Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Style and beauty

Looking for style advice? Chat all about it here. For the latest discounts on fashion and beauty, sign up for Mumsnet Moneysaver emails.

Crepe Oddity

1000 replies

MrsSchadenfreude · 17/01/2016 19:59

Sorry. GrinGrinGrin

OP posts:
Thread gallery
15
Cremo · 25/01/2016 12:11

Have taken 'confident initiative' and booked to come to London in March.

Proposed MU 12th March??

Cremo
Rudy
Molly

Grin
Blackduck · 25/01/2016 12:23

Add me Cremo...

motherinferior · 25/01/2016 12:31

And I'm sure me too. Just got on train.

Well, it's happened. Chemo not working any more. There is one possible option of another drug but it is quite horrible and probably wouldn't work anyway. I will talk to GP later about palliative care. They are in shock. Me not so much though probably more hammered than I think.

NUFC69 · 25/01/2016 13:00

MI, I am so sorry. Lots of hugs from me, plus strength for the coming weeks and months. It will be doubly difficult for DPs, I would imagine, as they have had their heads in the sand for so long. ThanksWine

bigTillyMint · 25/01/2016 13:05

Proposed MU 12th March??

Cremo
Rudy
Molly
BD
MI
BTM

Lalsy · 25/01/2016 13:19

So sorry, MI. You knew it was coming, but it will still hammer you. Look after yourself.

12 March in diary.

Cremo · 25/01/2016 13:21

Oh bloody hell MI. So sorry. It will be hard for you all I think. I hope very good palliative care can be arranged. Can she have a Macmillan nurse?
so so sorry for ell Crepes going through this at the moment. Courage to you.
we are here for you.... Brew Flowers xx

Cremo · 25/01/2016 13:23

Proposed MU 12th March
Cremo
Rudy
Molly
BD
MI
BTM
Lalsy

CointreauVersial · 25/01/2016 13:30

Oh MI, so sorry. Sad

MrsS - you are spot on about confidence. I need to rediscover mine. Although, it grows a little every day as it dawns on me how good I am at my job.

CV's CV is about to be dusted off......

Blackduck · 25/01/2016 14:06

Oh MI so very very sorry.....

Ahhhhhhh I missed the email re the interview!! But it was last Friday so I wouldn't have made it anyway......

MontserratCaballe · 25/01/2016 14:29

Hello! Sorry to have gone missing for so long. Everything has just been so busy and I've barely had a moment to myself. Back now, though Smile.

I've only read the last few posts, so apologies if I have missed great swathes:

BD, so sorry to hear about your mum. How is she today? Thinking of you Flowers

MI, what sad news, I am so sorry. I know that you feared this would happen but it is so very hard when you are told. Please be gentle with yourself Flowers

CV, I see lots of women of our age who are extremely capable but sell themselves very short. Funnily the men of a similar age are quite full of swagger when it comes to their achievements. I know what you mean about fitting round the children. I have wanted to leave my current role for some time (at least 4 years) but it does work around the children quite well and as my youngest is only 7 I am some way off them being able to fend for themselves. The other jobs open to me would be FT or mean me being self employed, but I am anxious about my ability to build a client base from scratch.

Nu, has your family moved in yet? Also is there any news of that poor woman who went missing on Boxing Day? So very sad for her family and friends.

Rose, I am glad you had a cheery dinner and hope the Wolseley exceeded expectations.

Cremo, how long til your hols now? How is DD doing on her course? Sorry work is so rubbish.

Stropps, glad to see that DD is accepting help and a bit more settled. How is DS managing the SATS run up? My DD is also year 6 and is doing a LOT of past papers. It is very dull. How they will sustain this level of enthusiasm for it til May I don't know.

BTM, hope all is well with you and the children now. Any word on the boy at K who was injured? Hope he is on the mend.

Hello, Rudy, how are you? And you, Beachy?

Herbs, saw on FB that your client went well. Are there more in the offing? And how is your DS getting on with sparkle club? My DS is struggling badly with his writing so I have initiated a home sparkle club, based around an excellent book which Stropps put me onto {thank you, Stropps]. He is making slow but steady progress.

Hello, Hatty, how is the job going?

Hope everyone else is well. Sorry I couldn't make lunch on Sat - MI kindly texted me as I was not keeping up on here. Peckham is very close to my 'hood but my driving / hairstyling / horse knowledge (ie which top to wear with the jodhpurs etc) is required on Sat in the daytime. I will have a look at the 12th though and see if I can slope off in the evening.

Love to you all.

BeachysFlipFlops · 25/01/2016 14:40

Id love to come on 12th please.....

Sorry to hear your bad news, MI. Strangely enough, when my dmum reached the stage of 'nothing more they could do' she was quite relieved in a way. She knew all the treatments were prolonging the inevitable and I think she just felt that enough was enough..... It wasn't giving up, just accepting and getting on with it Sad we just went along with her....

Stropperella · 25/01/2016 15:05

Hi Monty, I'm glad the handwriting book is proving to be useful. Hope the progress continues. Re: SATs - ds isn't doing many past papers because of the curriculum changes and the changes to the SATs. They are doing weekly "nasty" maths tests and grammar, grammar and then a bit more grammar in English. Ds is v grumpy and has gone right off the maths teacher, who keeps shouting at the pupils because of their "avoidable" mistakes. (It's a large middle school, so they are in sets and have subject specialists teaching maths, science and French.) In fact, ds has generally gone off school. Prob a combination of age and stage..

MI, I am so very sorry to hear your update. Be kind to yourself.

BD, sorry about the job. But you have a lot on your plate just now. And hopefully other opportunities will come along.

Go CV! I'm sure you could be successful enough to have 6 houses if you wanted to. Grin

Something I find v difficult about being back in a workplace in the outside world is that I frequently struggle with taking seriously some things (and people) that are deemed "important" by other people. I think to myself, "Feh, that is a load of window-dressing bollocks and no one will care about that in a few months." Except sometimes I don't think it to myself and unfortunately actually say it. Loudly. I am getting really bad for this across the board, not just in my new workplace. I appear to have turned into a dreadful old bat who tells it how she thinks it is and doesn't give two craps. I think that dealing with dd's trials for the last 5 years have something to do with this. Or maybe it is just age and stage (like ds - see above Grin ). I'm not sure that this makes me a joy to work with.

addle · 25/01/2016 15:19

BD and MI, I'm so sorry. Thinking of you both and hoping everything possible can be done to keep your DMs as pain free as possible

NU, you live in a hugely beautiful part of the world, don't you? what a lovely, lovely place.

The weekend was absolutely wonderful. I'm going to go back every year for the rest of my life.

Lalsy · 25/01/2016 16:04

Stropps, I am sure working with you is very stimulating and fun. One of the things I love about my volunteering is people tell it like it is, often extremely robustly Grin. I too need a new career [puts head back in sand].

Monty, I don't know what field you are in but a lot of freelance work in mine and related fields now seems to go to agencies set up by bt experts who then subcontract for peanuts to proper people. And eg universities, charities, public sector bodies have got a lot more "professional" which makes them harder to work for as an individual (eg over the top confidentiality agreements = hard to land next job).

bigTillyMint · 25/01/2016 16:17

Oh MI, just seen your post. Flowers

BD, so sorry you missed the interview email.

Stropps, you are quite right to be cynical about just about all the changes in education. It's a hamster wheel and "new" stuff is just old stuff re-hashed or snake oilWink

hattymattie · 25/01/2016 16:19

Just logged in and caught up. BD - I am so sorry to hear your news.SadFlowers.

MI hope this evening goes OK.

BeachysFlipFlops · 25/01/2016 16:28

BD, any chance you could call and explain the mitigating circumstances?

Blackduck · 25/01/2016 16:31

Beachy have sent emails explaining mitigating circs. Am hoping it was a two round interview process so that I can be squeezed in.....

NUFC69 · 25/01/2016 16:35

Addle, so pleased to hear that you enjoyed yourself. Whereabouts did you actually go?

Monty, thank you for asking about Sally - everyone has accepted that she has gone. I think there is going to be a memorial service for her next month which will be incredibly difficult for us all. I can't imagine what her family is going through. DS and family haven't moved in yet; they will be here no later than 20th February, then after a few days they are off to Jamaica for two weeks for a wedding. I am sure you will not be surprised to hear that DH and I have just arranged a couple of nights in Harrogate in March, a week in Majorca and a couple of days in York during April. Grin We are seeing a lot more of them atm as they have no washing machine (and their house is rather cold with the building work).

motherinferior · 25/01/2016 17:24

AAAAARGH have just had Indian Auntie (not actually related but same diff) on phone quizzing me about treatment, possibility of further ops (to take out what???) need to visit regularly etc etc.

This is such fun.

magimedi · 25/01/2016 17:45

MI - poor you. Can you field any of the calls at all? Maybe promise to ring every week/twice a week & at least the calls are on your terms then.

DH has spent the afternoon making marmalade. Guess who just washed the kitchen floor?? To be fair, the smell was lovely & made me think of summer.

Lalsy · 25/01/2016 17:49

MI, I really sympathise. This happened to me and my dsis with my df and it was one of the worst bits. Looking back, I wish someone else had been able to take over comms with more distant friends and family.

NU, I am so sorry about your friend, so sad and baffling.

CointreauVersial · 25/01/2016 17:57

I just phoned a local recruitment consultant and am popping in to see her tomorrow with my CV!

She's someone I've used before when we've recruited staff, and she's very good. It's only local, but it's a start, at least.

bigTillyMint · 25/01/2016 18:58

Go you, CV!

Fingers crossed for you BD.

Addle, I love Northumberland too. Shame it's so far away.

MMEnvy I love marmalade!

Cremo, Happy Hols Smile

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.