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Secondhand / vintage / charity / ethical and slow fashion chat

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madamceladon · 16/11/2021 07:54

Can we have a chat thread for this?
Tips and ideas, blog and podcast recommendations and latest finds?

I'll start. I think 80% of my stuff is secondhand, from charity shops eBay and vinted. I've got more into this in last five years and never go in fast fashion shops. I feel a bit ill and overwhelmed if I do now.
If I do need to buy new I try to find a company that is ethical and made in Britain.

I've got really into maintenance and repair as well. I love watching a film while I debobble and darn knitwear.

Recent efforts, I had some nice black fine wool trousers but they were too loose and unflattering on thighs, I've improvised and put in my own pleats at the top and pleased with how they came out.

I wanted a black polo neck after I saw some women looking very stylish in a black and white 1960s film and found a perfect one the next day in the charity shop: lambswool, old m and s, made in Britain.

I love this website
vintagefashionguild.org/label-resource

And this podcast
podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/dressed-the-history-of-fashion/id1350850605

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madamceladon · 16/11/2021 15:54

@Squiblet I just went into that marie curie in Highbury today! I got a navy merino wool Cos dress for £13 and a Mint velvet navy blazer for £8.50.

My fave spots in London are Marylebone high street, Highbury and the angel.
I really like the Shelter boutique in kings cross coal drops yard as well.

I go to Edinburgh a lot to see relatives and I do well in the morningside, Stockbridge and portobello shops.

I went to Beyond Retro in soho this week and got some quite old men's dark green wool pleated trousers. They are really smooth extra virgin wool, very stylish, label is JB Britches for Nordstrom. Love them!

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Pheasantlysurprised · 16/11/2021 16:45

I have started using ebay and searching for vintage for the first time since i was a teen (did the boho indie thing then). I feel that we live in a glut of over consumption which jars pathetically with our apparent concern about the environment and ethics.

I am so tired of online shopping for new clothes, not to mention the poor quality and bizarre sizing of new products. I am more likely to get measurements for the garment on ebay than even the most expensive corporate store, where many cant even be bothered to show their products on a model - or else the model is pictured making contorted, ludicrous poses, often stretching out the hem of a jumper so that i cant see what it would look like straight on.

Just been looking at a viscose skirt on Fat Face. It is thin, unlined and they want £46 for the damn thing, masquerading as a 'winter' skirt (lol till i die!), it is no more suited to winter than a used JCloth.

Also tired of holes forming in new cashmere, from Brora, White Co and so on. If i aim cheaper (uniqlo) i get worse. I have pretty much no remaining trust for what im being sold, i think we are regarded with contempt by brands, and this piss taking has been going on for too long.

This week i managed to find an unworn house of bruar tweed coat for a third of it's new price. Someone didnt suit it and sold it on, luckily for me!
Also found a pure wool Hobbs midi skirt, a pure velvet scarf and a silk velvet jacket.

Sadly charity shops local to me are a dire reflection of the fast-food-clothes culture that seems to have taken over the nearest town. There's not much to choose from so am forced to shop online, and the physical non-charity stores are even worse.

Int he past 20 year, literally everything is aimed at the lowest common denominator: churning out utter shite for fast profit. Ive watched thread after thread on MN over the past decade with people desperate to pay more for better quality, and it rarely exists at any price point.

Finding decent used goods does slow you down somewhat, and results in a more considered attitude towards spending.

I also hate how many higher priced stores (Toast, etc) make a HUGE thing about make do and mend, but let's please be honest, if they really believed in that or truly championed it, they would go out of business. I can assure you these stores do NOT want you to mend your clothes or recycle. They want you salivating over every new stock update, and their primary and sole focus is to encourage you to spend a great deal of money - utilising social media and clever artisanal lifestyle marketing to create the addiction.

Im done with them.

Pheasantlysurprised · 16/11/2021 16:50

btw, fantastic thread OP! :)

nannybeach · 16/11/2021 16:57

Same here. Now you'll have to bare with me. Only had a smartphone a few months. Have seen the vinted ads,how do they make money if they don't charge a seller fee? Yes, I have a suspicious mind. No such thing as a free lunch and all that. Bought my DH 3 nice jumpers, good as new,I have a job, because I'm allergic to all types of wool. I did get a nice Cath Kidson bag for £7

londonmummy1966 · 16/11/2021 16:58

Great to see a thread on this. I used to love a charity shop trawl but I just can't find anything in my size as I have a 34F bust and most charity shops seem full of size 10s these days. I do buy from ebay quite a bit but it can be a little hit and miss. If anyone has any recommendations for charity shops with larger sized stock I'd love to know.

Squiblet · 16/11/2021 17:03

@madamceladon
*I just went into that marie curie in Highbury today! I got a navy merino wool Cos dress for £13 and a Mint velvet navy blazer for £8.50.

My fave spots in London are Marylebone high street, Highbury and the angel. I really like the Shelter boutique in kings cross coal drops yard as well.*

Sweet! And thanks for the coal drops yard tip - I had no idea there was one there, will have to drop in. Marylebone I imagine would be good for posher, less edgy stuff, like the Highgate and Hampstead ones.

ShanghaiDiva · 16/11/2021 17:09

There are at least 13 charity shops in the town where I volunteer and I love a good rummage. Recent bargains:
Brand new navy jacket from East £12
Seasalt dress £10- not my favourite brand, but great for work
White stuff black velvet dress £12
New look skinny jeans £4
Also some fabulous crochet books for dd £2 and never been opened.

Craftycorvid · 16/11/2021 19:24

I shop on eBay or in vintage shops or charity shops. I’m immensely impressed with those of you scoring cashmere jumpers in your local chazzers! Shock. My best buys recently were: wool and cashmere blend navy double breasted coat (vintage) for a tenner from a charity shop. Lovely panelled wool tweed skirt that’s vintage Laura Ashley on eBay. The quality of older items is startlingly good compared to modern clothing.

I’ve shopped this way pretty much all my adult life. It started off as being poor and not being able to afford newer items, but it’s become a way of life and I love developing my ‘look’ out of my various ‘finds’. You can’t beat a good chazzer in the right area (naice market towns are gems) and I love that I just never know what I’m going to find. Me and my lovely mum used to enjoy bargain hunting missions together and the subsequent trying on of treasures and preening! Grin

madamceladon · 16/11/2021 20:56

@londonmummy1966 I'm a similar bust size and 14-16, most of the charity shops I go in sort their stock by size so you can quickly find the larger items? Some of the less "professional" ones for want of a better word just have all in a humble though.

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madamceladon · 16/11/2021 20:57

@nannybeach vinted have adverts and they charge .95p if you want to boost your listings so I think that's the business model

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londonmummy1966 · 16/11/2021 21:02

@madamceladon - sadly even the ones that do sort by size never seem to have anything that fits me - well perhaps a sad looking Atmosphere t shirt for what it would have cost new... Nowadays I have to shop for my DDs instead.

madamceladon · 16/11/2021 21:03

@Pheasantlysurprised
Agree with everything you say about the disturbing glut of clothes consumption and the declining quality.

The more I shop second hand the more I understand quality in fabrics and construction. The older stuff is just incredible. Ive noticed now I can quickly spot the good wools and so on jumbled in the thin jersey and polyester.

I got a forest green aquascutum winter coat from vinted for £25 I think it was, I think it's from the 1980s. It's such thick powerful wool and so ... crafted! It's pristine condition and I feel so warm and protected in it in bad weather.

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RainbownNameChange · 16/11/2021 21:06

Ooh this is my kind of thread 👋

Love second hand, the thrill of the chase and the bargains. Finding something that has had a story already and making it my own

Recent success- was looking for a smart black coat last week and found a pure wool St Michael one for £3 in the local charity shop. double breasted and - I think - early 90s.

It’s too big so I’ve also been enjoying the challenge of taking it in to fit (I make a lot of my own clothes too now, so I’m hopeful that I’ve got enough sewing knowledge to do a decent job!)

orangeautumnleaves · 16/11/2021 21:10

I want to do this more!! I am always in charity shops looking for books and kids toys but I am useless at finding decent clothes! Any tips would be appreciated!!

Tabbacus · 16/11/2021 21:10

@crochetmonkey74

stealingbeauty I read an article once that said Fast Fashion isn't a problem if you are not a fast consumer- and that changed the way I thought about it. I don't want to spend hundreds of pounds on one item as I am clumsy, accidents happen etc - also, I am plus size so the amount of nice sustainable fashion is scant to say the least. This article said to treat your fast fashion item in the way you would treat a considered purchase, take your time finding it etc then wear it until it is worn out. I have a primark shirt that was £8 years ago- its a nice cut and colour- looks more expensive than it was and gets complimented on a lot. I must have worn it once a week for the last 6 years and it is still going strong
Yes I agree with this! When 'ethical' brands are releasing new drops every month, creating hype around their products and release limited edition prints etc as many do, people often buy more than they need- negating the benefit of being ethical. Its all adding to the stuff we have on this planet anyway isn't it. An item from new look etc that will be worn time and time again I don't think is bad; but one that's bought (from anywhere) and not worn, or discarded after a wear is awful. Quality even 5 years ago was much better wasn't it. I have clothes that are 10 years old and still going strong.
Ragwort · 16/11/2021 21:15

I buy 100% of my clothes from charity shops ... and I manage a charity shop. I love it Smile, I have some wonderful loyal customers who support me with fabulous donations and buying from my shop, and I love looking out for things that they will like. I recommend getting to know the manager of your favourite charity shop ... or better still volunteer for a shift if you can!

Wooky8 · 16/11/2021 21:29

Great thread. I buy virtually everything second hand and am totally hooked on charity shop rummaging! St Vincent's is my favourite charity shop, such reasonable prices.

KirstenBlest · 16/11/2021 21:32

Nearly everything second hand. Excellent charity shops where I live.
Real finds but you need to rummage.

Nearly all brands have gone downhill. Vintage M&S etc is usually cheap as chips and excellent quality.
Vintage clothes sizing is much smaller

RobertaFirmino · 17/11/2021 00:14

I work at a charity shop too and yes, get to know the staff! We're always ready to yak. If I know you're looking for something in particular, I'm happy to put it aside for you. The vast majority of my clothes come from the CS too (not the one I work at - I'm not comfortable with the conflict of interest as I also sell vintage online). BTW, I'm always happy to help other sellers : )

Such a good idea for a thread @madamceladon, I often use the Vintage Fashion Guild resource. A great blog to read is Vintage Vix. She often goes into the history of labels and gets some fantastic bargains herself.

MistySkiesAfterRain · 17/11/2021 01:51

@Shannith Yes please.

I've had some great charity shop and ebay purchases. I spent a fair amount of my 30s doing charity shops and ebay. I would say you can also get some great hard working pieces from Asda, Tesco, Tu, either classic or more fashion (but choose fashion because it suits you).

Some I can think of:

Mint Velvet long sleeved top- £5 on ebay. I'd never heard of MV and was amazed to see tops like this were selling for £49+.

Next Tweed coat for £10 in a charity shop in Edinburgh - wore until the lining fell out. I still wish I'd had it relined.

A Gap duffel coat for £3 from Barkingside High Street.

A longline Topshop pale pink pussybow blouse for £7 that I have worn and worn-ebay.

Topshop cotton trench coat £15 - ebay.

I just love the fact I can look up Pink Brogues 6 and find a fantastic pair on Ebay for under £10.

Also recommend Nearly New Cashmere.

Really interested to hear about Marylebone - will have to look.

MistySkiesAfterRain · 17/11/2021 01:56

I also recently bought a long 100% wool coat from Eastex for £8. This type of material and quality would retail today for £££.

I've removed the shoulder pads. I'd wear it on special occasions purely for the love of the the colour (warm hot pink, it is stunning) but for everyday use the shoulder shaping needs a little smoothing. Could a tailor help?

PalacePaper · 17/11/2021 07:10

I've recently started looking charity shops and have been amazed at some of the clothes I've found. Totally agree about the quality, I bought a lovely cotton skirt which must be 15 years old at least and it's beautifully lined and so well made. My best bargain so far has been a suede Boden skirt for £7.50! Very similar to one currently selling for nearly £200 and again, as someone who shops at Boden, I can see the quality is better than their current clothes.

I also find when I buy from a charity shop, as I've paid less for the item and it's a one-off I'm more inclined to get it tailored so end up with a better fitting piece of clothing than if I'd bought new. I like the fact that it makes me think more about my own style, and find it less overwhelming than lots of subtly different versions of the same styles which seem to be in regular shops - and especially when shopping online.

mm47 · 17/11/2021 07:15

@MistySkiesAfterRain yes, a tailor could sort that out for you. Your coat sounds glorious- please post a photo.

beguilingeyes · 17/11/2021 07:38

I struggle with charity shops because more often than not if I like it it doesn't fit and vice versa.
So I'm an eBay girl these days. The price of new clothes horrifies me.
On eBay I have saved searches for brands I like in my size, or for specific types of garment. It's amazing how often things come up. I have a 12 year old Barbour raincoat that I absolutely love that got lost, searched on eBay for about a year and eventually found one in the right size.
I rarely pay more than £5 or £10 for anything. I've bought some beautiful dresses for peanuts this year and last winter I bought a sheepskin flying jacket for £40.

madamceladon · 17/11/2021 07:43

@MistySkiesAfterRain
Great! Eastex is another amazing quality old brand.
Just take into the tailors and get their opinion: if they can't do anything with it they'll tell you.
My husband has a wonderful black Crombie coat made for his dad in the 1960s. The lining is going and the buttonholes are worn so I'm going to take it here and ask for their help.

splendidstitches.co.uk

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