Perhaps its where they wear them thats the problem.. DD (age 2)wears her character stuff with jeans and trainers to nursery
DS (age 5) is at school but wears it after school when playing
I don't dress them in at at "formal" occasions .. at weddings/proper gatherings they're very smart
I actually like the contrast as it really looks like they've made the effort for special stuff
Wish my mum had had a knitting machine when I was younger