First date (in a long time!) outfit help

[Definitelynotme2022]

I have a first date for dinner and drinks at the weekend. It's my first date in 19 years..... so more than a little daunting.

I'm 53, size 16. Any ideas? I prefer things that aren't too shapeless as I have an hourglass figure, so they tend to look like tents on me. My normal go to would be a plain jersey dress, probably in black or navy with a nice jacket.

OP most of the above suggestions are verging on lunacy.

The first silk maxi dress is very formal and you run the risk of looking quite mad if you turn up in something like that, even if you dress it down with Birkenstocks and an Afghan hound on a lead.

As a short size 16 myself I'd go with something like this plus it's great value:

https://m.shein.co.uk/Chain-Cutout-Front-Bodycon-Dress-p-10139188-cat-1727.html?onelink=3%2F2tthqip9ov22&requestId=468011256150425695&skucode=I06wt1wvf7f1&urlfrom=ukadplasw2203238528998891MMGPM&cid=21104249421&setid=&adid=&pf=GOOGLE&gadsource=1&gbraid=0AAAAADm0yO5fGzcfXiNKumr0Zjii4rFS1&gclid=CjwKCAjw8diwBhAbEiwA7isJUmdbGPnmMEBT3amGeF91RIMJXoVVJ9LWsRk4VeUUg7fzVNQEhkRhoC29sQAvDDBwE&ref=www&rep=dir&ret=m

Hahahahahaha

OP... I'm late 50s with an hour glass figure, size 14-16. So not a million miles away from you. I always wear a v-neck, otherwise my bust looks ridiculous.

For a first date which included dinner and drinks, I'd wear something that looks and feels great when you're sitting down.

None of us know what types of things you like to wear but I've bought some pretty flattering tops and dresses online from Sosander that suit an hourglass figure.

That's the first dress I've liked.
Blossom x3 is usually reliable but I'm not keen on any of her suggestions here

If it were me, I'd probably wear one of my Klements dresses or if I were splurging on a new dress this.

Alémais

(My fantasy outfit would be this)

Fantasy date dress

Well I must have worn a dress as I've never owned leggings or joggers and I did take child to soft play (occasionally) I agree those dresses are too everyday.

Before you do anything, update yourself by googling fashion for over 50's

That's the worst advice ever; on any thread for any event.

Even better if they do one in pleather.....

I think it would be a really useful exercise for anyone making suggestions here to first answer this question:

Have you ever been on a date?

Now that could 'cause havoc' for sure.

Not that I'm likely to go on a date ... but if I did then yes I'd wear a jersey dress as that's the kind of thing I wear and feels comfortable . Would were a leather jacket rather than blazer though.

Agree with That's the worst advice ever; on any thread for any event. Do not Google fashion ideas for over 50s!

I think some of the suggestions/posters are a bit pretentious.

@rft I e just seen your post from yesterday buried within this thread about dressing for a date . You need to start your own thread in 'relationships'.

I don't own a little black dress. It's near-impossible to get dresses for H cup tits.

Ah bless you, I'm a G cup 🙈😂 so I know the struggles, I have a small back to 32/34 I struggle buying bars 😂😂

What do you consider your best physical features, what you'd like to show off?

I'm the same age and size as you OP. Not thrilled about my figure ATM so I'd be dressing in a 'blank canvas' that puts the attention on my face. Modest, flowy but tailored clothes in head to toe black and put all my time and effort into hair and makeup.

I'd probably go wide leg pants, a chiffon or silk shirt and pointy flats as that feels cool and modern, but you could easily achieve the same with a black dress and jacket plus any shoes you love.

God it's annoying when the OP buggers off.
Agree with others wear something you feel good and comfortable in. Post a picture of your best option, state why you like it. Give details of where you are going (not actual place, but similar)
Then people can comment on whether your current outfit is ok, or similar suggestions.

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Good grief, you are taking this very seriously. You were very rude in a previous post, it seems like you don't mind dishing it out.

OP, whatever happens, I hope you find something that you love and have an amazing date. I don't blame you for not coming back to the thread.

That pink monstrosity looks like a giant sausage casing. It's one of the most hideous dresses I've ever seen in my life. It wouldn't be flattering on anyone. Suggesting that for a first date would probably lead to the date doing a runner out of the toilet window to get away from being seen with anyone wearing it.

I'm not surprised she's went away with the amount of replies and arguments 🤦🏻‍♀️

OP I hope the date goes well whatever you wear!

We should have a sticky on the top of the forum, asking all posters to specify budget to save time. I understand many expensive clothes can be bought on Vinted but I don't think those leather ones over £1 k will be knocking about there at reduced cost.

Though it would make S and B much less entertaining. I am only here for the laughs; would never ask for advice!😁

im loving that this thread shows the huge range of things people would wear for a first date!

It depends whether it’s a meal at Wetherspoons or the ivy but I love the idea of a PP - slip skirt and top with boots of some sort. I’d choose a thin but slightly slouchy v neck Knitted top of sone sort. Or maybe a cardigan like this (comes in loads of colours so you could pick one that suits you or matches with skirt). It looks effortless but the satin of the skirt, softness of the top and glimpse of cleavage is sexy. I’d also push the sleeves up.

The way Sezanne styles its clothes puts me off buying anything from them. I really dislike that pouty, I'm so sexy and French , I've just rolled out of bed and can't find my bra or a hairbrush" look.

@Definitelynotme2022 I'd probably wear something like this. You can dress it down with a jacket and flats/trainers if that's your style, or dress it up. It would make a good dress from spring through to autumn and it's 100 per cent cotton so no worries about getting sweaty if that's an issue when you're nervous etc. You didn't include your height but it comes in regular and petite lengths.

https://www.joebrowns.co.uk/colette-floral-dress-we906?___store=GBP&glCountry=UK&glCurrency=GBP&utm_campaign=&utm_adgroup=&utm_kwd=&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_content=&utm_cidCj0KCQjwlN6wBhCcARIsAKZvD5iht4vY6MOTVq1MQSkGuQ_P9w9iqV-ozVgegCqGdTbJ30mmwo7X7XwaAlqaEALw_wcB&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwlN6wBhCcARIsAKZvD5iht4vY6MOTVq1MQSkGuQ_P9w9iqV-ozVgegCqGdTbJ30mmwo7X7XwaAlqaEALw_wcB

Ha, so true! It would look rather different IRL without the sultry look.