Hekp me find shoes to go with this dress for brothers wedding - Please!!!

[Happysea]

Hello
I am trying to find shoes and a cardigan or jacket to go with this dress from Phase Eight for my brother's wedding in August.
www.octer.co.uk/product/974f4b8d-e5d7-5b08-85ae-a4d18e7f0bb4

I am size 18 and find it so hard to find things that fit (size is mostly due to IBS swelling around stomach) and this one fits and was flattering so I am determined to find something to wear with it to cover up arms!

The lady in phase eight told me to NOT wear black with the dress - but what should i wear instead?

Please help me - I am rubbish at things like this!
Thank you

Dress is lovely. i'd go for nude shoes and a nude wrap or shawl.

uk.monsoon.co.uk/view/product/uk_catalog/mon_23,mon_1.16/9512966338?_$ja=tsid:48544%7Ccid:356445562%7Cagid:27083615002%7Ctid:pla-78553255704%7Ccrid:87709736842%7Cnw:g%7Crnd:12394007101292651380%7Cdvc:m%7Cadp:1o14&gclid=CJL0gcTJocwCFewW0wodiIQM5A

This wrap is nice, tied or draped round you if a little chilly.

www.thewoolcompany.co.uk/diamond-weave-fine-wool-shawl-nude.html?kw=&fl=1000&ci=49866659354&network=pla&gclid=CNydgvLKocwCFa0W0wodDcAJ7g

www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/prod_10701_10001_63126+18231232_-1

Some lower sparkly picks from debenhams, with a red wrsp or shrug could be nice.

Not a red jacket unless it's a perfect match - one designed to go with the dress if there is one. Shoes silver, delicate not hefty navy ones or perhaps cobalt blue. No hat unless you really love them!

The dress is delicious.

Wow! I never in a million years expected such fab advise! You are great! Thanks. I got the dress in the phase eight sale but the didn't have the matching jacket. I've googled and nowhere has it in anything bigger than a 10 unfortunately. I'm
At work at the moment with very limited internet so can't open links but I will do when I get home later. Thank you for giving me the confidence to wear it x

Oh and yes I would feel silly in a hat and as my two boys are page boys I will be running round them the whole time and a hat would annoy me! A jewelled red slide would be fab. I will get looking

www.jjshouse.co.uk/Chiffon-Wedding-Shawl-013020435-g20435

A million things to chose from. Good luck.x