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Where do the 30 something men in your life shop?

37 replies

ethelb · 04/06/2015 21:39

DH never shops for clothes but on discovering a hole in his single pair of work trousers and a fairly juicy tax rebate this week he has decided he needs some new work, and casual clothes.
He needs work trousers, some smarting v neck jumpers, shirts and casual shirts. Oh and some new jeans. Any ideas
He is 6'1 and fairly long limbed, broad of shoulder Gap and M&s. Top shop is a bit 'young' ConfusedConfused

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ethelb · 04/06/2015 21:39

That should say any ideas other than gap, m&S etc

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AlwaysOneMissing · 04/06/2015 21:41

Ralph Lauren good for broad shoulders.

Artandco · 04/06/2015 21:47

Dh is 29. He likes massimo dutti for casual chinos and tops. Hugo boss for some shirts and jumpers. Ralph Lauren or Levi jeans. Charles tyrwitt or hawes and Curtis for work shirts.

He still wears some tshirts from his teens though from God knows where

morethanpotatoprints · 04/06/2015 21:48

I don't have 30 men in my life, chance would be a fine thing Grin
Sorry.....

RedDwarfPosse · 04/06/2015 21:54

He doesn't shop anywhere that's why he looks like frickin tramp!!

He hates shopping and has no eye for style so just avoids it. But if I go with him and try to advise him he complains I'm trying to dress him MY way! It's ridiculous so I've given up... I'm just glad his friends & family have now started to point out he could do with sprucing up his pathetic wardrobe! Grin

ethelb · 04/06/2015 21:56

Should there be a hyphen in there?!

Thanks for the recommendations. Just suggested DH looked at ASOS for tshirt a and he asked if they were the horrible people who made disabled people workWink we have a long way to go.

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NanoNinja · 04/06/2015 21:58

Sounds similar to my DH in terms of build. He spends much more than I do on clothes, and generally goes to Sunspel and Howies for casual. Emmett for shirts. Paul Smith for business causal.

Liberated71 · 04/06/2015 22:01

TKMax - great choice, some designer stuff, different things and cheap too. My 30something loves it (and Sports Direct sometimes too - shhhhh)

Hottypotty · 04/06/2015 22:04

Dh is 35. He lives in Charles tyritt shirts and next or gap jeans.

Skinheadmermaid · 04/06/2015 22:32

DH is 31 and mainly shops in TK Maxx, H&M, River Island and Primark. We both find places like M&S too old fashioned. He mostly wears straight leg jeans, shirts and boots.

Rox19 · 04/06/2015 23:41

River Island, primark, new look
Peacocks sometimes has exact replicas of branded clothes
New look often replicates ted baker very closely

Butterflywings168 · 04/06/2015 23:56

Ex-p liked clothes shopping more than I do.
Yes, he would agree the likes of Topshop, River Island etc are 'too young'. M&S he quite liked for classic basics. H&M, Zara men, Debenhams (some designers, some Red Herring). Charity shops in up-and-coming areas (not that he admitted it).

Butterflywings168 · 04/06/2015 23:59

Oh yy forgot Tkmaxx.
And New Look on occasion.

PurpleDaisies · 05/06/2015 00:01

For suits and work shirts it's hard to beat Jaeger at a designer outlet village. Fantastic quality and really good prices (still not ultra cheap but really good quality and last for years).

FirstOfficerDouglasRichardson · 05/06/2015 07:43

DH shops in Gap mainly, sometimes M&S. Except for work shirts where he favours TM Lewin. He sometimes finds bargains in TK Maxx.

PurplePoppySeed · 05/06/2015 07:46

My DH shops at Fat face, white stuff, musto and crew for casuals... Work I think is normally French connection and/or t m lewin. Possibly not the "look" he wants though?

BikeRunSki · 05/06/2015 07:47

ha! I was going to say that DH mostly buys his work clothes from Gap and m&s.

For casual stuff, he likes Howies

yallahabibi · 05/06/2015 08:05

It is so much easier for a man to look smart.
Mine is not a trendy type
Charles Tywhirtt for suits, shirts and shoes.
Armani for jeans ,chino jeans and casual but dressy shirts . Massimo dutti casual shoes and birkies.
Gap for polos and shorts . He buys smart casual blazers from a random Aussie shop he encountered on holiday .
He has a tie thing and will spend loads on silk ones .

chanie44 · 05/06/2015 08:24

My OH is early 40s and wears jeans and t shirts. He hates shopping. He does quite like the brands in house of Fraser for his clothes - ted baker, Hugo boss, superdry, Ralph Lauren etc.

JaniceJoplin · 05/06/2015 08:32

My DH (42) bought a new tshirt the other day from top shop and yesterday he was in a supermarket standing next to an 8 year old boy wearing the same one Shock

Coastingit · 05/06/2015 08:47

My DH is tall and slim and mostly shops in Zara.

He also likes TK Maxx for work shirts and random finds, he's worse than me and can spend hours in that shop Confused and usually Levi's or Nudie for jeans. Office for shoes.

He doesn't shop much but is better at it than me, he would never venture into Primark or Tesco but still seems to spend a lot less than me and look better Envy he is fit though [smug]

DragonWithAGirlTattoo · 05/06/2015 08:54

Fat Face, White Stuff, Primark,

perfectlybroken · 05/06/2015 08:55

Bhs do a great range if mens chinos, which dh lives in, other than that normally primark (I think their mens clothes are loads better than the womens). We get more expensive stuff from eBay such as a cotton John Rocha blazer.

AmberNectarine · 05/06/2015 09:32

My DH is 35 and follows a fairly simple formula.

Suits, shirts, ties - he has a tailor who makes them all for him
Work shoes - Loake
Jeans - Diesel
T-shirts and polo shirts - Ralph Lauren, Gap, American Vintage, Uniqlo
Casual shirts - Gap
Knitwear - Ralph Lauren, Gap, Uniqlo
Trainers - Nike, Adidas, New Balance
Casual shoes - Grenson, H by Hudson

He sticks to a palette of navy, grey, mid-blue, burgundy and white. Everything goes together and he looks pretty good, IMO.

VolumniaDedlock · 05/06/2015 09:38

work - M&S, Next, House of Fraser
not work - Mostly Uniqlo, also GAP and Primark

one trip a year for casual, one for smart. Shopping strictly on a replacement basis only