We may or may not have met before... (shh)
I'm a hardcore fumehead who loves Tauers and tries everything - including Heat by Beyoncé. 
Nuit etoilee underwhelmed me too (named after my favorite van Gogh, but so wan and pale - where are the angry, psychotic comets?). Orange Star is tricky on me, bordering on unwearable.
Today I'm wearing Oud Ispahan. This is Portrait of a Lady taken one step further - a pungent rose oud with ultraviolet sillage. I have a 7,5 ml mini and it will last a long time - very strong stuff.
Perfume books can be really great. Without them, I wouldn't have found the really great stuff. Blogs are a good source of info as well - I've really enjoyed Perfume Shrine's recent post on fruity florals.