My face healed completely from very similar adverse side effects in 2 - 3 days. I then went back to using my retinol but took it slowly. I have recently used it a few nights in a row with no irritation so I can see my skin is building up a tolerance and acclimatising - yay!
On a positive note, the reason these side effects occur is because we're using products and active ingredients that actually work. I can already see results from the retinol - my skin looks fresher, smoother, clearer. So many skin care products (that can cost a bomb) just sit there on the skins surface not really doing anything. I'll never waste my money again.
I decided too, fairly recently, that my skin care regime needed a massive overhaul. I had skin that was good, but. The but was that I was still prone to spots and there always seemed to be something that needed covering with concealer. I never had loads of blemishes but there was always something either coming or going, and at 37 I was fed up with it. I did a lot of research online (Dr Sam Bunting's blog was invaluable) and decided I needed to start using only non comedogenic products and a retinoid.
So now I use Avene Triacneal after cleansing at night, and Vichy Normaderm Global Hydrating Care, which contains a fairly potent formula of both AHA's and BHA's after cleansing in the morning. I also sometimes use Alpha H vitamin serums in the morning as well. Then just simple, non comedogenic cleansers, moisturisers, and sun-block either side of the actives and that's it. It's early days, but like I said I can already see an improvement in my skin.
Soon I will look like a foundation advert and I will rejoice! 
But there's definitely an initial stage to be got through as real active ingredients that work can be irritating. You just have to get through the first couple of weeks of pain, and then it will be worth it. 