Sorry you're sick, Herbs, that's horrible.
Fingers crossed for ds and dp staying well.
MI, what a triumph - definitely go out for a nice lunch - they made you work really hard for that, so you deserve to celebrate and self-congratulate. As for showing a clean pair of heels
- I dread to think what you have seen of mine, so to speak.
We have mixed sleepovers but some parents are somewhat wary of them, so I have to do massive reassurance about our level of vigilance (high). Also we lock up the alcohol, and give dire warnings that if anything at all untoward happens, they will never ever ever have a sleepover of any kind again.