Dimethicone (in Etude Face Blur) and polymethylsilsesquioxane (in the Bourjois primer above) are silicones. They can be really hard to find in the ingredients. I just discovered that my beloved Supergoop CCs contain dimethicone, which is a PITA.
In the interests of science 
I tried the Too Faced Hangover primer, Urban Decay All Nighter, Clarins Beauty Flash and milk of magnesia last week/weekend.
A combo of Hangover finished with All Nighter seemed to do nothing, everything slid off my nose as always.
Using Beauty Flash my makeup turned out very yellow so I had to take it all off and start again with a cooler shade. I've used it before with no problems so there could be other circumstances at play, eg I haven't been getting a lot of sun for the past too weeks so my foundation was possibly already going to be a bit dark.
I'm intrigued by the MoM idea but I think it may take a bit of time to get the amount right. One time I used too little, the next time I used too much. It makes your face feel a bit gummy, which might be what's required.
I don't really understand what the problem is. My face is not normally all that greasy, nor is my foundation (I tend to use mineral powder makeup unless I need SPF, then I use Supergoop), but at some stage it suddenly becomes all about managing the layer of colour sitting just above my skin. My face tends to be a bit red so the point of the colour is to tone that down and when it begins peeking through it looks worse than no foundation at all.