Tell me what it is please?
I have lots of fine dry highlighted hair that is always a bit straggly at the ends, I need some tlc. I blow dry and don't use irons anymore which has helped a bit.
I do occasionally find one I love - Joico K-Pak, Kerastase Ciment one - but my hair seems to get used to them quickly.
I'm not up for going silicon free although I limit it in styling (Extraordinary Oil only for nights out etc) but open to suggestions.
And I do weekly coconut oil soaks which definitely strengthens it.