Sorry it's one of those threads. I have lost nearly three stone after being overweight for my whole life. I started at 12 stone 8lbs (not the heaviest I have been) and now weigh 9 stone 11. I am 5ft6 with a big frame. The only problem is, I still see the fat kid in the mirror. I still see a huge belly, massive thighs, wobbly arms etc etc.
Family members have stopped congratulating me on my weightloss and started saying things like "you aren't going to lose any more are you?" And "if you lose much more you are going to look ill".
Can you please give an objective view on how much more you would aim to lose if you were me. I think my family are so used to seeing me overweight, they can't be objective at all. I also thought that I would just know when I was at the right weight, but I still feel fat, but I don't know if that's because of always being the fat one iyswim.
I'm not looking for compliments, I'm just trying to work out if my family are right? Or if I should still be aiming to lose more. I had 9 stone as a goal, but my mum seems to think I will look awful. I just can't tell :( please help.
I'm not that fussed if this outs me, I'm very boring :)