Remus Yes, I preferred the TopShop ones but I wouldn't want to pay £38
for ones that can only be worn with a heel because that would mean they never get worn really. I think I need a cheaper pair to start with.
I was so proud fitting in to TopShop size 10, at my biggest I couldn't even shop in there at all, they just didn't make anything big enough 
Cummerbund I think you are right to be honest, I much prefer the dark ones. Mine are these from Dorothy Perkins. Not sure if its just because I feel safer in teh darker ones though.
I wasn't as sure about the M&S red jeggings, I felt a bit chunky in them though they were very comfortable so might get a pair in the darker colour.
I loved the blazer though. I didn't get it because it was £40 and I need to think about it but might start with a cheap one and if I find that I like wearing one then I'd get a nicer one that should last.
I had a good look at other women whilst I was out to see what others are wearing. One woman, about my age I think with young children in tow, was wearing indigo skinnies like mine, with converse and a grey jersey material blazer and a scarf. It looked casual but really good. I think I'd quite like that outfit myself.