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Help, it's me the 40 year old who wasn't sure about dress with boots for evening out! Urgent style advice required (pics attached!)

60 replies

JessiCake · 27/09/2017 19:20

Don't want to be accused of double posting as (inaccurately) happened to me y'day... But need urgent advice and don't want this to come up on my old thread.

I'm the 40 year old with the new cocoon dress who doesn't know if she can get away with ankle boots...

Well I've only just managed to try it all on (leaving in half an hour) and losing my nerve with the ankle boots thing.

I'd not really remembered JUST how scrawny my ankles are. As in they don't remotely fill the boot. Which I think looks silly.

So what do you think? I've posted pics of the boots/tights combo from 2 angles, one of which shows the skinny ankle issue. I also have massive feet which I think makes it worse.

I've also posted on with a grey suede platform heel (very casual in style) in case anyone thinks this looks better. I accept that it may look as if I've forgotten to put the bottom hald of my outfit on, dressed that way. But it negates the scrawny ankle thing.

Please overlook the tip of a bedroom, it's not normally like that but I'm in a massive hurry and have just chucked stuff everywhere!!!

Thanks everyone.

FYI there are NO other options unless I wear trainers. My other ankle boots make my ankles look even more bonkersly skinny and all other heels too formal.

Help, it's me the 40 year old who wasn't sure about dress with boots for evening out! Urgent style advice required (pics attached!)
Help, it's me the 40 year old who wasn't sure about dress with boots for evening out! Urgent style advice required (pics attached!)
Help, it's me the 40 year old who wasn't sure about dress with boots for evening out! Urgent style advice required (pics attached!)
OP posts:
Kenworthington · 27/09/2017 19:31

Boots boots boots boots. Wished my bloody ankle boots gaped rather than squeezed my cankles Envy

JessiCake · 27/09/2017 19:31

OK these are grey boots. I think these could be the ones actually...?

Help, it's me the 40 year old who wasn't sure about dress with boots for evening out! Urgent style advice required (pics attached!)
Help, it's me the 40 year old who wasn't sure about dress with boots for evening out! Urgent style advice required (pics attached!)
OP posts:
CountFosco · 27/09/2017 19:31

Both look fine but I would wear the ankle boots. Slim ankles are desirable, don't worry about them.

TheMasterNotMargarita · 27/09/2017 19:33

I don't really get the obsession with the gape..most of mine are like that. It's ok. You look lovely.

JessiCake · 27/09/2017 19:33

Thanks so much everyone!

OK I am going to hold my nerve and go with the boots. I FEEL quite comfortable in them but worry I look ridiculous.

Any opinions on the second boot - yay or nay?

OP posts:
TheMasterNotMargarita · 27/09/2017 19:33

Prefer the brown.

JessiCake · 27/09/2017 19:34

Ella, nope boots not Hush but last year Dune but in despeartion was looking on a site I knew would have models in boots/dresses!

OP posts:
CountFosco · 27/09/2017 19:34

Original brown boot best. Have fun!

JessiCake · 27/09/2017 19:35

Master - yep i think after looking again, the brown are best.

I am going with brown.

Massive massive thanks. To everyone. And for not laughing at the ridiculousness of this problem!

OP posts:
cod · 27/09/2017 19:35

the boots are too flat

JessiCake · 27/09/2017 19:38

Cod that's what I think may be the problem too actually. Can't do anything about that now as going out in about 10 mins... about an inch higher I think might have helped.

OP posts:
nineinchnails · 27/09/2017 19:40

Brown boots all the way!

cheeseandbiscuitsyum · 27/09/2017 19:44

Ankle boots

Justdontknow4321 · 27/09/2017 20:10

Brown boots.

QueSera · 27/09/2017 20:10

Tan boots 100%

QueSera · 27/09/2017 20:11

To clarify - grey boots!!!

MiracleCure · 27/09/2017 20:11

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Ttbb · 27/09/2017 20:11

Please don't wear grey shoes with black tights.

MadisonAvenue · 27/09/2017 20:12

The brown boots

MadisonAvenue · 27/09/2017 20:14

Oh, I didn't see your update. So pleased you chose the boots. Have a lovely time, you look fab!

JessiCake · 27/09/2017 20:19

En route now and have been Googling better options (that I can't get now or afford!) on the train...

These would have been perfect, wouldn't they?

www.clarks.co.uk/c/Lora-Lana/p/26126738?cm_mmc=DISP_RETARGET--Criteo--LF-_-Feed&CA_6C15C=720015910000104935

Grrrrrrr

OP posts:
MiracleCure · 27/09/2017 20:27

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

JessiCake · 27/09/2017 20:29

Thanks Miracle!!

Actually looking at myorigianl pic again, the brown boots look MUCH flatter than they actually are (bad angle), they're in fact about a 2 even 3inch heel (Cuban)

OK, really have to stop posting now! Thanks again everyone

OP posts:
EllaHen · 27/09/2017 20:32

So, the brown boots are Dune you say ...

sparklefarts · 27/09/2017 20:49

Hahah ok so im the only one that voted shoes?!!!?

Out of all three I think he grey boots are a clear winner.
But ya know, every single person on this thread disagrees with me so maybe I need to reassess my style haha Blush