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Wedding guest dress needed for Scottish wedding. 1950's swing?

55 replies

ForTheLoveOfGrace · 09/03/2024 08:30

Hello, you lovely lot. I'm attending a wedding for Scottish relatives in July and fancy getting myself a tartan 1950's Swing Dress for the day.

I've seen one on Pretty Kitty but I was wondering if any of you had any other good recommendations of sites I should try.

My DH and I got married in Scotland some years ago and our wedding cake topper was him in his uniform and me in a dark green and dark blue tartan dress so thought it would be nice to actually wear it for this. Thanks in advance!

I saw this one the other day but out of stock in my size 😏

Wedding guest dress needed for Scottish wedding. 1950's swing?
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Casperthecheeky · 09/03/2024 21:24

I'm Scottish with Irish roots and wouldn't give a damn if you wore tartan . Also had a Great Uncle in the Black Watch. Doubt he'd give a feck he's deid and doubt he care when alive. What's with the cos playing patter ?Ffs !
I love 50s style dress OP( I had a 50's wedding 12 years ago in the Winter !) and Vivian of Holloway( pricey though) has some lovely ones as has Collectif. Lindy Bop have relaunched I believe also. Have a lovely time OP.

Casperthecheeky · 09/03/2024 21:30

@Itsmeamandaberry this is a very recent trend and for the Lowlanders wasn't a thing at all. Get your nationalist revisionist pish out of fashion. Not a single groom in my family has ever wore a kilt - are we not Scottish ?? Oh but I have wore loads of tartan in my day and still do !!

HaggisHhahaha · 09/03/2024 21:30

Moonshinemisses · 09/03/2024 16:15

That dress is gorgeous. The only thing I would suggest if you're going for Tartan is check with the couple that no tartans are off limits. The men from my dad's side all wore Rangers Tartan to my wedding. One of my husband's well-meaning English friends wore a green Tartan (Celtic). I didn't bother me, but my dad & uncles were less than impressed.

Ooh I’m Scottish and was discussing with my son what clan he would go with to get his 21st birthday kilt (me or dh)

ive never heard of a rangers tartan, I do remember a millennium tartan being commissioned but didn’t know there were football clubs with tartans

Rumbunctious · 09/03/2024 22:34

MsAnnFrope · 09/03/2024 20:06

What about a non Scottish wedding? Not that I give a shiny shite and will fully wear whatever I like at all times but I’m
curious

“curious” or “interested” on here always equals looking for an online argument. I’ve replied to the the OP. I wouldn’t wear a tartan dress to a Scottish wedding - she’d be as well wearing a see you Jimmy hat to compliment it.

Go and be “curious” elsewhere in the internet if you’re bored.

Gibs0nGirl · 09/03/2024 22:45

The dresses you've posted are v nice but I agree it's a bit 'Kate Middleton Does Scotland'.

I'm Scottish and it wouldn't enter my head to wear a tartan dress to a wedding tbh; there will likely be a specific tartan for the wedding party and I wouldn't want mine to either clash or match.

EcstaticMarmalade · 09/03/2024 22:49

As a Scottish person I’d think it was a bit gauche.

I wouldn’t be offended or think you were a bad person. But it’s a bit like those American tourists who wear a beret and a Breton when visiting Paris.

ForTheLoveOfGrace · 09/03/2024 23:31

Thanks for all your thoughts. I am Scottish and as I said in my OP I just thought it would be nice to recreate the wedding topper I had at my wedding some years ago.

No other tartan is being worn apart from a few kilts by my close family (the bride and grown are close relatives) and they don't have an issue at all with the idea of me wearing one of these dresses (we were showing each other ideas recently) I was just hoping for some more links for swing dresses that are in stock in my size.

Maybe I should rethink the dark colour as it's a summer wedding though and hadn't really thought that tartan would be an issue so might just go for it anyway. I will have a think on it.

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Wheresthescissors · 09/03/2024 23:39

Thing is it's not about your wedding topper, someone else's wedding isn't about something from your wedding. I mean if you didn't mention it to anyone: but then what is the point? Get it for your anniversary instead!

ForTheLoveOfGrace · 09/03/2024 23:46

@Wheresthescissors no it's not I just thought it would be a nice opportunity.

I'm very close with the wedding party and wearing tartan really isn't a issue with them in fact they have actively encouraged it. I was just wanting some site recommendations really. Ahh well 🤷‍♀️

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Bettyscakes · 10/03/2024 06:56

I really don’t understand recreating your wedding topper at someone else’s wedding. That’s very strange and a bit me me me. They probably just said it was ok as didn’t know what else to say. Surely it’s an anniversary idea for you to wear which is lovely and understandable!

EatsShoootsAndLeaves · 10/03/2024 07:09

I love this style of dress! I would recommend a brand called Hearts and Roses - I have worn one of their floral swing dresses to a wedding. I also really liked the LindyBop swing dresses - they went into administration but you can still buy Preloved on vinted/eBay and they are a nice quality. You might want to add a petticoat/underskirt for some added swish.

Itsmeamandaberry · 10/03/2024 07:30

Casperthecheeky · 09/03/2024 21:30

@Itsmeamandaberry this is a very recent trend and for the Lowlanders wasn't a thing at all. Get your nationalist revisionist pish out of fashion. Not a single groom in my family has ever wore a kilt - are we not Scottish ?? Oh but I have wore loads of tartan in my day and still do !!

It's got nothing to do with nationalism but it's very annoying when people cos play tartan.

I could not give a shiny shit what your family wear. Maybe adjust your attitude it's frankly disgusting.

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ForTheLoveOfGrace · 10/03/2024 08:31

Thank you @EatsShoootsAndLeaves this is just what I was looking for especially as they seem to have pockets too. Double points!

Yes, will definitely be wearing a petticoats under it too 👍🏻

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ForTheLoveOfGrace · 10/03/2024 08:32

Thanks @Tinkeytonkoldfruit appreciate it 👍🏻

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donothing · 10/03/2024 08:46

The dresses from Hearts and Roses are gorgeous

DinnaeFashYersel · 10/03/2024 08:52

I'm Scottish and think your dress is lovely.

Can't believe fellow Scots are wound up about this.

Their bums are oot the windae on this wan.

ForTheLoveOfGrace · 10/03/2024 08:52

Thanks for the replies. I'm bowing out of the conversation as I got what I came for some links to some lovely swing dresses.

I'll leave those that want to continue discussing tartan to it.

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ForTheLoveOfGrace · 10/03/2024 08:56

DinnaeFashYersel · 10/03/2024 08:52

I'm Scottish and think your dress is lovely.

Can't believe fellow Scots are wound up about this.

Their bums are oot the windae on this wan.

This! ⬆️ it was supposed to be a light hearted style and beauty thread that went a bit Confused

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Whatevershallidowithmylife · 10/03/2024 09:06

Itsmeamandaberry · 09/03/2024 21:10

It's not though. Tartan isn't just a pattern it's an important part of our dress!

For you it is, for me it isn't. It's not a protected species you know 😀

Casperthecheeky · 10/03/2024 10:11

@Itsmeamandaberry aw shame !

OP I think you will look lovely! I love 50's style dress and tartan is such an amazing print! I would definitely recommend a swirly underskirt as you will be doing lots of "birling" at a Scottish wedding!

Casperthecheeky · 10/03/2024 10:14

@Whatevershallidowithmylife Us Scots are oppressed so we are, you know.

Wheresthescissors · 10/03/2024 11:48

I think it would have been helpful if the Op had put that she was Scottish in her initial post - some of the advice was aimed at a probably-English person going all out for a Scottish wedding and possible getting it wrong.

Casperthecheeky · 10/03/2024 17:24

@Wheresthescissors why would the advice be different if it was an English person? I am really becoming quite ashamed to be Scottish. It's a dress. She's going to a wedding. Since when did tartan become so blooming precious ? Everybody and his uncle has their own tartan.