I love handbags/shoulder bags/crossbody bags etc., and have a fairly large collection of them. However, I don’t like someone else buying me bags (unless I’m with them, or I have said I like), as I very much like to choose the ones I get. I have several bags (combined cost of about £1k) lying in a drawer, which are not to my taste and I wont ever use. So if you’re getting her something personal like this, make sure that she can exchange or return it, in case she doesn’t like it.