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Too casual for a wedding

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pattyparsnip · 03/06/2021 14:04

I want a dress I will get use out of after the wedding. I bought this the other day The colour really suits me and it's more floaty IRL . Do you think I could dress it up with heels or belt etc ?. The wedding is church /hotel do . Please could I have opinions/ ideas . TIA .

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SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 03/06/2021 14:07

I think you could bling it up. Heels and matching bag, stole/wrap, maybe a fascinator?

MayIDestroyYou · 03/06/2021 14:18

Hmm ... Grin Hobbs has several other green frocks that might be more suitable for a wedding.

It's the button down front, combined with the faux-safari style pockets and something about the cut of the armholes. Plus the fabric. Altogether it really is more 'kicking back in the garden with a friend at the end of a long day' than important celebratory occasion.

workshy44 · 03/06/2021 14:22

I would think it is too casual, more of a day dress. Think you can do better

AOwlAOwlAOwl · 03/06/2021 14:23

Could you change the buttons?

Agree that it is verging on too casual but I think you can rescue it. Light coloured jacket, classic jewellery rather than big blingy stuff, and some really good sandals - no espadrilles!

Palavah · 03/06/2021 14:23

Headgear always makes outfits look more weddingy. You could do it, it could look quite funky.

MayIDestroyYou · 03/06/2021 14:25

This would be more dressy, but still completely wearable elsewhere.

Or this one though they have limited sizes now.

AOwlAOwlAOwl · 03/06/2021 14:28

I think the Hobbs Tara dress is more versatile really - it has actual pockets and you could easily dress that up or down depending on what you wore with it.

Palavah · 03/06/2021 14:29

I think @MayIDestroyYou first link is much of a muchness tbh.

OP, you'll need to get the texture right. Metallics wouldn't be right, I think. You could go bright (orange/watermelon/hot coral/fuchsia) or subtle (navy /cream).

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 03/06/2021 14:35

I think it's a lovely dress. Unless it's a big-deal society wedding that will be photographed for the mass media or you are part of the wedding party, a dress that you are comfortable and happy in is much more important. You'll look better that way in any case!

PresentingPercy · 03/06/2021 14:35

It’s a safari style dress which is meant to be casual. Therefore not wedding guest suitable in my view. Bbq would be appropriate.

For a wedding choose a dress with no buttons up the front which are obvious and no pockets. There are far more glamorous shirt dresses about which when put with a straw hat and bag look very smart.

MoltonSilver · 03/06/2021 14:38

It does look too casual in the picture. Maybe post a photo of it in real life.

IEat · 03/06/2021 14:58

I like it
TBH though I’m a woman who doesn’t have winter/summer clothes my winter clothes are my summer one with a cardi on! Go with your gut

PresentingPercy · 03/06/2021 15:00

These are from Boden and are much easier to dress up.

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PresentingPercy · 03/06/2021 15:03

These two as well. I think blues with straw/raffia works well. The black and white one is wearable all summer. Small black hat and shoes/bag and it’s easy to dress up. The green one ditto. I have not checked the quality of the fabrics but they all look smart enough for a wedding and very wearable after.

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PresentingPercy · 03/06/2021 15:04

No photos! Try again!

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Divebar2021 · 03/06/2021 15:35

It’s not too casual no ( unless it’s a society wedding). Were you planning on wearing a hat or not? I personally wouldn’t want a pashmina or fascinatior - they’re not to my taste and not very modern. That dress is very simple and a simple hat could work if you wanted. ( although lots of people don’t wear hats now) I don’t understand the need to morph into a different person when you’re going to a wedding... wear what you feel good In.

TruffleShuffles · 03/06/2021 16:04

Is it linen? I wouldn’t wear linen to an occasion as it creases too easily and looks a bit messy after you’ve sat down.

NellietheNumpty · 03/06/2021 16:40

I think it is a great dress and much more ethical to buy something that you will get lots of use from. It has clean simple lines.
@Palavah has a good suggestion with watermelon coloured accessories.
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Like these.

NellietheNumpty · 03/06/2021 16:42

Personally I would wear a coral style necklace, with a matching shoe and bag. I tend towards flamboyant!

pattyparsnip · 03/06/2021 18:01

Thanks for the replies. The dress is made of Lyocell so won't crease . I'll try and post a photo wearing it later . Weddings are few and far between nowadays so was looking for something to get my wear out of Smile

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PresentingPercy · 03/06/2021 18:08

Why would you get use out if a safari dress and not a standard smarter summer dress?

I love the idea of a society wedding! Who on MN goes to one of these? Tatler pages anyone? Seriously, there’s casual and then there’s day dress smart. Looking smart and accepting a wedding isn’t a bbq or going for a bite in a gastro pub helps make decisions about what to wear and wearability afterwards. I would feel a bit let down if guests at a wedding reception in a hotel wore a casual safari dress. Lyocel does crease.

strawberrydonuts · 03/06/2021 18:30

I think it's quite casual, but I'd be fine with someone wearing it to my wedding. We are quite a casual and relaxed couple though and want a relaxed vibe at the wedding.

I guess it all just depends on the bride and groom and you know them better than anyone on here. If it's a normal, mainstream dress-up kind of event then I think it might be too casual and they may think you could have made more effort.

You could always wear a hat tho. Hats make everything better.

Ikeameatballs · 03/06/2021 18:33

I’m not convinced and at £149 it’s not cheap either.

pattyparsnip · 03/06/2021 18:41

I also own this [the pink one ). Not worn yet due to lockdown was supposed to be for holidays. Think it might be back to the drawing board ! Confused

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