Hi - I started having my hair dyed a year ago - to hide the greys. Had highlights at first, but my hair is so dry I think the extra peroxide/chemicals in the highlights just stripped my hair, so nice colour but awful condition.
Had reddish lowlights at christmas and looks much much better.
Also had my hair cut really short a week ago - hair is brown and curly/frizzy, I always dream of long flowing curly locks, but it's never going to look like that!
were some tips on thread I started in January www.mumsnet.com/Talk?topicid=2350&threadid=457384#9248721here