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I am short, deal with it

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OldAndUngraceful · 24/07/2022 06:35

I am from a non UK country where people on the whole are shorter than in the UK, esp women. I am 51 years old now, and it doesn't come as a surprise to me that I am way shorter than most women in the UK. I have never had a problem with my height (5.1"), I honestly have always thought of myself as well proportioned and have tried to make the most of what I've got. My DH is 6.1" and he likes me just the way I am.

However, just in the past year or so, several women at my workplace have been making comments, and I am getting sick and tired of it. I am also starting to become self conscious about my height, something I've never been before.

I work in education, surrounded my middle aged women (I am one), and many of them are my DH's height. I am starting to avoid being seen standing next to them, and have noticed that my height seems to be fair game to comment on, like for example my pigeonhole being the highest, and how hilarious that is. 4 different women have commented on that this week.

Are you a tall woman and look at short women with pity? Am I fair game to have my physical appearance be commented on/joked about?

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Decafflatteplease · 24/07/2022 14:01

I'm 5 foot and a size 20. I think at this point I'm wider than I am tall. 🤣 DH is 6 foot and one of his work colleagues we bumped Into one day tried to pat me on the head and I just gave him "the look" as did DH and he backed off. Hate it.

People do infatilise me a little though which winds me right up. Things like "oh you don't look old enough to have children" I assure you im perfectly old enough can't you tell by the eye bags?! And my teens are taller than me now but quite handy in the supermarket they get things down for me 🤣

On the plus side though I bought some cropped trousers the other day and they were full length on me which is what I wanted so perfect!

Loving the flip comment @Biffatcrafts

PeaceLoveAndCandy · 25/07/2022 07:56

I am similar height and age and also work in education and have had similar comments from really tall women!! I mostly find comments about my height painfully dull and can't find the energy to react to them in any way. Unfortunately they also influence my opinion of the person making the comments and tend to give them a wide berth. I don't talk to a lot of people at work anymore 😜!

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