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Is anyone here a pear shape that has found their signature style?

41 replies

sweetheart · 07/02/2012 15:53

I've been reading a thread about style and I can sympathise with the op's feeling of being lost!

I had my colours and style done this year and found it all utterly baffling! I'm hoping to find some kind of coach on here to stear me through it all?

I know I'm a pear - I'm not sure about all this low rise / high rise business! I don't like things that are too frilly or fussy but I feel I am a boring dresser! I like classic styles but I don't really need to wear them in day to day life so I'm at a bit of a loss really - also being warm is very important to me especially in winter as I feel the cold a lot! Being warm doesn't usually go hand in hadn with being stylish!

Anyone got any words of wisdom for me?

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dexter73 · 07/02/2012 16:03

I am pear shaped and I always wear low rise trousers/jeans otherwise my arese looks enormous! Also I have a short body so again low rise works better for me. I wear skinny/straight jeans a lot with sweaters,t-shirts,cardys. I also like jersey dresses with tights and boots. I wear heattech thermal tops to keep warm.

sweetheart · 07/02/2012 16:08

hmmmm typical I'm not a lover of low rise! I hate my muffin top being out and I spend the whole time trying to pull them up - plus I find I get a cold draft around my belly / love handles!

How do I figure out all this short body buiness and what that means in relation to clothes?

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nickelhasababy · 07/02/2012 16:09

fit and flare for dresses.
it means that i don't have to worry about the dress clinging to my hips, or not fitting at the waist.
i get the size that fits my bust, and it just flares nicely over my hips.
:)

Bunbaker · 07/02/2012 16:11

I am a tall pear and hate low rise trousers and jeans with a vengeance. They make my backside look huge and are so uncomfortable. Skinnies don't work on me unless I am wearing a very long top. A line skirts are flattering and fit better than pencil skirts which tend to cater for women with no waist. Gap curvy jeans are a good look on me and so are bootcut (I don't care about being fashionable, I would far rather dress for my shape).

I bought this dress a few weeks ago and the fit is perfect for a pear like me. It is too low cut for me so I wear a black camisole under it. I have a similar style of dress in black and white as well.

Shift dresses are a no-no. For them to fit my hips they would be too loose and baggy on the (non existant) bust.

nickelhasababy · 07/02/2012 16:12

like this

nickelhasababy · 07/02/2012 16:13

[http://www.asos.com/Ted-Baker/Ted-Baker-Lace-Detail-Fit-and-Flare-Dress/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=1865856&cid=5235&sh=0&pge=162&pgesize=20&sort=-1&clr=00-black&utm_source=google_product_search&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=google_product_search&WT.tsrc=Google%20Product%20Search or this]]
i'd wear it with opaque tights

nickelhasababy · 07/02/2012 16:14

i mean this

nickelhasababy · 07/02/2012 16:14

asos seems to have loads

sweetheart · 07/02/2012 16:22

I'm always worried that those flare dresses make my hips / arse look huge! I think I have short legs too which means I have to get the length just right so I don't look dumpy.

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dexter73 · 07/02/2012 16:46

I like the asos dress - can't wait for it to be warm enough to wear summer dresses again!

Abzs · 07/02/2012 17:06

I'm very pear shaped. 6-8 top + 10-12 bottom. Defined waists and no skinny trousers.

Currently liking Oasis 'tulip' skirted dresses.

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wickedfairy · 08/02/2012 07:39

Sweetheart - I am the op on the other thread, sorry I can't comment on pear shape, I am one of the people with no waist and a flabby stomach!

Sorry to hijack, but was wondering what you found baffling about getting your colours and style done? I was hoping that when I get mine done, it would be a revelation and that I would be slightly less confused! Did you find that the colours made you look much better? TIA Smile

Bunbaker · 08/02/2012 08:44

Can I jump in here? I had my colours done many years ago and find it easy to choose clothes that suit me colourwise. I found that the session simply confirmed why my favourite and least favourite colours were what they were. I simply walk past all the clothes that I know won't suit me. So, for me, that means never going clothes shopping in autumn as all those autumnal colours do absolutely nothing for me.

I would love to have someone advise me on style though.

nickelhasababy · 08/02/2012 10:44

ah, colours!
I remember years ago, when I was at uni, I didn't have an awful lot of clothes, and being a bit of a goth, most of my clothes were black and purple. It was a bit boring, i have to say (purple didn't really suit me)

My friend took me shopping, and we spent all day trying to work out what my best colour was.
It turned out to be red.
I still have an affinity towards red clothes now, .... years later.
Grin

definitely worth finding out your best colours

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iseenodavidcopperfield · 08/02/2012 10:56

Another pear here and agree with Abzs totally & add no low-rise. Note - I am more generously proportioned Grin. Pencil skirts are good but you need the right shop so eg Next is rubbish because the hip to waist ratio is tiny. Work wardrobe tends to shift dresses with waist length jacket. Can put a fine jumper underneath. I do like 3/4 sleeves apparently the shorter length draws the eye to the waist again.

dexter73 · 08/02/2012 11:06

I'm just wondering why you think low rise is less flattering than high rise jeans? If I wear high rise my bum looks about a foot long!

Bunbaker · 08/02/2012 11:14

"Next is rubbish because the hip to waist ratio is tiny."

I agree. They only cater for apples, not pears. I find that M & S do as well. My experience ofs hift dresses tend to be for women of equal proportion and are tight on the hips and baggy on the bust on me.

Bunbaker · 08/02/2012 11:16

"I'm just wondering why you think low rise is less flattering than high rise jeans? If I wear high rise my bum looks about a foot long!"

Mine doesn't. I find low rise so uncomfortable and am always having to hitch my trousers up. Perhaps it depends on what you wear with them. Or perhaps my torso is longer and high rise doesn't look that high rise on me - I am fairly tall.

iseenodavidcopperfield · 08/02/2012 11:19

Low rise is less flattering because it draws a line on your hips which for a pear is the widest part of your anatomy. See also sweetheart's comment re muffin top unless you are a skinny pear. Go for high rise and add eye catching belt?

startail · 08/02/2012 11:21

Marking my place, you ladies are very much my shape.

TantePiste · 08/02/2012 11:41

Another useful thing to do is identify people in the news/on tv with your shape and see what they wear. Some will have stylist assistance one can learn from. Trinny is a pear and analyzes herself in the trinny/susannah books. Also michelle obama is a pear and is instructive because imo she runs the gamut between great success and cringeworthy. Which is great because one can really think about what is working or not.