jumping ship'.
Has anyone used this site?

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TheDandyLion · 21/09/2024 18:23

Sounds like the 'Frazzled English Woman'

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 21/09/2024 18:25

Not sure what a "modest pattern" comprises.

KibbeMe · 21/09/2024 18:28

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 21/09/2024 18:25

Not sure what a "modest pattern" comprises.

Oh, that is such a shame.

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Garlictest · 21/09/2024 18:36

KibbeMe · 21/09/2024 18:18

I really love some of the cotton tops at 'jumping ship'.
Has anyone used this site?

Yes, I've got a bit of their stuff. It's well made - in England - and lasts forever. You can even ring them up (or use the web form) for advice and minor adjustments!

Panicatthegarden · 21/09/2024 18:36

angstypant · 21/09/2024 18:12

Should read 'do they do' not ditto

Yes they do!

KibbeMe · 21/09/2024 18:39

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Really?
Perhaps someone ought to speak out about it.
My OP is pretty respectful. Aside from the genuinely helpful comments, this thread is peppered with passive aggressive horseshit, picking my words apart, or else one sentence out-downs.
Not been on here for a while, looks as if S&B is heading the same way as AIBU.

"check myself", lol, why yes ma'm.

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Gowlett · 21/09/2024 18:40

Yeah, I saw a lady similar age on the bus, yesterday. Lovely long printed skirt, but not the voluminous gypsy sort, nice heavy cotton. Teamed with a brown leather blazer. Bob haircut, but not structured or “arty” looking, if you know what I mean. No quirky glasses! She looked so great, and comfortable.

godmum56 · 21/09/2024 18:44

I am 70 and wear seasalt tunics with leggings but you'd never call me fantastic!!

Gowlett · 21/09/2024 18:45

Culture Night in Dublin. Saw a lot of well-dressed women.