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what would you say is key to looking "polished"?

61 replies

lollipoppet · 23/07/2011 11:20

And can it be done when you don't have buckets of time and money?
And do you have to wear heels??

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DooinMeCleanin · 23/07/2011 11:21

Nice hair, which means I fail Grin

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 23/07/2011 11:24

I agree that hair is key - but mine is crap.

Blusher.

smugmumofboys · 23/07/2011 11:27

I once overheard someone say that she aimed for good hair and nice shoes and hoped noone would notice what was going on in between.

Seems eminently sensible to me.

BlameItOnTheBogey · 23/07/2011 11:28

Blow dried hair. Decent underwear and manicure and pedicure. I don't have time for this on a regular basis these days but it makes an enormous difference.

dycey · 23/07/2011 11:51

Def hair and nails - maybe some quiet but v classy jewellery.

bellavita · 23/07/2011 11:54

Ironed clothes, nice hair, nails and a bit of makeup.

Sometimes I wear heels and sometimes flats. I think if you fee, good about yourself, it doesn't matter if you don't wear heels all the time.

bellavita · 23/07/2011 11:55

Feel good

MrsCampbellBlack · 23/07/2011 11:57

What Bella said and being clean too so no greasy hair shoved in a pony tail.

Oh and no shoes in need of polishing /re-heeling

WhatsWrongWithYou · 23/07/2011 12:26

Styled hair (meaning blow-dried after washing but not necessarily every day), nice skin, bit of make up, ironed and flattering clothes, different shoes depending on outfit.
I agree with shoes needing to look looked-after but am rubbish at this.

AnnThology · 23/07/2011 15:03

good skin and shiny hair and not the terrible english affliction of shit hair colour

thestringcheeseincident · 23/07/2011 15:06

Shiny clean hair.
Good skin and manicured nails.
Clean clothes.

MissBeehiving · 23/07/2011 15:38

Healthy hair
Decent skin and makeup but not shovelled on with a trowel
Well fitting clean ironed clothes
Clean nails
Decent teeth
Clean shoes

BelleDameSansMerci · 23/07/2011 15:48

Bloody hard work!

All the above as a minimum. If you really want polished, I think you poise, grace and elegance too.

Balconygarden · 23/07/2011 16:17

Shower, clean hair and nails.
Mascara,
lip tint/gloss,
little silver earings,
wedding/engagement/ or other nice ring,
Clean clothes.

Pootles2010 · 23/07/2011 16:20

Just sticking pair of nice stud earrings makes big difference, especially if sticking hair in ponytail.

otchayaniye · 23/07/2011 16:48

Good hair, good shoes. The rest can fall into place easily with a bit of style nous.

You don't have to have mani/pedis or wear heels or lots of makeup to be polished.

A standout watch or item of jewellery or other accessory can help.

polyhymnia · 23/07/2011 17:38

Heels definitely not essential so long as shoes look good and complement outfit (not necessarily in a boring, mathcy-matchy way).

Don't personally think stud ear-rings essential either - in fact, studs plus pony-tail could look very un-classy.

'Standout' accessory good as long as it stands out for its quality and 'interest' factor not because it's flashy/ ostentatious.

Often less is more. Didn't some great - probably French - style expert say that you should always look at yourself in the mirror before going out, and then take one accessory off? Not that I personally have the inclination/time for such self-examination before rushing to the supermarket...

ameliagrey · 23/07/2011 17:41

Subtle make up daily and always lippie/gloss !

Finger nails filed and painted a nude/clear shade. Feet done too .
Do this once week. Takes 30 minutes.

Hair never allowed to get too dirty .

Clothes clean and appropriate for purpose.

Get rid of the ubiquitous fleece unless you are gardening or on a country walk.

otchayaniye · 23/07/2011 17:44

Totally disagree. You can look very polished without makeup and nails done. Not that I do, but you can. It helps to be 19 and working in fashion, however..

ameliagrey · 23/07/2011 17:48

Are you 19?

Wait till you are 55 and look like death warmed up without a bit of foundation, mascara and blusher.

psiloveyou · 23/07/2011 18:26

I'm not sure. Reading the above I should look polished every day. I wash and blow dry my (very expensively coloured) hair each morning. Always wear a little make up and nice clothes.
I don't feel polished though. I think self confidence is the key and feeling good about yourself.
Sometimes I see mums who have thrown on a pair of jeans, t shirt and flatties. They might not be wearing make up (although I agree they do always have nice hair). Something about them screams confidence and class. I aspire to be that mum but never quite feel I've made it.

dexter73 · 23/07/2011 18:51

I have never felt 'polished' in my life and I think this might be down to the fact that I have mad curly hair. I think you need to be smooth and sleek to look polished.

kyacat · 23/07/2011 20:28

Hair done, natural/subtle make-up applied well, ironed well-fitting clothes, and clean shoes.

Gillybobs · 23/07/2011 20:38

Agree with hair done/maek up and nails etc but there is something about wearing a smart jacket and good shoes that always makes me feel "together"

tigercametotea · 23/07/2011 20:43

Nice hair, good skin, well-manicured nails, neat appearance, and poise.

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