Having a clear out and feel really ashamed

[Wavypurple]

I’m clearing out my wardrobe today. I feel like such an idiot and can’t believe how much I’m putting in bags to give away.

Some of these clothes I’ve never even worn because I wasn’t even sure I like them at the time?! So why did I buy them?!

Some I only purchased around a year ago and have never seen the light of day.

The amount of wasted money isn’t even my main worry (even though it should be. I don’t have any dependents but I don’t earn a massive amount at all). It’s the absolute waste of labour, fabric and resources that have gone into making these clothes.

I’ve filled up four bin bags so far. Called the local save the children charity shop and they sounded delighted at the prospect of the stock but I know that some donated clothes are sent to landfill (not blaming the charities, I understand they can’t sell everything).

From today no more shopping, online or otherwise unless something absolutely needs replacing or I am 1000% sure it will be used. I think my issue is that I’ve purchased for trends that pass so quickly now anyway.

Not really sure of the point of this post. Just can’t believe how wasteful I’ve been.

I had a similar situation so called my local women's refuge office & they arranged collection. You could also ask your local citizens advice bureau/homeless shelter/salvation army & Foodbank about clothes donations.

Often if you're buying lots of things you never wear is because you aren't clear on what actually suits you.
Put some time into knowing what colour scheme works for you and stick to it. Eg 'autumnal' or 'brights'.
Also know what shapes suit you.
Lots of resources online or books for this. If you can find a couple of hundred quid for it then you could consult a stylist? Or if your nearest department store has a (free) personal shopping service then you can glean the advice of a pro for free, depending how good their stylist is.

I did this and no longer waste money on clothes I don't need it won't wear. Yes it's a bit self indulgent.

I took yesterday's purchases back today. Got home and realised that I wouldn't wear them. They were nice but just not me.

I’m just listening to a podcast with Donna Tweedale who is a stylist and advocate of mindful & sustainable shopping. You can find her on Instagram. I think reading a little of these kinds of influencers can be useful versus those who always have a “ haul” to show you. Even the thrifters are always shopping.