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Want to dress up, but nowhere to go (or go with 🥰) Fantasy wardrobe creation

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ThisOrTha · 09/12/2023 16:35

I used to love getting dressed up and glam. Not from a vanity perspective but the fun and excitement of it. I’m now older with two kids a DH in tow. There never seems to be an opportunity to do this anymore and my friends don’t really do it either- mainly because we are all knackered with life responsibilities.

So thought, if anyone feels the same or up for it- want to choose tonight’s (fantasy if I was going out) outfit? I was in town today and saw these: https://www.russellandbromley.co.uk/topform/241487?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiAvdCrBhBREiwAX6-6UivGbHCkpkvV8CWJv2l3RDDsvP9sj6C9NRqWvwZnXMNDR9eNmWxEiRoChGwQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

Love them, too OTT for a drink at the local? 😆

TOPFORM

Platform Sandal

https://www.russellandbromley.co.uk/topform/241487?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiAvdCrBhBREiwAX6-6UivGbHCkpkvV8CWJv2l3RDDsvP9sj6C9NRqWvwZnXMNDR9eNmWxEiRoChGwQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

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Madamswearsalot · 10/12/2023 19:54

@Justfinking In my head I too am almost 8ft tall and willowy 😂

WimbyAce · 10/12/2023 20:20

I have a sparkly dress in the wardrobe, bought it on a whim hugely discounted. Never worn it 😔

Vetoncall · 10/12/2023 21:08

@Sharedcupboard you just cost me £79 😄 I couldn't resist that M&S jacket, I need a 'going out' jacket and it looks exactly my style so thank you, I wouldn't have seen it if you hadn't posted it here! I think you should definitely get it too 😉 Unfortunately I really can't justify that beautiful navy Wolf and Badger dress too but it's stunning.

Want to dress up, but nowhere to go (or go with 🥰) Fantasy wardrobe creation
PomsRun · 10/12/2023 22:56

Tontostitis · 10/12/2023 06:47

I bought a tulle skirt in a deep green last week already worn in with a loose cotton jumper and boots. I'm trying to resist wearing it everyday tbh. It's not massively voluminous though.

@Tontostitis Ooh that sounds gorgeous. Cab you link please?

MaitreKarlsson · 11/12/2023 00:04

@VenusClapTrap love that Reiss dress!!!

Bought some gorgeous sparkly boots last week but have realised I don't have anywhere glam enough to wear them!

barbarahunter · 11/12/2023 08:37

I have a sparkly skirt I bought from Next and I have never worn it. I'm definitely going to wear it at Christmas!

ThisOrTha · 11/12/2023 19:00

Yay- so glad we are inspiring each other to dust down the glad rags and g8ve them a whirl this Christmas 🥰

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Frenchfancy · 11/12/2023 19:08

@LadyGeorginaSmythe I need to know where this hotel is! I would love to take my friends to a disco party night!

LadyGeorginaSmythe · 11/12/2023 19:45

Frenchfancy · 11/12/2023 19:08

@LadyGeorginaSmythe I need to know where this hotel is! I would love to take my friends to a disco party night!

Village Hotel party nights!

EllaMenopee · 11/12/2023 22:58

barbarahunter · 11/12/2023 08:37

I have a sparkly skirt I bought from Next and I have never worn it. I'm definitely going to wear it at Christmas!

I have a black sequin, slightly a-line, midi skirt Santa brought me last year. I wore it so much I got a bit fed up of it, then put it away for 2 months and love it again. I have lovely biker boots to wear with it in the cold and white trainers when it's warm. Definitely on my best buy list.

Deathraystare · 15/12/2023 11:48

@TooTiredToType77

Nooooooo! Should have kept it to sashay around Sainsburys!

I would love to wear it even though they call 18-20 extra extra large (cheek!) and Berry is not my colour!

SleepingStandingUp · 15/12/2023 12:06

Madamswearsalot · 09/12/2023 22:40

I have no idea where I’d wear it but this caught my eye: https://www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/tricia-shiny-silk-wave-dress-blue/

Maybe on a yacht party?

Spring wedding?

SleepingStandingUp · 15/12/2023 12:09

JoyeuxNarwhal · 10/12/2023 09:54

@ThisOrTha I had shoes almost identical to that in the 90s. Loved them and wore them everywhere. Until the night I fell off them in a club and broke my ankle Blush

I was also getting 90s flash back vibes 🫣😂. Can't wear heels like that now.

Whoever sent back the tulle skirt, you need to buy it back!! I'm too fat for tulle skirts, do it in my name lol

SleepingStandingUp · 15/12/2023 12:10

MaitreKarlsson · 11/12/2023 00:04

@VenusClapTrap love that Reiss dress!!!

Bought some gorgeous sparkly boots last week but have realised I don't have anywhere glam enough to wear them!

Brighten up the supermarket or school run

MincePieForMe · 15/12/2023 14:17

Wear your sparkles and sequins everyday!! Don't leave them in the wardrobe for a party that may never happen.

divinededacende · 15/12/2023 14:47

Sharedcupboard · 10/12/2023 08:26

I really want this but I have nowhere to wear it bar the pub on Christmas Eve.

https://www.marksandspencer.com/sequin-relaxed-bomber-jacket/p/clp60625659?prevPage=srp#intid=pid_pg1pip19g4r1c1

I also really want this little bag from Quiz. Marks and Spencer have something similar and there was one left yesterday and I walked away. Again I’ve no where to take it but I want it.

https://www.quizclothing.co.uk/accessories/00100038142.html

Do it! It's glam but it's also a bomber jacket so it's not OTT for the pub.

I'll be honest, I'm a guy and I tried this on in M&S because I thought I wanted to go wild for the works Christmas party (that I didn't make it to in the end). Unfortunatey, I'm 6ft so a woman's jacket is too short for me.

I don't know why, but I've been determined I'm going to rock sequins this Christmas. Is 38 too young for a mid-life crisis? I'm starting to worry that's what's happening here.

Missingpate · 15/12/2023 14:55

SleepingStandingUp · 15/12/2023 12:09

I was also getting 90s flash back vibes 🫣😂. Can't wear heels like that now.

Whoever sent back the tulle skirt, you need to buy it back!! I'm too fat for tulle skirts, do it in my name lol

Yes wear it for me too! Love tulle skirts. Bought a gorgeous one and then realised I’m far too pear shaped to wear them, it made me look very very wide and I had to get rid of it. It felt so amazing on but when my husband said what are you wearing it makes you look enormous i couldn’t deny it anymore. He really doesn’t normally say things like that, it just really didn’t suit me! I was sad.

MegMez · 15/12/2023 15:16

These are a pretty basic shape and style so if it's the cost that's worrying you, there will be very similar out there. This style, shape and colour will go with so many outfits so could be worn with plenty. I rarely go out with just my husband but I love getting dolled up. I have kids, we've been married for 13 years but only Covid stopped the chances to get dressed up (although even then we'd get all dolled up for Zoom parties). Oh hang on - I think I got the wrong end of the stick on your post! This is just fantasy outfits is it? Mine are all on pinterest!

Do you get dressed up on Christmas day? I do! I know some people do PJs on Christmas day but we've always worn party clothes.

Do you meet friends for a couple of drinks? No? Why not?! Be the one to suggest it! I can't afford meals out so we just go to a pub we can get to by train. You can have responsibilities and fun. Bring some sparkly social joy to life.

This past year most of my friends have been turning 40 so we've had a week away, parties, weekends in a country house or staying with friends and at every single thing we've had a moment to get dressed up. Staying in an Air BnB nowhere near bars? Have a dinner night where everyone gets dressed up for the meal. I am never knowingly underdressed.

What about weddings? Oh my days - we've had so many weddings and hen dos! I hardly wear heels other than those - prefer to wear gold cowboy boots or my doc martens but you can defo find times and places to wear nice things.

Fannyfiggs · 15/12/2023 17:54

EllaMenopee · 09/12/2023 23:06

I love a tulle skirt. And they are fantastically warm this time of year.

I have about half of Wolf & Badger in my online basket. Really need an occasionand body for this
www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/satin-long-dress-navy-blue-tied-back/

Wow, that is just beautiful.

I also need an occasion/body/healthier bank account to buy it.

Astrabees · 15/12/2023 18:20

I have the Hush tulle skirt, I wore it with gold cowboy boots and a plain black top to a Mari Wilson “Christmas party” concert last week and will wear it again on Christmas Day. It is very comfortable and looks great on.

Want to dress up, but nowhere to go (or go with 🥰) Fantasy wardrobe creation
IaltagDhubh · 15/12/2023 18:50

I bought this on Vinted. Nowhere to wear it, but I love it. I wouldn’t feel comfortable wearing it for slobbing around the house on Christmas Day - creases way too easily and I’m not ironing it only to chuck gravy down the front! Might have to drag DH to the Ivy or something instead.

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/caprice-jacquard-dress-207128858.html

Caprice Jacquard Dress |

A beautiful party style with wide statement sleeves, covered buttons and a luxe floral jacquard finish.

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/caprice-jacquard-dress-207128858.html

Havisham · 15/12/2023 21:28

Bloody hell, this is the only Style and Beauty thread I've ever felt I could join- would love to see the deep green skirt, and please carry on! Thank you!

DarkDuvet · 15/12/2023 22:39

MincePieForMe · 15/12/2023 14:17

Wear your sparkles and sequins everyday!! Don't leave them in the wardrobe for a party that may never happen.

This is me. I’m prepared for so many parties. But just going to rock them now!

*but also too wide for a tulle skirt.

I am going to the ballet tomorrow, tnough….

measureofmydreams · 16/12/2023 00:37

Astrabees · 15/12/2023 18:20

I have the Hush tulle skirt, I wore it with gold cowboy boots and a plain black top to a Mari Wilson “Christmas party” concert last week and will wear it again on Christmas Day. It is very comfortable and looks great on.

I've just bought that Tulle skirt! I also have a Hush one in navy from last year and found a pink Hush one on vinted. Always feel special in them and they are v versatile.

I also bought this recently which I love.

https://www.hush-uk.com/raven-pleated-maxi-skirt-liquid-metallic/010124-4455.html

Raven Pleated Maxi Skirt | Liquid Metallic | hush

https://www.hush-uk.com/raven-pleated-maxi-skirt-liquid-metallic/010124-4455.html

PinkArt · 16/12/2023 01:45

@Vetoncall I accidentally bought the same jacket when I popped in to M&S to grab lunch last month. An expensive sandwich but so worth it!
@Sharedcupboard Join us. Definitely wear it to the pub. And to Lidl. And to work. Life is to short not to wear the sequins.

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