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Nail question

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battybobo1 · 20/05/2024 23:19

My 14 year old DD bites her nails. She has been trying to grow them, as she is desperate to have them looking better for our upcoming half term holiday. They aren't a very good shape - pink bits are quite wide and short and white tips look too long in comparison.

She would like acrylics but I'm not keen, as I belive they would damage her nails. I know nothing about having your nails done, so could someone with more experience suggest any alternatives, please?

Thank you in advance.

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TryingAgainAgainAgain · 20/05/2024 23:21

No way at that age. Plus are you aware of the allergy to Nail Builder some people are having? There's a thread on here. Nail wraps might be safer?

TryingAgainAgainAgain · 20/05/2024 23:43

Here:
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/styleandd_beauty/4916382-sudden-allergy-to-biab-nails

Perhaps get her some nail oil and let her choose some great colour nail polishes, eg Barry M:

barrym.com/collections/nails

BeretRaspberry · 21/05/2024 00:05

I recommend her all the time but check out The Salon Life on YouTube. She has loads of advice on caring for natural nails. All relatively cheap too.

It won’t be a quick fix but it’ll be worth it.

I’d avoid gels or acrylics.. they’re actually better on healthier and stronger nails. It’s a myth they provide strength. They’re only ever as good as the natural nails underneath them.

songaboutjam · 21/05/2024 03:38

My 14 year old DD bites her nails. She has been trying to grow them, as she is desperate to have them looking better for our upcoming half term holiday. They aren't a very good shape - pink bits are quite wide and short and white tips look too long in comparison.

Long-term nail biter here, only very recently kicked the habit. My message to your daughter:

I coated my nails with Sally Hansen Maximum Growth. Sally Hansen products are very hard wearing and will help keep your nails protected (both from environmental stress and your nibbling) without chipping. Personally I lose the temptation to bite when the texture of my nails is all weird. The trick is to keep applying Sally Hansen until the temptation to bite is gone. Your nails will grow out long before this happens, so make sure you don't relapse!

You'll probably find the white bits on your nails get tons of dirt under them. This only happens in the early stages as your nail tips are still almost flush against your skin. Don't dig the dirt out with tools or your other nails as this will separate the nail from the bed and shorten the pink bits even further. Use a soft nailbrush to clean underneath and if you do need to apply more force, be as gentle as you can.

Your nails will still be a bit uneven for your holiday, but if you can grow the white bits then a salon can work with that. Even at this early stage, a basic filing manicure will massively improve the look of your nails. I wouldn't recommend acrylics as they may damage your nails and put you off keeping them nice. Gels can be damaging too but nowhere near as bad as acrylics. Your best bet at this early stage is probably just regular nail polish.

It's a huge challenge to try and stop biting your nails - non-nail biters have no idea how difficult it is. But even if you relapse, don't be too upset with yourself. You've proven that you have the self-control to stop! You've got this!

Also OP, I would definitely recommend using the salon as a reward (even if you don't take her very often!) I've been getting the occasional manicure to treat myself for kicking that 20-year habit and each new manicure makes me feel very rewarded and much less tempted to bite.

battybobo1 · 21/05/2024 07:20

Thank so much for all the information - I had no idea. I'm going to suggest she works on a more natural approach to improve the look.

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Preg1989 · 21/05/2024 12:26

Long time biter here!

I would bite my nails til I was about 28 - only ever the white part (my brother bites the skin around the nail too and looks very painful)

I hated that they didn’t grow at the same rate so if I had a couple of “nice” nails and the rest were still short, I’d just bite them all again to the same length!

What finally got me to stop - I had a set of short stick on French manicure nails (from Primark or similar, nothing fancy) and if one pinged off, I’d stick it back on. When they finally gave up and I soaked the last of them off, I had a full set of nails underneath! Granted, they weren’t long, strong, beautiful nails but seeing the start really spurred me on and I started applying nail strengthener, hand cream etc.

To make the stick on nails last, you really need to take a bit of time to prep the natural nail first. I’d also recommend keeping them quite short as they will stop them catching on things and coming off as easily.

autumn1610 · 21/05/2024 12:39

Where I go they won’t do gels under a certain age, would assume the same with acrylics, so maybe worth checking the age. I kicked my nail biting habit with gels but I know as soon as I don’t do it it they will be gnawed down!

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