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14 year old daughter - upper lip hair removal

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Jdmac47 · 07/11/2023 23:00

14 year old daughter keeps askjng how to remove her upper lip hair. She is quite fair skinned but her lip hair is noticeable and is bothering her. I have never had the need to sort similar so no idea where to start. What is best way to remove or make less noticeable? And please don't say shaving makes it grow back thicker as it is a known myth.

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2021mumma · 07/11/2023 23:01

Could she bleach it first before trying to remove it?

Jk987 · 07/11/2023 23:02

Laser treatment is the best. I'm not sure if it's suitable for children though so would need to check.

Bronzenettle · 07/11/2023 23:03

wax strips or you can get little battery shavers made especially for this.
my teen has used both fine

junbean · 07/11/2023 23:05

Whatever you do, don't use any kind of chemical. I also have fair skin and tried a hair removal cream and it burned my skin badly so I basically had a mustache shaped burn on my upper lip for weeks. It was very painful too. That area is so sensitive. At that point I realized the hair wasn't so bad, lol. Anytime I notice it I just shave it. They make little electric shavers that look like fancy lipsticks. Easier and safer than a razor, that's what I'd recommend. Amazon is probably the easiest place to look.

LadyLapsang · 07/11/2023 23:11

Laser when she is old enough and make sure she sees someone properly qualified, until then threading.

Jdmac47 · 07/11/2023 23:14

@junbean Was that a face hair removal cream that did that?

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Jdmac47 · 07/11/2023 23:17

@2021mumma this makes me nervous should she have a reaction

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Jdmac47 · 07/11/2023 23:17

@Jk987 is this not quite costly?

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Beamur · 07/11/2023 23:18

Wax or threading.

Charlingspont · 07/11/2023 23:19

Try facial hair bleach first (you can get it in Boots), then if she's still not happy, then buy some wax and wax strips and do that.

Whatintheworldgirl · 07/11/2023 23:23

Jdmac47 · 07/11/2023 23:00

14 year old daughter keeps askjng how to remove her upper lip hair. She is quite fair skinned but her lip hair is noticeable and is bothering her. I have never had the need to sort similar so no idea where to start. What is best way to remove or make less noticeable? And please don't say shaving makes it grow back thicker as it is a known myth.

Two options, those eyebrow razors are amazing for upper lip hair. Plus they eliminate the possibility of major agitation causing red skin which may make your daughter more self conscious.

I'm not sure where you're from so I've linked a shop that's international just to show a photo of the facial trimmers

www.lookfantastic.com/brushworks-precision-eyebrow-razor-pastel-pack-of-3/13232409.html?affil=thggps&switchcurrency=GBP&shippingcountry=GB

The second option is threading. It's a simple way of plucking the hairs out with a piece of string. It's not as painful as plucking and it's a lot faster. However I'd recommend the farcical trimmer over this.

Hope this helps and good luck! You're being a wonderful parent supporting what your child wants!

Duchessofmuchness · 07/11/2023 23:24

DD waxed or threaded from that age. She now prefers threading I think.

Totaly · 07/11/2023 23:26

If it’s hormones making her hair dark she should seek advice. The pill may help.

Tiredandsleepie · 07/11/2023 23:57

Most people wax it

Cryingbutstilltrying · 08/11/2023 00:09

Mini razor is the way to go. I’ve used every method out there and this is the best for minimal irritation and time.
Bleach means you have a blonde tash. Usually with lovely red raw skin under it. Hair removal creams can burn so badly. Threading and waxing hurts like hell and leaves the skin red. Also waxing needs a decent length to work, so no thanks. The mini electric razor honestly saved my life and that of DD who was bullied at age 7 for her tash. I wasn’t having that for her when I could help out. Believe me when I say that children are cruel and boosting self esteem means nothing when you are endlessly tormented by arseholes.
I have had various ones from Amazon, all fine, also I think Boots sell one called Flawless, that was probably the best one I’ve had and dd has stolen it away. She uses it each morning, job done. Takes seconds.

hoobanoobie · 08/11/2023 00:33

Don’t let her bleach, it'll only be more obvious. I've struggled with this for decades but haven't done anything to permanently remove it. I just use a razor every few days to swipe it off. DD aged almost 12 is starting to do the same. It's over and done with in a second, no lasting issues.

finished31 · 08/11/2023 00:44

Get it waxed by a professional at a beauty salon if you dd approves.
You might have to sign a disclaimer.

StBrides · 08/11/2023 01:03

Threading. No chemicals, a little immediate redness, thorough, quick.
Have her take 2 paracetamol 30 minutes beforehand.

squishee · 08/11/2023 01:26

Sharp scissors do the job.

justanothermanicmonday1 · 08/11/2023 01:30

Wax every 3-4 weeks

squishee · 08/11/2023 01:31

I find waxing makes it all the more obvious that you’ve had something done, as it leaves it unnaturally bare.
Like it or not, it's natural to have some upper lip hair.

Louise303 · 08/11/2023 01:38

Electrolysis may be best laser works great on darker hair I would not use a mini shaver. Wax strips at home may be okay also as some salons may not do certain treatments on under 16.

SD1978 · 08/11/2023 01:41

Wax it or if they will- laser. If me daughter because self conciliatory about body hair- I'd remove it. We do it to ourselves as adults to feel better, I have no issue with a teenager feeling the same.

stardust777 · 08/11/2023 06:42

I'd recommend threading for the upper lip area. I used to use hair removal creams but some of them felt quite harsh. I find threading less painful than waxing too.

Some branches of Superdrug do it:

https://www.superdrug.com/beauty-studio/threading

but it can be embarrassing to get it done while there are other shoppers around.

Louise303 · 08/11/2023 07:10

I hate a no private area Superdrug and benefit are even worse.