Great thread.
I used to follow a few fashion bloggers including the aforementioned DMBL40.
I think it’s worth pointing out that a huge majority of her followers will have initially been introduced to her via Mumsnet and similar forums so it’s a bit rich of her and her followers to accuse us of ‘hating on her’. If you are a blogger getting paid for it then you are a business and you have to take criticism of that business on the chin and, like PPs have said, respond in a business-like way to that criticism.
I think blogs in general have jumped the shark, thanks to mass monetisation and agents like Gleam. It’s like the amazing first series of Big Brother was on and the housemates had no idea of what the hysteria was like on the outside so they were themselves and it was brilliantly authentic. By series two it was all about people who wanted to be famous because they’d seen the pot at the end of the rainbow. 5e audience didn’t really cotton on for a while but a few years later it tailed off and became a huge self-parody. Similarly, series like Towie. Series one: watch your favourite, relatable, character go to work and chat to her mates about boys and makeup. Series two: watch your favourite character talk about her life as a person on a reality show.
Bloggers should absolutely point out any products that are gifted, subsidised, or handed to them in any other way.
I’m a journalist. If we review something that’s been gifted, we have the words ‘Advertorial’ across the top of the page, or we make it massively clear that the product or trip has been paid for. And we are absolutely honest in our review. I was given a meal at a fancy place a year ago. I went, it was shit, I said so (not in so many words) in the paper. The place called me and couldn’t understand why I’d not been nicer given it had been free. My integrity as a journalist rests on being honest. Why would I lie? Our readers are going to go to that restaurant and discover it’s shit for themselves and see straight through my review if it’s not honest.
Bloggers don’t seem to worry so much about this and I think that’s why people are becoming turned off. I mean, how many times can one person say ‘I just happened to stumble across these boots in Seven Boot Lane’ before followers start mentioning that they don’t know where or what Seven Boot Lane actually is?
And when you’vembeen slagging off M&S for years then you’re suddenly their best customer, readers notice that and are annoyed because they’re being treated like they are too thick to notice.
The second you stop being relatable is the second you should stop blogging and just start your own fashion magazine or something. Blogs were so popular because they offered a unique snapshot into the thoughts of real people who didn’t have the luxury of expressing those thoughts on a wider paltform. Once you’ve got that wider platform, the blog starts to become irrelevant,