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Help me dress more 'artsy' !

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Legacy · 19/10/2022 16:42

I've started working in a role which is a lot more creative and artsy than previous jobs I've done and it involves presenting at arts/ literature type events. Everyone I'm working alongside seems much more left-wing creative, hipster, free-flowing, colourful - I'm not sure how to describe it!
I'm in my mid-50s and admittedly have got a bit into a jeans/top/cardigan sort of rut which in my new role is just too dowdy.

I'm fortunate in that I'm a slim size 12 , 5ft 6, and can get away with a lot of styles etc. I can't do heels really though due to some foot issues, so trainers/ flat shoes and boost are best.
Short, fine blonde hair cut in a bob. Not sure I want to colour it anything wacky though!

Help me break free! What should I be looking for? Brands, styles, colours, accessories?
What screams 'creative/artsy' at you?

OP posts:
IamEarthymama · 21/10/2022 23:04

TottersBlankly
Please say you are one of the women who created La Fetiche!
It's amazing, I would look a bugger in any of the pieces but oh! I really enjoyed looking at them.

In my next reincarnation I want to be a ballet dancer wearing those fab clothes!

TottersBlankly · 22/10/2022 00:04

What?! No, of course not! (Wish I was, I’d get free clothes!)

I don’t know who else mentions them here as I obviously don’t see every S&B thread. Sometimes a poster seems keen to find something new so I link to them because I love their clothes. Highly doubt I bring up their name even one twentieth as often as people say ‘HobbsHushMintVelvetMarks&SpencerNextWhiteCompany’. (None of which are on my radar clothes-wise. Not because of price - I’m absolutely devoted to Zara and make an at least annual pilgrimage to TK Maxx.)

I’m definitely not balletic! (Think they’ve only appeared this season.) I own a few pieces of the knitwear and have my eye on a jacket and a skirt. I can say that when I first stumbled upon the brand I found the clothes quite … startling. (And some of the prices eye watering.) But once you get your eye in, it’s easy to become addicted.

Have you ever looked at Jo Gordon? Similarly adventurous aesthetic limited mostly to scarves and beanies. I’m sorry to say no one loved me enough to make me a present of one of their cardigans.

Alternatively RUS is a much gentler version of colourful - and such cool, easy shapes.

But when I really want to torture myself with things I cannot have I turn to Queene and Belle. Utter masochism.

faretheewell · 22/10/2022 09:22

My tip is, if you see something you like in an expensive brand is to Google search on the item. You will often find the style filters down. For example, I got a lovely pair of corduroy trousers ('Mum' cut) from Asda of all places for a tenner last year. Worn them all year round and still going strong - look like new. Building up outfits that way will bring the cost down.

faretheewell · 22/10/2022 09:23

Or if there's a colour or material you love, search on that.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 22/10/2022 09:26

AquaticSewingMachine · 19/10/2022 21:06

Do you want to look like an inner-city architect, or like a middle-aged Cornwall landscape painter? Because they're two quite distinct looks, and I feel a lot of the advice you're getting is geared to the latter.

For the former: definitely Cos, Kin, Arket, with some Margaret Howell and Toast maybe. Minimalist, striking shapes, well cut, textures.

This is what l was trying to say.

I worked as a lecturer/teacher in design.
We dressed very differently from art teachers. They were about colour and texture and pattern.

We were more like minimalist and architectural.

So l wasn’t ‘stereotyping’ l was speaking from experience.

Morestrangethings · 22/10/2022 10:31

After that no matter what the make, go for trainers or Doc Martin type ankle boots and knee boots. Polo necks are back in and lots of below the knee knitted dresses about, slender fit. Straight below the knee knitted skirts with a sleeveless knitted top and a grandad shirt or poloneck underneath.

I agree with lollylimejuice.

Dianne Keatons streetwear can look good on a woman of any age and she wears similar clothes to those that lolly mentioned. (Her night look is similar but much more glam). I think she’s a great example of artsy in a very smart way. She often wears lace up boots with wide legged, ankle tapping trousers too. Polo necks, big oversized white shirts, wide leather belts for the waist (if you have the shape that looks good in belts, and if you find them comfortable). It worth googling her look, I think. Although I have adopted her look a little (in line with my much more limited budget), I can’t wear the belts, and I stay away from the heavy silver bling she can often be photographed wearing around her neck.

Someone else mentioned red lipstick. I agree. Just find the red that suits your colouring. And elsewhere someone mentioned earrings. Earrings , especially handcrafted ones can look pretty ‘artsy’

Other people mentioned cotton, wool, velvet fabrics and I would agree. But budget doesn’t always reach to it.

Handbags. I have this cross body bag/satchel that I love. Made in Morocco, Long strap made of soft leather with a large flap over the front of bag made of same soft leather, the rest of the bag is made from a thick wool material and lined with silk like fabric. Most practical and comfortable bag I’ve ever worn - it’s like a big pocket, almost clothing in itself.

I have to use a walking stick and that can be an instant style booster.

Lately I’ve noticed that instead of wearing lace up combat style boots, some women are wearing mens style black business shoes (loosely laced up) with socks - combining that look with ankle tapping trousers or midi length skirts. I don’t have the legs (I think one needs very slim calves in this case - just my opinion) for that look, but I do think it looks pretty cool.

Having said that, some days I go out in pyjamas that look like lose clothes (with a bit of quirk) - long sleeves and full length pants - but with lace up boots (or in warm weather , thick soled slide shoes) and my red lipstick and cane - no one knows I’m wearing real pjs. Or maybe people are too polite to tell me. 🤔. I think I look ultra ‘artsy’ then, but not so business like. :)

Good luck with your new job in the arts.

mandolinwind · 22/10/2022 12:43

dottypencilcase · 19/10/2022 19:10

Look up Masai, Sahara, Seasalt, Oska, Privatsachen, Shirin Guild, Eskander, Lost Tribes, East or search for 'lagenlook'. I love the brands mentioned but have to mix them up with high street basics or I look like I'm homeless!

Did you perhaps mean

www.forgottentribes.com/

I was about to suggest Forgotten Tribes.

mewkins · 22/10/2022 14:44

Notarealmum · 20/10/2022 11:07

If in doubt, wear black. And something vintage.

This is my philosophy too 😁

Niftythrifter · 22/10/2022 19:38

Rather than try and cultivate a look from specific shop, instead consider going to some charity shops and seeing if anything there appeals to you that you might not have ordinarily considered but ‘sings to you’ in terms of stepping out of your comfort zone. For accessories maybe try some art gallery/ museum gift shops as well as charity shops.

CustomerService · 23/10/2022 08:57

Jeans/t-shirt/cardigan/plaid shirt for everyday and structudy type dress for events is usual.

CustomerService · 23/10/2022 09:09

Oh, just realised this is a piss take.

CustomerService · 23/10/2022 09:15

There are people who work in the arts between inner-city architect or middle-aged Cornwall landscape painter. Huffs. Not that there is anything wrong with either of those, but it is stereotyping, slightly.

TottersBlankly · 23/10/2022 09:31

CustomerService · 23/10/2022 09:09

Oh, just realised this is a piss take.

How so? Halloween Confused

I’ve found all the varied interpretations interesting! The thread might have been shorter and more focussed if the brief had been ‘creative’ profession rather than the terrible word used. But no one actually involved in artistic pursuits is constrained to dress in any particular way, so what does it matter?

CustomerService · 23/10/2022 09:32

ArseInTheCoOpWindow, I've no idea where you taught, but all the artists and art teachers I've known wore jeans and shirt, not "colour and texture".

CustomerService · 23/10/2022 09:33

Totters, it doesn't matter at all, but mumsnet is rubbish about artists.

SudocremOnEverything · 23/10/2022 09:35

CustomerService · 23/10/2022 09:09

Oh, just realised this is a piss take.

Must be.

many of the ‘artsy’ women I know have wardrobes of black and dark grey shapeless stuff.

They manage to look a lot better in it than I would though. I don’t know how anyone manages to get on with cos clothing. It all looks awful on me. Every single thing they make. But other people manage to make it look much better.

TottersBlankly · 23/10/2022 09:45

Cos was great about 10/15 years ago. Walked into an actual shop (for the first time in three years) early this Summer and it was all vast, bright yellow dresses in thin poplin, ‘Made in China’. Or very average stripy t shirts. Obviously one can still dress well from there, but it hardly seems worth the effort when there are so many other, more exciting brands.

Kingprincessyo · 23/10/2022 10:03

Following this post.. 😁 whenever I try to dress arty I just look over the top!

FallingLeaves111 · 23/10/2022 10:06

Rather than go all out OP you could start slowly with scarves and jewellery. Perfect time of year. Layering always adds interest too. Different shoes.

TottersBlankly · 23/10/2022 10:28

Kingprincessyo · 23/10/2022 10:03

Following this post.. 😁 whenever I try to dress arty I just look over the top!

Are you actually an artist / musician / poet / stage designer / performer / whatever @Kingprincessyo ? If so then anything you wear is ‘artsy - in that it defines how at least one artist dresses.

If you’re not a professional artist you’re experimenting with style. ‘Over the top’ might be a good look! No harm done.

I hope the OP is just too busy getting to grips with her new job to revisit her thread. FWIW I didn’t get the impression it was someone scouting for Reddit material. But what do I know?

AnnieHoooo · 23/10/2022 10:41

Coniferhedge · 19/10/2022 18:07

This thread from last year was great with lots of suggestions - ‘If Monty Don was a woman’.

www.mumsnet.com/talk/style_and_beauty/4281220-If-Monty-Don-was-a-woman

Thank you! I need to read this!!

MadameSapphire · 23/10/2022 10:45

Following, thanks OP. 😊

NCforthisoneo · 23/10/2022 10:56

Most people I know in the arts dress very simply and put their creativity into their work. Think of fashion shows where the models are dressed weirdly and wonderfully and then at the end the designer comes out in jeans and T-shirt.

For smart but not too corporate (eg you’re in arts admin and need to introduce a speaker at a gallery event) try Cos.

Kingprincessyo · 23/10/2022 14:11

TottersBlankly · 23/10/2022 10:28

Are you actually an artist / musician / poet / stage designer / performer / whatever @Kingprincessyo ? If so then anything you wear is ‘artsy - in that it defines how at least one artist dresses.

If you’re not a professional artist you’re experimenting with style. ‘Over the top’ might be a good look! No harm done.

I hope the OP is just too busy getting to grips with her new job to revisit her thread. FWIW I didn’t get the impression it was someone scouting for Reddit material. But what do I know?

I am a pet portrait artist, I think maybe this is the problem - I try to dress in a way I think I “should” dress and it doesn’t quite sit right. I have a pretty plain wardrobe naturally. I’m thinking I should go for some nice accessories and keep my clothes plain :)

StressyMcStressFace · 23/10/2022 14:15

www.etsy.com/uk/shop/AileyMakes

Hope the link works - these are amazing!

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