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Had my face threaded after my eyelashes done

56 replies

PouchofDouglas · 21/01/2019 18:28

And Botox

I’ll tell you which was more painful. THREADING. fucking hell. I almost punched her. But it looks amazing. Feels so smooth. I’m barely hairy at all so I’m stunned

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JDSTER · 21/01/2019 19:18

I get my eyebrows threaded and I agree it’s painful. I take ibuprofen an hour before my appointment to make it tolerable!

princessTiasmum · 21/01/2019 19:52

Oooh face threading, more info please,been looking into this?
Is there a lot of difference, and how much, [if you dot mind me asking] or rough idea ,if you dont want to say? or you could pm me
I was quoted a price, but daresay it depends on location
It does sound painful,how long did it take etc
tia

princessTiasmum · 21/01/2019 19:54

Just realised you might be talking about something completely different to me ,lol [Sorry]

ladybee28 · 21/01/2019 19:54

@PouchofDouglas how long did it take your face to calm down afterwards? Have often considered facial threading (it's lucky I'm blonde because I've hit my 30s and a bear seems to be trying to climb out of my chin) but I can just imagine having a big red angry beard for hours afterwards and I'm not sure if my ego will stand the sprint walk to the car!

littlepooch · 21/01/2019 19:58

I love face threading! I've been having it done for years!! It does get less painful.

MitziK · 21/01/2019 20:35

I'm probably a bit of an expert on this subject (the amount of facial hair I have is my qualification)

Advice for would be threadees;

Don't pick the booth in the middle of the shopping centre. What you need ideally, is a nice little salon populated by ladies wearing hijabs. They've been doing this for decades, they've seen facial hair more like a full winter pelt, monobrows, hairy foreheads and everything else. Trust them.

DO NOT GO WHEN YOU'RE DUE ON. Just no. Never. Ever. Ever (ever, ever, ever, ever, ever.....) Mid month is much better.

Going in cold weather is a lot better than during a heatwave.

Tie your hair back.

Make sure any facial piercings are very secure - nobody needs a twisty bit of cotton to loop itself around a nose stud or a septum clicker.

Practice holding your eyelid down with the fingers on the same side and tightening/lifting your forehead/brow with the other - she needs to be able to get close and will stand on the side she will be working on. They'll probably say 'Hold please'.

Be prepared for an lady's bosom to be closer to you than you ever thought possible without a prenuptial. Not all do, but some presumably need to get close to see what they're doing.

When it comes to round your lips, you'll find it slightly less 'stingy' to use your tongue to stretch the skin.

There is no way of mitigating the sting just under your nose. None at all.

Use your right hand to tighten your left cheek by pulling on your hair above the ears, like a facelift. Those buggers on your hairline really make their presence known.

You will realise that you were considerably hairier than you thought you were. And your pride in a remarkably high pain threshold was been irrevocably shattered.

They're used to people making a flapping gesture with their hands to get them to stop. They have a huge box of tissues for this purpose - they will probably already be getting one out of the box when you lift your hand.

You WILL cry. No ifs and buts. It's a biological certainty.

You can trust them to shape your brows in a flattering way. No accidents like you can have with wax or plucking. They will also likely stop and look at you a couple of times to make sure they look right. And they'll whisk out any grey arctic blonde hairs you spot.

Once they've finished threading, they'll use the little crane handled scissors to ensure the brows are neat and level.

They'll brush off more extracted hair than you ever thought possible.

If they ask 'do you want gel?' they mean do you want Aloe Vera gel. Say yes.

The best ones make it sting but don't press into your skin much - the less good ones will have you wincing as you feel each hair rip out. Make your skin tighter if you get the ripping (like bad waxing) feeling. You are more likely to get the rippers in the shopping centre booths.

Run your fingers over your face and jawline - you will feel any little hairs that have been missed. If they are under the skin, she might not be able to reach it - some may use a pair of needle nosed tweezers to get them, but not everyone will - but she will try and get those extras.

Your face will be red afterwards. If you get little red dots, they were too aggressive and you go somewhere else next time (like the hijabi shops I've already recommended twice). It should go within 5 -10 minutes, possibly a bit longer on the first go.

You will find that your makeup goes on like a dream afterwards - foundation, eyeshadow, everything.

It's worth every bit of the sting - never seen anybody do anything but say thank you and smile through the tears and pink patches because it does such a good job for so little money.

RJnomore1 · 21/01/2019 20:39

That sounds like torture.

I'll go do that as soon as dh does.

And I'm not adverse to a wax.

Anonalongadingdong123 · 21/01/2019 20:39

@MitziK
Wow amazing advice!

Luckingfovely · 21/01/2019 20:43

Amazing advice although I think I might have nightmares tonight now Grin

MitziK · 21/01/2019 20:45

It feels like torture at the time - but the results are fantastic.

Note: if you have beardy growth, lock yourself in the shed for ten days let it grow to about 4mm and get that waxed instead, especially if it goes onto your throat/under your jawline. It's the one bit where waxing is much kinder to the skin. If somebody does threading, they will have a pot of wax on the go all the time at the little salons.

If somebody suggests tweezing it all because the wax isn't gripping as it's too short, rather than getting the thread out, go somewhere else.

Threading is the one thing I will always have done, no matter how skint I am. It stings, I cry, but it's worth it - especially as it's so inexpensive compared to 'standard' salons. And it means the ladies are independent financially, so I'm happy to support them for that reason alone.

fleuriepeninsula · 21/01/2019 21:00

I get my moustache, lips and chin threaded every month. I’m hairy and blonde.

Top tip is to take an anti histamine just before they start threading. I get itchy bumps the next day if I forget.

feliciabirthgiver · 21/01/2019 21:02

Yes @MitziK learning the 'hold please' technique is key and everything else you say is spot on.

No doubt despite the pain the results are great.

f83mx · 21/01/2019 21:07

Have eyebrows and upper lip threaded - minimal redness and I find the pain less than a non-hot wax - weirdly enjoyable, slightly stingy.... but the result is so good, definitely worth it.

Fluffypot333 · 21/01/2019 21:24

I use a derma blade all over my face to get rid of any downy hair.No redness and hair doesn't grow back thicker.Make up goes on so much better now and skin looks smoother.

Amrapaali · 21/01/2019 21:33

"The ladies are independent financially?" Wow Mitzi how very kind-hearted of you!! Grin My threading "lady" is a business analyst and lives in a rural, sprawling farmhouse. She does the beauty stuff in the evenings and weekends.

I appreciate your heart is in the right place but really stereotyping much?

MitziK · 21/01/2019 21:57

No, just knowing from where I live (a very diverse area with a lot of deprivation) that there are a lot of previously economically inactive ladies who would not be likely to get jobs as business analysts and certainly don't live in sprawling farmhouses and do a bit of threading on the side for fun. The explosion in salons has meant they have opportunities to earn their own money, no matter what their level of English, qualifications or what their husbands earn. You don't tend to get captains of industry working at 10.30am on a Monday morning in a salon to discuss matters of international economic importance and sociopolitical change in the Western World whilst removing a customer's moustache - you get ladies who have done the school run first and are doing something that gives them their own income, rather than rely completely upon somebody else.

Yes, one was doing it to earn money whilst waiting to take the English competency tests to practise medicine in the UK, but the joy of it is that it provides employment opportunities to people who don't need to be fully fluent yet, don't have loads of qualifications or a Mercedes parked out the back.

By all means, have a go at me for stereotyping, but I'm a generally skint old bag from an inner city area, not somebody who goes to the fanciest places - so I'm not going to be meeting the same type of person as you are.

GummyMummyLydia · 21/01/2019 22:32

I used to get my face threaded but it hurts like hell, costs a fortune every month and leaves face red and sometimes spotty. The threader I went to held the thread with her teeth so globlets of spit could end up in pores urgh. I decided enough was enough and ditched the threader in favour of facial shaving gadgets (£19.99 from BOOTS) and I kid you not it works a treat!
Another recommendation...................

GummyMummyLydia · 21/01/2019 22:36

costs a fortune every month........

I didn't go to the cheap places, full face thread used to cost £48 a time! I have better things to spend my dosh on than that.

MitziK · 21/01/2019 22:41

£12 - £18 here. Plus tea or chilled fruit juice and somebody to tell me once a fortnight that I should be taking it easy/treating myself to makeup and hair products (that they didn't necessarily sell).

£4 - £5 for eyebrows alone.

Aaaahfuck · 21/01/2019 22:44

I think I'm a wrong un' I quite like the feeling of having my eyebrows threaded! I don't have lots to remove though so I probably have it easy!

thehamsters · 21/01/2019 22:49

What even is threading ? How does it work? Is it not just like pulling the hair out ie tweezing !? I need to investigate this!

Brook1yn · 21/01/2019 22:49

Gummy £19.99!? For how many? Confused

You can get those cheap as chips. I use them for my eye brows!

Knitwit101 · 21/01/2019 22:54

I love getting my eyebrows threaded. I lo e the feeling of all those rogue hairs getting pulled out. But I've never had any other part of my face done.
Do you have to do it really regularly once you've started? I only get my brows done every 6 weeks or so and just tidy them up myself in between times.

MitziK · 21/01/2019 23:29

Not if you don't have an almost complete goatee and tash combo excessive dark hairs, you don't. But you might want to keep doing it if you like the smoothness without stubble.

Threading - cotton thread twisted between finger and thumb so that it catches the tiniest hairs that tweezers can't get and you probably can't see in any case. Quicker than individual tweezing, more accurate than waxing, no chemicals you might be allergic (eg, wax, bleach, depilatories), cheap.

GummyMummyLydia · 21/01/2019 23:34

I used to have eyebrows threaded but over time they got thinner and thinner with a little bald patch in one. Big brows are back so I grew them out and have a tweezer tidy which looks just as good thanks to fab beautician.

Brook1yn £19.99 for this gadget www.boots.com/philips-hp6390-20-facial-precision-trimmer-hot-pink-10253472 it's increased in price by a penny. Lasting well so its money well spent. If you watched the video you can buy Tinkle pack of 3 for £4.98 from amazon. I did not buy tinkle I bought The Original Luxury Brow Shaper, Hair Removal Dermaplaning Tool Single Pink Pain Free, Safe and Portable. Great for Eyebrows, Peach Fuzz and all Types of Facial Hair
by Lilibeth. Bit more expensive but worth it imo.