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SUNDAY, 26 NOVEMBER 2017
Working With Brands, How to Say No... politely! #fakeituntilyoumakeit LINK UP
After an interesting post by the lovely Catherine@notdressedaslambthat discussed an event that had caused a bit of a stir... or a "shitstorm" as someone called it (charming!) I started to think about bloggers working with brands.
Working with brands is something many bloggers do, and it can be great fun!
In fact, some people start blogging with the intention of working with (big) brands, makingloadsof money and never having to buy anythingeveragain.
Hmmmm.... it's not quite that simple is it? 😛
The discussion on (and off) Catherine's blog got me thinking about the difference between changing your style (aka: mixing things up) and wearing things you don't actually like, just because you're being paid to do so.
I'm a firm believer in changing your style as you see fit.
Why be stuck in a style rut, or be put in a safe little box?
However, wearing things I don't like because I've been paid to do so is not something I want to do.
I don't think you have to either, even if you're making your living by blogging.
I've had the pleasure of working with a few brands now and have really enjoyed it.
For the most part the brands were new to me (I'd heard of them but never shopped there) and I had to look quite hard to find something that felt like my style.
I always managed it though.
Some items (like THIS maxi) just needed styled up to make it feel like 'me'.
Other items blew my mind and I became hooked on the brand....like this dressandthis cashmere wrap.
{I've just noticed, they'd look fabulous together!}
Nowadays many of the offers I receive I don't accept (the majority in fact).
This may seem a little crazy, but here's why....
Despite the fact brands offer me 'free products' (and even payment) I often don't feel like I can accept.
Unfortunately, being in the "over-40" category makes people (i.e brands) assume I am wanting to buy a certain style of clothes, or shoes.
Often these styles seem frumpy, or old fashioned looking.
Despite my open mind to new brands I sometimes can't find a single item on their site that I could work with.
The cut is not quite right.
The shoes may look dowdy and frumpy.
Often clothes don't even come in my size!
{I havepegged a top in the past but it wasn't from a brand....see that funny post HERE}
So instead of taking goods I don't really like I just say a polite "No thank you".
Usually it goes a little like this....
Dear XXX,
Thank you so much for your email and your offer of collaboration.
Unfortunately, XXX are not really my style and I don't feel I could endorse the brand in a way that my readers would find authentic.
I hope you do not mind my honesty, and I wish you every success with your campaign.
Kind regards,
XXX
So, when you read about an item on Fake Fabulous that comes with a little 'c/o' you know it's something Iactuallylike, which is something we can ALL do.
In fact, all of my favourite bloggers manage it, and some of them rely on their blogs to pay the bills.
Hats off to them!
Last week the fabulous trio atJodie's Touch of Stylemade me smile with their OTK boots, proving that age is no barrier to having fun with fashion.
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SAMANTHA BLAIRATNOVEMBER 26, 2017
Catherine, Not Dressed As LambSunday, 26 November 2017 at 18:50:00 GMT
Samantha thank you so much for the mention about the shitstorm!!!! ���� I’m just having to laugh about it now, certain people have got so incensed that someone’s bad behaviour has been called out that I’m just finding it funny that all they’re doing is sending traffic and engagement my way which ultimately benefits me.
I agree with what you said about how we work with brands - we get criticised left right and centre despite staying true and honest. Thanks for such a great suggestion for how to refuse offers, if only people knew how often we have to send those sorts of emails...!
Much love to you for being open and honest yourself and for your support for Liz, it’s the least she deserves!! C x
I had never heard of this blogger until I saw in Lizzie Insta.
She's the one who's shown the worst behaviour.
Taking something off freinds Twitter that doesn't effect her and putting it on her blog.
They shutting down comments and admitting she did it for selfish reasons.
How she claims to be supportive of women after some if vile and daft comments she made I don't know.